Do you think its cheating if she is hanging out with them, no kissing or anything...just hanging out.....But then in a couple of months the 2 of you break up and they are dating.....
2007-12-09 01:08:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her if its over
2007-12-09 01:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's just hanging out with him, as friends I would hasve to say no sweat. They might have something in common and just building a friendship. Just get concerned if sparks start to fly or he texts her at 2 am. She dosen't need her boyfriend worried if she found a new friend, espically if it's a guy. It'll just seem like you're starting to try to choke her and want her to only spend time with you. Which is never good. If you're truley concerned just ask her if there is any chemistry going on between the two of them and read her eyes when she anwsers.
2007-12-09 01:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by yunieyuna2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are still with her and she is just hanging out with him I wouldn't be too concerned unless she starts hanging out with him way more! Sometimes girls find it easier to hang out with guys. I know I am that way I really prolly only have a couple girlfriends but I have alot of guyfriends. Stay cool and just let her knopw that you trust her and it doesn't bother you. Obviously there is a little jealousy but don't let her notice that.
If you are saying that she already broke up with you then at least she had the decency to do that and not lead you on!
2007-12-09 01:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by KD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating, many people have fallen in love by just hanging around with each other. That's why I wouldn't spend more than three ours with a female friend unless she is single or her boyfriend is present, I call it respect.
2007-12-09 01:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't necessarily cheating, but cheating isn't just the physical sense but emotional as well, so maybe on some level she was but if you've broken up now then thee is no point worrying about it. Its time to move on and in time you'll find someone else as well
2007-12-09 01:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. Time for you to start hanging with another girl, "Just as a friend"
2007-12-09 01:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would consider that cheating why do she need some other male to hang out with if shes suppose to be with you. i would let her go and move on
2007-12-09 02:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by purplewoman 86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it may not be a MAJor concern, don't get all up in her face about it. But I would keep and eye on her.
2007-12-09 01:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by Karah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend when you say the two of you break up and
she starts to date him, i would say yes.
you were not there 24 hours a day to observe them, and
naturally in front of you both will be very carefull.
2007-12-09 01:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow- that has to be a hard pill to swallow. I think if my rekationship is tight I would not have been worried but if there was a hint of something being wrong then i probably would have saw it coming.
2007-12-09 01:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by antswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find another GF! Look for someone you respect and who respects you.
2007-12-09 01:12:17 · answer #11 · answered by Gina C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋