I think she likes some one else and i just want to die im in love and in pain help
2007-12-11 17:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by darkhell1990 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell us...GO tell her....She and you are the only 2 that can fix this...Pour your heart out...Hurry....
2007-12-11 17:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by smokey_crim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brother, u left her for a reason. Maybe it was she embarrassed you, you weren't attracted to her enough, or maybe you couldn't be yourself around her. If any of this sounds slightly familiar then you did the right thing. Maybe she was untrue, honestly - whatever! If you truly think she is the one for your then take the leap but be a MAN about it. Women like men, not boys. But, if you broke up with her for one of the above reasons then do yourself a favor. Move on. There are too many options, just don't forget that you have to seek them out in other words - Go For it. Nothing makes a heart broken man happier then finding a women that makes him happier then the one he had before. Trust me this does happen, you just have to want it bad enough. It always takes awhile to get over the good ones but there is nothing like finding the next one. The saddle is ready, how about you?......
2007-12-11 17:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by The Good Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but it IS your fault. My ex-boyfriend did the same to me, I pleaded with him- saying that I loved him, but he wouldn't have it. We dated for 1 1-2 years. He left me when my parents went through a divorce, he left me when I was vulnerable...
I think she likes someone else, because after all this time- she's finally let go. She found someone else who makes her heart beat fast... If you want her back, you can't look on the past- you have to start new. Start talking to her, try to (patiently) get to know her again. A person changes.
take your time, try to be the person who you want her to see, not the person who left her behind. Let time tell, I hope this helps
2007-12-11 17:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by bratworth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there are at least 1,306,313, 8?? billion people in China who don't give a rip about your problem and it doesn't sound like many here do either. The only one that might care is the one you should be talking to. So go already! Don't let the grass grow under your feet! Are you still here? Go talk to your girlfriend before her heart is stolen! And think before you say something like that again!
2007-12-11 17:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait.. YOU left your GF...and now she likes someone else and you are having an issue.
Thats how it goes my friend.
I always said it was ok to sulk and cry for a few days but then get out and start dating again. Once you got some sweet lookin lil honey on your arm you will forget all about her.
2007-12-11 17:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her how you feel, that you made a mistake but don't push it after laying it all out. You messed up, it is great you have figured that out but you have to deal with the consequences, either way, she probably needs some time to figure out what she is going to do.
2007-12-11 17:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you need to tell her exactly how you feel or you will be in pain for a long time and it sucks when that happens because you actually want to die
2007-12-11 17:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by KK B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude move on, If you cant then talk to her and tell her your emotions.But when you say something to her make sure it sounds very sad (pretend you got hit in the golden sack) And in no time she will be crawling back. But it might take a few days.
2007-12-11 17:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by SirMIrv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think, you're just being sensetive. try to date her out and once for all ask her face to face if she's dating someone else?? or does she still loves u?? If she really does or dont, u will still feels better, rather then u keep thinking of something that U imagine of
2007-12-11 17:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is tell her that you made a mistake..dont go on and on about how you still love her, that way you'll seem more serious about it. Then let her decide what she wants to do about it.
Ok, well maybe tell her you made a BIG mistake, and look really sad...
2007-12-11 17:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by javaKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love her? could it be that you don't want her... but don't want nobody wanting her either? or that you expected her to "not" move on so quickly?
Think about it, and if you still think you truly love her then try to fix your (pretty foolish) mistake and talk to her.
2007-12-11 17:08:19 · answer #11 · answered by Karla T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋