Me and my bf have been together for 2 months. I have really been falling in love w/ him. This past w/e we spent together and everything was great. He was really sweet and went out f his way to bring me a rose and make me breakfast among other things. He left my house frustrated on Sunday b/c he left later than he planned and missed a chance to work on an assignment w/ a friend (he's in college). We got in a bit of an argument on sunday night on the phone as we were both a bit grouchy. He was upset I was acting needy. We both said we didn't want to fight and made up. The next morning I sent him a text saying sorry and explained why I acted like that and I wouldn't do it again. He didn't call or text me all day (which he has never done). I called him before bed at 10:30pm and he said that he was neglecting his school work b/c of all the time he spends w/ me and is so overwhelmed w/ school and work and me that he doesn't have any time for himself. PLEASE KEEP READING BELOW...
2007-12-11 22:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(he gets very overwhelmed and stressed when he has too much going on). Then he broke up w/ me. He wouldn't even listen to what I had to say. I basically begged him to not do this. He ended up hanging up on me and turned off his phone. I sent him several text messages asking him to reconsider and that things would be better but he has not replied all day today.
I feel he made a hasty decision based on a state of stress and panic. I know he really likes me and was head over heels for me. I also know his brother influenced his decision. (BTW I know begging him and sending text messages was really NOT a good thing).
My question is... do you think that once left alone (for at least a few days) he will have time & room to breathe... that he will miss me and feel differently.... and call me???
(we have never gone a day w/o talking so he will def notice my presence is missing).
2007-12-11 22:10:29 · update #1
just give him room. don't call him. he'll come back begging
2007-12-11 22:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Romero Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well right now I think we all know that he definitely has the upper hand as things stand... start dating/paying more attention to other guys to irritate him, or just spending loads of time with your friends to show him that you really don't need him that much.
If he returns then good for you and if not, you will end up in a relationship with him which will forever be riddled with problems like this...
2007-12-11 22:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Barbarella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. having room always helps and who knoes he might realize it sooner than you think. i like to stay nuetral about a situation tho. i dont want to think he'll come back and he doesnt and feel said and its never good to think they wont cause if they do then you just feel stupid just. just be nuetral about the situation. time heals all things.
2007-12-11 22:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by pandapoopie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
le.t things cool off, do not contact him in any way. let him call
or contact you. if he doesnt, it will be his loss.
if you do not hear from him or realize the problems cannot
be resoved between the two of you, move on.
theres lots of men i am sure who would want you as a
girlfriend. good luck
2007-12-11 22:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋