do u think you should live with your girlfriend before marriage to get to know her more internally and make compatibility or after marriage since we both know we going to get marry soon.
2007-12-11 16:24:53 · 21 answers · asked by pro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not against living together before marriage, but i have heard a few different times that there have been studies done that say that couples who live together before marrying have higher rates of divorce. this could be moot since everyone gets divorced, but still.
its totally up to you. i right now want to live with my boyfriend, but its not time yet.
just make sure if you do move in together, that you communicate with eachother and dont end up breaking up over someone not doing the dishes.
2007-12-11 16:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jennisonfire 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! It's 2007. A lot of couples live together before getting married. This will give you an opportunity to see what you are getting into. You may have financial issues, pet peeves, she may be a slob, etc. You don't really know someone until you live together. You may be compatible and happy when you only see each other on a nightly basis. When you live with someone 24-7 it's a different ballgame. The only downfall would be if you buy a place together and then you don't get married. You would have to sell your house together or one of you would buy the other one out. You should decide before you move in together what the arrangements will be if things don't work out.
2007-12-11 16:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you should not. You should not live with someone before you are married. It is not right. It is a sin and on top of this it will cause problems. If you are going to marry her then might as well wait untill you get married because if you start living together now what is there to look forward to after marriage? You want married life to be different from the engaged life so don't do it
2007-12-11 16:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you live together before getting married what is the point of getting married. If you are already getting everything save the money and dont worry about the piece of paper. Think about it. That would be horrible. Getting married should be full of new experiences and sharing everything for the first time. Living together takes away from that because you have already shared everything.
2007-12-12 05:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i personally think no, coz i think if u live with before u get married then all the excitement after marriage runs out, once you have experienced marital life before marriage whats the use of getting married then?? if u wana get to know eachother internally u can do it by meetin her outside or at her house but not living with her, and anyway some parents dont approve of gf and bf living together before married even if they are engaged. i personally would prefer after marriage rather then before, but if the idea is only to get to know eachother u can spend days n days together theres no need to start living with her before u get married.
2007-12-12 03:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by sweetnsimple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never!
It leads to pre-marital sex with is immoral!
Edit:
Did we chose our parents? No. Yet we are happy with them and they love us more than anything in the world. I am sure if we had the option of living with dfferent pairs of parents, we would think of trying them.
This is ridiculous. Pre-marital sex, extra-marital sex, polygamy and polyandry are the filthiest things that a man/woman can do. Let us be different from the street dog and ***** and live as honourable and righteous humans.
Sex is not the most important part of a relationship. Compatibility is. And a couple can date and know each other well to decide whether that person is right or not. Sex does not play any role in here. If the man is not a man-whore and the girl not a s!ut, i.e. if they are virgins on the wedding day, they will definitely be satisfied with each other, because no one will compare the spouse with a previous lover.
Also, women, please remember, the vagina can take in very large sized objects. Remember, it delivers the baby. Hence, bothering about the size of a man's member is absolutely baseless because we always want more; this is human tendency.
Both man and woman should abstain till marriage, and be loyal!
2007-12-11 16:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 4⤊ 4⤋
Yes I think you should. The person you know now might be someone different once you move in together. A lot of times there are "dirty little secrets" things that she has hidden that will come out once you move in together. For all you know she has a puppy dog obsession or pillow obsession she plans to spring on you after marriage when you finally move in to the same place
2007-12-11 16:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by ash 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's a personal choice but make sure it does not put undo stress on your relationship. It really is all about commitment, are the two of you committed to each other and are willing to do what needs to be done in any relationship that you want to last.
2007-12-11 16:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by old crow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not! If you are planning on getting married but don't know yet if you are compatible or not, then you should wait to get married. Couples should never live together before marriage. A man and a woman should only live together if they are married.
2007-12-11 16:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 4⤊ 4⤋
a big NO NO, you know guys to marry a person you love is a wonderful experience to all ladies
I hope you still believe in the traditional way of marriage..
2007-12-11 16:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by BJD 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋