we finished on pretty good terms but all of a sudden he's being really nasty and offensive and yesterday he said i was minging although when we were together he told me i was beautiful-confused!!! lastnight i was feeling self conscious becuase of what he said!!!!
2007-12-09 02:22:09 · 57 answers · asked by BscHons 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i finished with him and yes he did say he wanted me back even after he called my boring, self centred, minging etc etc!!!!! no chance!!!
2007-12-09 02:35:33 · update #1
So now you're finding out how immature he is! Good thing for you the relationship was broken off when it was.
Some people feel they have to beat down others in order to build themselves up. Blame it on his own insecurity and immaturity.
If that's you in the pic, he must be insane! I'll wager a lot of guys would date you in a heartbeat. Not ugly at all!!!
Don't let him get inside your head with all that junk. You just move on with life and get yourself another man (and the emphasis here is on "man", not the "little boy" who takes pleasure in calling you "ugly" when it's clearly not true!) who treats you with love, kindness, and respect! In the meantime, spend time with caring and supportive family and friends!
Good luck!
2007-12-09 02:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by wrialhuden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, Mr.Immature has stepped out of the closet. You aren't minging, he needs his eyes testing (and I am a straight woman, by the way!). Obviously he needs to put you at a distance permanently, so he's doing his worst so you'll be put off him for life. Sounds like he's just succeeded - you don't want him in your life anymore, now do you?
2007-12-09 02:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are not ugly hes just trying to get to you
i look wounderfull dont let people mess with your feelings my ex BF tryed to say that am ugly i just said if i am UGLY then why did you go out with me so there must be something that got you into me then after that he never said a bad thing about me and now he flirts like crazy.
NO ONE IS UGLY
2007-12-09 02:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's being an **** Hun...Ignore him! Got a bee in his bonnet over something and he's taking it out on you. Your not 'Minging' at all. He's feeling insecure about himself and that's why he's being mean to you .Have you started seeing someone else? Maybe he's jealous.
Don't ever let a man knock your confidence x
2007-12-09 02:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by ¸.•*¨) Inked Barbie ¸.•*¨) 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he probably wants you back or is sour graping. do you have a new guy?
or he might have heard something from someone that you said something about him. sometimes things get around and you absolutely have no control over something as jealousy or misconception. best thing is not to be affected by this. since he is already your x. besides it doubles back to him saying he has low taste if he finds you ugly which is so not true.
so let it pass or confront him if you really can't get it off your head.
2007-12-09 02:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by sc2zabala 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's being immature and wants to feel better about himself. Deep down he knows the break up was a mistake and he probably wants you back.
If he goes about it again you tell him that he's so ugly that his birth certificate was a letter of apology to his mom from the condom factory.
2007-12-09 02:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by DLG 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Were you the instigator of the split? Sounds to me as though he is feeling hurt and is trying to hurt you in return. It's probably only just hitting him; maybe he thought you would want him back.
Whatever, try not to take any notice. Don't let him damage your confidence and get out there and enjoy life.
2007-12-09 02:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
hes not only a fool but an @rsehole as well forget him he is not worth even giving the time of day to move on dear hes a waste of space and mean.
2007-12-09 03:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by fozz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about what he said. If he a decent man, he would never said anything to hurt your feelings. Move on. You have to love yourself first and don't let anyone putting you down.
It's a good thing that he's your ex. Imagine if you're married, how much damage can he do to your self esteem?
2007-12-09 02:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by Connie 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It is his job to make you love yourself. If he was with you for even a day...he was attracted to you. It sounds like he is just bitter about losing you in the relationship. I wouldnt take it to personal. If he started with you, then he found somthing beautiful in you. I would go look for somone else. There will be somone perfect for you. Good luck!
2007-12-09 02:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Morgan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋