I am seeing this guy and we both agreed to take it slow, but I get the feeling he is not that interested. Some days he rings and txts and others he dosnt bother. Is he not interested or is he just playing games?!?!
Do men play hard to get like women????
2007-12-11 21:34:17 · 29 answers · asked by billy j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play the game, or get played..
2007-12-11 21:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Oh yes some men play mind games but there again so do some women!!!
You said that you both agreed to "take it slow" and that looks excely what he is doing. Staying in contact but not been a part of your life 24 hours a day 7 days a week.
Are you really sure this is the best approach for you both?
Sit down and chat with him and ask it you both should get more involved, more serious and see each other more.
I am sure you both work or have families maybe, this can take a lot of time from any ones life and a new partner that wants to "take it slow" may have to come second for a while.
If you are concerned its best to simply arrange to meet FACE to FACE, have a drink or a meal together and have a good chat about it. Tell your partner your concerns and that their are important to you and listen to the response you get.
Best of luck to the two of you..:-)
Hope it helps ..??
2007-12-12 05:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by tacrj 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
unfortunatly, yes guys do play mind games. a lot of people do. i know where your coming from, there was a guy from college who really liked me to start and then things just stopped. he stopped talking to me and everything. dont even know why, but iv found out now that he plays women a lot and likes to upset them. so i see it as im better off without him. and thats my point. if nothing happens with this guy then just move on - your worth more than the occasional phonecall or text. find yourself a guy who really cares. good luck. :)
2007-12-12 09:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones that do play mind games are the ones not worth keeping. Went out with this guy for a year and he was into that. It was fun for awhile but then you will think is this what you really want? Besides, if you both play games somebody will end up losing.
2007-12-12 05:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie7 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Definitely guy's and girls are both equally good at playing games I think they do it to string you along and it works obviously in your circumstance I'd just go along with it maybe playing his game mite make him realize it's not as fun being on the receiving end.Or you could turn around and tell him you don't like it and he should decide whether use are on or not cos you will move on if he's not inti rely into you. It's totally unfair on you cos you could be with someone else.
2007-12-12 05:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dont be silly. Who says mind games should be restricted to women only. Some men are good but most sucked at it. Women can see through them immediately.
But do not bother with his mind games. Ask yourself what you want and if he is giving that to you within a reasonable frame of time. If that doesnt happen then quit being his playmate!:)
2007-12-12 05:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by peaceseeker22 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
From a guys point of view.... If he agrees to take it slow and you don't hear from him that much, its because he is still out looking for someone who isn't going to wanna take it slow. He isn't playing mind games... he wants what all guys want and your not ready for that so he is still looking.
2007-12-12 05:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes men play games. i know some guys that dont wanna do the talking everyday thing. im a girl and i dont mind seeing and talking to the guy im dealing with maybe 3 times a week. so just take it slow ..
2007-12-12 05:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cami♥ 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Men generally don't know how to play mind games. He's not interested or he would be never away from you.
2007-12-12 05:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
what do you mean!!?
life is a mind game and every single behaviour has its reason
so what do you think is a mind game or play hard to get is just
a normal reaction to other action but everyone express it differently ,some people talk about it some other decode it
2007-12-12 05:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by amiros 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋