mixed signals?

Question

Over the past two months I became friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me and be nice, and even made me a cd for me a while back after she asked me if I liked a band. She also copied notes for me and asked me my number recently, so we could study together. When we got done studying and I was walking to my car she stopped and picked me up and we talked in her car. We went and got coffee at school the next day after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam. She also dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in hers. She asked me to goto church with her recently, and we've studied together outside of school and I've hung out at her house a few more times. In passing the other day she said didn't want a relationship when talking about this guy from church that called her...we hang out at her house at least once a week and she invited me to study with her today...I just can't tell if she's being nice or what.

She's involved with church activities and stuff which I like, but it also may mean that she's just naturally nice and doesn't mean anything by it. It's been weeks since we started hanging out and she hasn't approached me about being more than friends. Plus, when I invited her out to eat the other night, she brought her sister (whom I've met before)...which I thought meant she wasn't interested in just being with me.

I don't want to confront her until I know for sure she likes me, since I don't want to get attached and take this farther than it should.

Answer 1

Since youve been hanging out for a minute now and it doesnt seem like youve made any real moves to let her know you like her, she might think you dont want a relationship. So she tried to incorporate a scenario into a situation she was telling you about. In a roundabout way saying if you're worried about being serious I'm cool if we don't have a serious relationship. Because she is worried about scaring you off. I would think she wouldve said Im not into dating anyone right now if she was trying to let you know it wasnt going past friendship. People dont typically take the time to burn a cd for someone they dont know all that well. Maybe she invited her sister because her sisiter showed up and was hurngry. Stop speculating. Be brave and simply ask her. Try this." Whats your story?" "Why don't you have a boyfriend or ever seem to have a date." If she responds with "Because Im happy being alone right now, too busy with school etc.,havent met anyone I felt like going out with" then youre screwed. If she responds with" I never get asked out, because Ive been waiting for this guy I like to ask me, Then youre home free. You wont know until you ask. Be brave. So what if she doesnt like you. Are you going to die? No. Youll get over it. Either way Im sure shes picked up on the fact you like her.

Answer 2

properly, he looks like he's treating his female buddy the way he ought to via putting her first. in case you have been his female buddy the place might you opt to be in line? Having doubts in his dating together with her is likewise known. each physique has doubts now and then. He spoke with a pal approximately it. yet, he did not talk to you approximately it appropriate? From what you have stated i don't see how he has taken care of you as something extra advantageous than a pal. besides the undeniable fact that, he pursued you to start with. So he became for sure involved in you quicker or later. in case you particularly have deeper emotions for this guy and you at the instant are not basically feeling jealous that he's giving somebody else interest particularly of you and/or your in simple terms having a lonely 2d. Then i might advise which you sit down and tell him the way you sense. make certain you're effective that your emotions are organic first. because of the fact he looks like an excellent buddy and that i'm particular you do not opt to lose that comradeship. i think of your over questioning this too lots. do not concern approximately signs and indications that he's or isn't into you. if your into him you should enable him be attentive to. if your common and authentic to your self what's the worst that is going to ensue?

Answer 3

I remember when my mom made me go w/my sis on a date when she was in HS, so she prob didn't want her there...she does sound nice but sounds like she likes you!

Answer 4

i think she is not only being nice. i think she might be interested in you.

you should talk to her straight in the face and ask her.