2007-12-11 14:30:09 · 11 answers · asked by lady a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good point "John R" - you beat me to it...
How would YOU feel if your boyfriend/husband/lover was seeing someone else behind your back?!?!?!?!?
There are PLENTY of SINGLE men who wouldn't mind a little hookup - at least they wouldn't be LYING SCUMBAGS who have to CHEAT on their partners ;););););)
2007-12-11 14:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Canuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally? Yes. But I'm sort of biased here, because I've been on the other side of the cheating. Being cheated on hurts and makes you feel inferior to everyone. It makes you feel that the best you can be is second best. And after feeling that, I never want to be the other woman. I don't want to contrubute to another woman feeling like she'll never be good enough. I don't think it's fair.
Plus: Once a cheater, awlays a cheater. If he cheats on his girlfriend/wife, he'll cheat on you, and the next girl, and the next girl. Guys like that shouldn't be trusted OR get our affection in the first place.
2007-12-11 14:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by blonde_tornado2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to be the other woman, plain and simple. How would you feel if the tables were turned?
Ask yourself, does this guy really love you if he still has another girlfriend? Also, don't you think you are worth enough that you can have your own guy?
My answer is to not let men use you by having his one girl for all the important stuff, and you for sex. All women are worth more. Best wishes
2007-12-11 14:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends to tell you the truth if the man tells you that hes married that is completely wrong. think about what would u think if you were the other wife about this lady that was dating your husband. but if he never told u then no it would be wrong but in the other hand how would you know. if u think about if your getting hints that hes married then dump him u don't want it to lead to this wife thinking like omg who r u what r u doing with my husband. But if u get the hints and know and still dating him thats another story. I hope I answered the question and helped u P.S. is this u??? cuz if it is i would get out of it because u don't want a cat fight unless u like drama etc. etc. etc.
2007-12-11 14:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by confussed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same kinda thing right now. If you really like the guy and he likes you enough to do what hes doing then confront him. Tell him that you dont like how your relationship is. He needs to get rid of the other girl before your relationship goes any farther than it already is.
xx :)
2007-12-11 14:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things aren't so clean cut. Sure I'd hate it if my boyfriend had a secret mistress. I'd hate it actually, but I've also been the other woman. (NOT WITH MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND! I got him fair and square).
2007-12-11 14:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very wrong. You're destroying some family not to mention that it shows you have no self-respect or dignity.
2007-12-11 14:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pretty Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, it only would make my self esteem dwindle away knowing that I am only a second choice.
2007-12-11 14:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can help how they feel, but i can tell you right now if i found my husband with another woman i would rip her a new one, put your self in there shoes what if that were you?
2007-12-11 14:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by ella bieracki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in the position of the wife. How would you feel?
2007-12-11 14:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by John R 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋