im in love with this guy but were just friends were not dating but he said when i get unpunished and we hangout more he would probably see me as more than a friend. and hes always asking me if i wanna have sex with him and i always tell him no im not ready for that im still a virgin! and he respects me for that and he would do anything for me were really close friends he said im not just another peice of ***! but i love him so much and i really do think im ready to have sex with him. should i?
i would not just have sex with anybody i wanna do it with him cuz i love him and i think im ready to. but do yall think i should?
2007-12-11 16:31:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, wait until you're married. You don't want to have sex with someone who you're not sure is going to stick around. Trust me on this one.
2007-12-11 16:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. You would be doing it because you think love is factored into the equation. It is on your part. But it wont be in his. If he doesnt act the way a guy in love typically does after the first time he has sex with a girl you will be crushed. If he was truly a good friend and had your best interest at heart he wouldnt be trying to talk you into having sex with him. He would say, you should wait and do it with someone who's in love with you too. Or better, let try dating and see where it takes us, then well talk about having sex. I think you should wait.
2007-12-12 01:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by aperfectpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not just another piece of meat to him until you have sex with him. Then you will be like all the rest he,s had sex with and he will have another notch in his belt to bragg about. If he respects you and cares about you he would be honored to have a virgin as his girlfriend. Virgins are like a Rare diamond and are worth so much and cherished and saved for the right person to spend your life with. Don,t fall for that "I,ll still love you in the morning" Crap!!!!!!
2007-12-12 00:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by justMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cant he wait till you marry?
Ask him and ask yourself whether both of you would like to get married ? By the way are you old enough to get married ? If not wait till you become legally eligible to get married and then u can have all you want after marriage. That is better for both of you
2007-12-12 00:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by ramarao p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at my other answer. Seriously girl, I promise you...waiting is worth it.
"were really close friends he said im not just another peice of ***!"
and btw not to rain on your parade...but most guys say that.
Did you honestly think you were the only one? How old are you anyways?
2007-12-12 00:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Bri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, if all he can ask you is to have sex he's only into you for that reason. He doesn't really love you if all he wants is sex.
2007-12-12 00:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by confusion724 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋