so were 14 im not a virgin and she said she was now she has had a hard past and im kinda her way to being happy and safe but when we first started going out she told me she was and i was honest and we were talking about it about a week ago and she said she still was but her friend told me that she isnt and i am 100% sure she is telling the truth so should i tell her i no or just let it go
2007-12-11 16:48:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
believe your girlfriend. perhaps she didn't want to tell you because in her eyes perhaps you would have thought she was a sl*t or something whereas if she was a virgin she'd be "pure".
2007-12-11 17:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by LouLouEm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing for you to bother your head whether she is a virgin or not.If she wants to keep some secrets to herself, she has every rights to do so. You have to respect her feelings. She may be your friend, but that does not make it obligatory for her to reveal all aspects of her life to you. Friendship has very little to do with personal matters.
2007-12-11 17:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh 14 yr olds these days are very loose!!
when i was 14 i was out at the mall not worrying about if my 14 yr old sexual partner was a virgin or not!!
2007-12-11 16:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by i love NOLA! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? are you running around looking for virgins only?. at 14 you need to be reading school books and learning other things. or else you will learn how to raise a baby you dont need .
2007-12-11 16:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by joes_mom86 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! either you want to be with her or not. decide! You're 14! Better be using birth control or someone is going to be calling you daddy for the rest of your life!
2007-12-11 17:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by reball46 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it be....respect her privacy..if she says she is then so be it...
2007-12-11 16:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by drew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋