Recently I met this really nice guy that I just attracted to straight away.
He calls/sms’s/emails me all day why im at work coz he works 3 blocks up from me… and he drives me home on a Friday when its like an hour out of his way…
We started having sex but he told me his not sure if he wants a girlfriend or just casual sex.. but then he said that he loves spending time with me and he doesn’t just want to have casual sex… im sooo confused!! What does this guy want??????
2007-12-11 16:11:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he has changed his mind on you and trying to end the relationship with you on good terms before things go any deeper. This happened with me and girl a year ago. After a couple of dates, I realized she was not what I was looking for and bailed out. Watched for decreased contact with you. If you initiate all the phone calls, SM's and emails and he only responds (and his response become shorter), than I think you need to give up on this guy and find someone else who is going to make you happy. This guy may have a case of nice guy syndrome where he is afraid to let you know how he really feels. Hopefully I am wrong, but it sounds very familar. Goodluck.
2007-12-11 16:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I guarantee you that if you stop having sex with him and he still hangs out then he is truly interested in you and not just the sex. Unless you don't mind the friends with benefits thing...If you are looking for a true relationship and this guy doesn't want one, then he's clogging up the works for you to find the right person for a relationship. In other words just wasting your time..
2007-12-12 00:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sage 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does he want? Hey read between the lines. You had sex and he stated he doesn't want a girlfriend, the part about he just doesn't want casual sex is just to save face. He wants to be bed buddies. Nothing wrong with that just be careful.
2007-12-12 00:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by paparazzi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
2 words: f*ck buddy. Not to be too harsh but that is obviously what you'll end up as if you keep this up. If he really liked you for more than your body then he wouldn't be having sex with you if he's not even sure he wants a relationship.
2007-12-12 00:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by arashi_rei 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He Want to kno what u want like he's tryna extract an answer from u, but doenst really kno how to go about it, when the oppertunity comes up, let him kno ur side of the story,
2007-12-12 00:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Earth☮Studies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off if you want this to be a relationship, communication is key. Tell him what you are feeling and thinking. He will have the answers, not anyone here.
2007-12-12 00:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by saycb2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I couldn't tell you,
He obviously doesn't know right now.
He's probably just as confused as you,
If not more..
I would talk to him though, tell him what you want/feel
about the situation, give it time though.
2007-12-12 00:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by kills 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants sex not committment.
2007-12-12 00:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you had been used as a sex toy by him.
2007-12-12 00:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by George 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wants to play you, hun.
2007-12-12 00:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋