I love a woman very much, and she loves me. But I hurt her by being in contact with my ex, who ran off and now came back. I only spoke to her (ex) on line never met her. My gf found out and hurt her very much. Stupid me, wanted to know why my ex left. My gf after finding out again, went on-line met someone, and went out ontwo coffee, dates. This upset me, because I never went out with anyone. Just talk online. My gf tell me he's is only a friend and no attraction. Told me she needs to think, but call her. Im really concern because I really love her. I don't love my ex. Should I give her space and wait for her answer, or move on, because she found someone.
Thanks
2007-12-09 01:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by napolee_nj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK chill if you know for a fact that she loves you there is no need to worry and you just need to relax and calm down cuz she wouldnt be going anywhere if she was truly in love with you. ok i have to agree that keeping in contact with your ex was not a smart move but she should chill too i understand where her anger is coming from but really if she knows you love her than obviously she should know there is nothing going on and you should really try to take her back get her attention focused on you again not this new guy but keep the attention thing in a good way like takeng her to a carnival or going on a date at the sweetest place you can think of just get her attention on you in a good way (I dont think if you were to threaten suicide it would go over too well)
Merry Christmas Hope I Helped
2007-12-09 01:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by devilschild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare back off. She just wanted to give you a dose of your own medicine...now it's done. Tell her you're sorry you hurt her and that you were only looking for some measure of closure with your ex, then get back to life, the way it was before all of this began. (You two still have time to salvage a pretty nice holiday out of this...together.) Good luck, and Happy Holidays!
2007-12-09 09:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your gf is definately hurt and is quite possibly onli going out with this guy to spite you. i would suggest giving her time to cool down abit before sitting down to explain to her about your ex and why you feel the need to find out why she left. should also tell her that you dont love your ex and its her you love.
good luck
2007-12-09 09:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did this like to let you feel the same way as you treat her.
She still loves you.
Tell her the reason why you talk to your ex.
Tell her that you really love her and say sorry.
Buy her flower and give her a kiss.
It will make her fhappy.
2007-12-09 09:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Missysiirp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had better give her space you hurt her and now shes getting back at you i would just go on with your life and if she calls she calls but after a week or two call her if you want or email her
2007-12-09 09:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by dreamweaver 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should speak with her and explane the situation. but wait 4 her 2 think about ur words
2007-12-09 09:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by farzane l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on bro
2007-12-09 09:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 bad 4 u .....didnt u think about wat u were doing b4????????
2007-12-09 09:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋