I am an attractive female, not to sound conceited. I have my sights set on this one particular guy, but he is playing hard-to-get. He asks my friends about me, but when I try to converse with him, he acts like he could care less whether I talk to him or not. I don't like to be "the hunter" per say... I wonder if I'm wasting my time trying to get him to notice I'm alive...
2007-12-11 16:59:46 · 19 answers · asked by Poptart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well there are plenty fish in the sea so don't stress over one guy. Don't worry you'll find that special someone one day.
2007-12-11 17:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was interested he would let you know. He wouldnt act like he could care less. He might be asking your friends about you in a way like whats her story, not because hes interested. Because he cant figure out why he's sending you messages that he could care less and youre not getting it. Ask your friends exactly what his questions are. But I think youre wasting your time. Even the shyest guys will go to the ends of the earth to pursuit a girl they like. They dont lose your phone numbers 2 or 3 times. Theyre not too busy. You know they like you.
2007-12-12 01:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by aperfectpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be just shy. Boys are that way. It's a ploy to get women to have sex with them and often done unconsciously out of their conscious control.
If your attractive, which I can hardly tell if you're telling the truth from the size of your picture, then go after someone else. Men are supposed to be the hunters. If you appear willing and eager, his hunter instincts will fade and he'll look for a more unattainable prey.
2007-12-12 01:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Neomaxizoomedweebie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so it's a bit of a guy problem aye personally myself experience alot of them do yous have things in common and if this has been going on for a while well yes his playing hard to get but just turn around and play his game for a week and if you see him feeling neglected then its working then he does have feelings for you he just doesn't know how to express them and the reason why he does act like he cares less is coz he wants to hear more or like i said doesn't know how to express himself but if the whole playing the game back to him doesn't work within a week and you don't get at lest one reply back from hI'm then girl im sorry but move one coz there is a nicer and kinder guy out there that is the right one for you
2007-12-12 01:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Popstart,
yes, this guy is leading u on a leatherhunt. Just forget him my dear, instead of wasting ur time. He isjust not serious enough is playing the fool. Just having some fun at ur expense.
If u r attractive enough no need to worry. there r plenty of good, honest guys in the world.
Hope u meet one such soon !
2007-12-12 01:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he already notices you, you are wasting your time trying to get him to. You should get your friends to give him advice on what to do. He is just acting nonchalant as a cover for how he really feels, alot of people do this because they are afraid of rejection. If you know for sure how he feels. Swallow your pride and ask him out. You don't want to miss out on something because both of you are too shy.
2007-12-12 01:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by dghfhktuiypjn49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he's testing the waters. If he's anything like me, then he will have to be smacked in the head with a brick that says, "hey doofus, ask me out...I like you"
Just play a little flirtatiously coy about it all...
2007-12-12 01:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this before, and it's such an annoying feeling. I'd say just dont put so much effort into talking to him anymore. If he really wants to get to know you, HE'LL do something about it.
2007-12-12 01:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah Human courtship, a painfull and humiliating tradition but someone has to make the first move, at least you'll know.
2007-12-12 01:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men chase women not the other way around. If he really wanted to be with you, he should have done so by now so girlfriend move on.
2007-12-12 01:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by bobi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋