2007-12-09 01:19:24 · 23 answers · asked by Alex B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a good friend. Be a great friend. Don't be anything further until he wakes up and smells the coffee. Either he will realize that he is missing something great, or you will keep a good friend. A lot of relationships start out with passion, or at least experiment with it, and then settle into a platonic phase. There are many kinds of love and yours may not be a mutually physical kind. You may have the brotherly - Sisterly kind of love, or your boyfriend may still be unwilling to commit to a monogamous relationship. If you can't tie him down and force him to love you, then you have to accept the relationship on whatever mutual terms you can both agree on. He gets to set his rules, you get to set yours, and you both get to decide if it is all worth it. Beyond that, you are getting into the possibility of pushing him away, and that will do neither of you any good, according to what you have written.
2007-12-09 01:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by MUDD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats a Borfriend?
2007-12-09 09:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't do anything. It's never a good idea to reconnect an ex if the issues you had in your relationship were never resolved. As Montell Williams used to always say to his guests, "Your ex is your EX for a REASON!" Don't go back there even if you two are best friends. You'll both end up hurt and it's not worth it. I've been there (twice!) so I know how it goes.... not well!
2007-12-09 09:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see both side of this, yours and his as i have been the other person more than once, and every time i lost cos they went back to their husband / ex . Ok why did you split ? do you have feelings for him ? Does he drink ? Do drugs ? you must of split for a reason, if the reasons were flimsy , then maybe you still like him and have regrets as he does, but THINK long and hard about this one, write on a piece of paper, whats good about him
and on other side of this piece of paper write what you do not like about him , then make your choice , Good Luck [ mail me plz and tell me your choice .
2007-12-09 09:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Red,Green and Blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on if you still have feelings for him. If so, ask your "best friend" if he would like to do something with you. Arcade at mall, movie, bike ride, etc. See what he says. If he refuses, then he doesn't still have feelings for you. If he accepts, then chances are he does.
2007-12-09 09:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dumped you it means he doesn't. Friendship feelings can be easily confused with love feelings. Don't do anything. Just carry on as normal.
2007-12-09 09:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to settle for being "best friends" with him??? Move on to a man who can give you exactly what you need! There are plenty of good men out there!
Good luck to you!
2007-12-09 09:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
this is a male strategy to keep physical contact (sex) available without commitment.... as friends only ok... but don't go any farther...
move on - it will hurt less
2007-12-09 09:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should b frank wt him.
you should ask him for this bcoz love is not a thread which can b broked out without any reason.
2007-12-09 09:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by atul aryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does - how do you feel about that? If you're good with that, ask him. If not, keep your distance for awhile and see how you feel in a week or two.
2007-12-09 09:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by GJax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋