Marriage & Divorce - 20 November 2007

she left the home but the home was purchased after we were married, and she doesn't work and never has

2007-11-20 11:31:56 · 22 answers · asked by Dave S 1

I'm 29 years old and soon turning 30, and I have trouble finding a woman to meet and maybe to be my wife. I want to meet a woman who loves me and I want to start a family. I worry that being 30 years old no woman wants me and I think its too late to start a family. Where do people meet/find their significant mate/other? I always think that college is the place where people meet/find their significant other. I always regretted not finding a girlfriend/special woman during the time when I was at Baruch College. I'm worried that me in my 30s it's impossible to find a woman/significant other to marry and perhaps start a family. I'm still married but NOT HAPPILY married and soon to divorce. Where can I find my significant other to meet and perhaps marry?

2007-11-20 11:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If there is one thing tht u could change about ur wife what would it be?

2007-11-20 10:59:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my husband filed a petition to me to United States he don't put the names of my previous children. Now I am start to worry that I couldn't get my children from my native countrty. What should I do? And my second question since he didn't tell that I don't have kids should I tell the truth that I have kids when I apply for my U.S. Citizenship? Please help me. Thank you in advance

2007-11-20 10:42:59 · 6 answers · asked by Adelaida Nida A 1

My ex cheating on me, among other things. I'm not sure how to respond to questions about why we got divorced...though i want to call my ex every name in the book, i want to move on and not look like i'm still angry and just blaming him for everything.

2007-11-20 10:42:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that i made a wrong decision...and I was unsure about him....and I am a horrible person...but i do love him...and i know that i must tell him the truth but how? It was with a girl....she is a friend....but maybe not so much...as we cannot continue to be friends...I am so confused ...

2007-11-20 10:12:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've beem married almost 23 years, he is the love of my life!
We've been through so much together, hes so patient and loving. I just want to get him something he would love, not the normal socks, shirt, shoes. No, i want something a wonderful man deserves.
Any ideas?

thanks

2007-11-20 10:06:14 · 14 answers · asked by ****** 2

2007-11-20 10:06:05 · 29 answers · asked by Antinet A 1

living in sin.
me and the bf have been together 9 years and have 3 kids we are perfectly happy but get pressure from the family and our girls want to be bridesmaids what do we do? stay as we are, or bite the bullet?.

2007-11-20 10:02:14 · 24 answers · asked by **Tiggers**mum** 2

I am 36 years old female, I make a little over $100,000 a year as a nurse, but have the most boring job. When I was young my mom told me to become a nurse because it's a good job, but I hate nursing and I have been doing this for 16 years now. I am the breadwinner in the family, supporting my family (hubby makes $50,000 yr) we have a beuatiful house and a beautiful life-

If I wasn't in this financial situation, I would actually go back to school and find another career, but hubby discourages me because I make so much money. I know this sounds crazy but I believe money does not equal happiness- and I believe if work occupies 1/3 of your day, then it should be something that makes you happy!! What do you think?? PS- Please no haters

2007-11-20 09:47:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

and notified me that all three his daugters fell in love with me.

All three his daugthers are young and beautiful, Mary has PhD in business, Bekki is about to get PhD in political sciencies, and Eva is about to graduate from university (she is the youngest).

Mary enjoys plaing tennis, Bekki plays soccer like a pro, and Eva is a star in university voleyball.

They are know to spend a lot of time discussing other sports and are of oppinion that men should regularily drink beer in company of their friends.

The banker also mentioned, that in case I marry one of his daughters, he will hand me $10,000,000 worth of stock, retire and make me the president of the bank. In case I refuse he would be forced to find another gardener.

Should I propose to one of his daugthers, or stick with my current girfriend next door?

2007-11-20 09:36:07 · 22 answers · asked by Alexander 6

My wife and I are in a middle of a divorce. My wife always tried to control me. I asked her more than a year to go to a counselor together. Finally we went to 2 different counselors but she did not show up the second time because she says: I am smart and educated and I know what is right!
Both counselors told her not to scream and asked me to leave the house as soon as she screams. This way I can never tell her that she is wrong. She screams, swears and just do not listen.
If I listen to it, it makes me feel so bad because she is accusing me of a lot of things that I never even think about! It really hurts!
Sometimes I wish I could tell her what is in my heart but she does not let me talk. How can I react so that she stops talking for 5 minutes and starts listening?

2007-11-20 09:35:23 · 10 answers · asked by mazyar m 1

Is it true the longer a couple stays together (cohabitate), the chance them getting married becomes more unlikely? I personally think that the only difference is a technicality and after 8 years it doesn't even matter. However, I do think I am being cheated out of explanation at least because most of the time I don't know what to think on the subject since I don't know what his stance is or about any marriage plans he may or may not have. I mean damn shouldn't I be able to decide what I am cool with?

2007-11-20 09:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by GTASE 1

2007-11-20 09:10:28 · 26 answers · asked by John H 1

2007-11-20 09:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He wants to get married. His mommy has always bought him everything he wants. He didn't get a job until he graduated. He quit the full time job for a part time so he'd have more free time. He took a year off before college. He doesn't like to cook; he'd rather buy a burger & fries.
I went to grooming school. I own a small business that just makes enough money to live on, because it's new and so much has to go back into the business. I have a strict budget that I follow.
I understand that he has to learn from his mistakes. How do I prepare myself to go along for the ride? I am willing to have the phone and electricity cut off for not paying bills, and stuff like that, but I need to keep my business going. I need him not to use up the money from that too. Help!!!!

2007-11-20 09:02:53 · 8 answers · asked by 2bzy 6

an not so good looking women who could stimulate your mind,cook you good food clean your house and treat you right
and the power U was pretty good.


or would you marry a sexy women who really does nothing for your mind don't cook don't clean she just fine and every man wants big breast small waiste nice a**

2007-11-20 08:27:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

he shoots me down in flames whenever i speak but as soon as i say im going upstairs to watch tv he begs me to stay. . im a target and im p*ssed off with it

2007-11-20 08:23:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are soo many of us that have a chance to do stuff that we (by societys rules) shouldn't do. But sometimes you have the opportunity to do it and no one else will know. Like the soldier (male) in Iraq who is away fighting for freedom and of course loves his family but is sleeping with another soldier (female)while away. Or the Army wife who is sleeping with another man while her husband is away. If you play your cards right you will never get caught. And how would the wife EVER find out about that being as it's happening 3000 miles away?

So do u do things and say "o well he's not around"?

This is just a fun ? don't get all serious.

2007-11-20 08:05:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife, soon to be filing for divorce, opened a bank account in my name without my knowing about it. The only reason I found out is that they sent me a email informing that should be recieveing a pin number and id in the mail. I beleive she opened this account so she would get a cash reward for new accounts that she got to be opened via referal. But I do not like the fact that she was able to open a account and maybe even get lines of credit in my name. What legal recourse do I have this is making me uncomfortable especially since it appears she is going to file for divorce soon.

2007-11-20 07:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by QCCP 2

i just tried to talk to my husband again about me being an organ doner and he still wont budge i told him i was going to join tonight because ive had enough of not doing what is right for me and he said that if i do i can pack my bags tonight!!!! what do i do??? become a doner and loose my husband or keep my husband and dont do what i beleive is right for me?

2007-11-20 07:38:02 · 39 answers · asked by mummy to 3 miracles 5

...wife or husband by their touch or kiss?

2007-11-20 07:37:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 07:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately I have been really impatient with my husband. He keeps asking me for help with documents, filling out forms and doing all kinds of things for him. Because I refuse and he won't do these things himself and then he turns around and asks his MOTHER to do these things for him.

He hasn't had a job for a while and I can BARELY afford to keep us above water. He won't take the ONLY car we have during the day while I'm at work to look for a job. He won't look for a job or call potential employers to see if they are hiring unless I get on his case.

I’ve been so stressed out because I’m on the brink of losing my job and he wants me to do everything for him and he won’t do a thing. I don’t know what to do, other than continue refusing to things for him. When he calls to complain about something, I snap at him like he’s a child. What can I do to stop from being impatient?

2007-11-20 07:27:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, to all my fellow American Yahooligans...I LOVE coming to marriage and divorce to answer questions, but I NEVER ask anything.....so here I am, asking......who is the one person on your spouses/significant other's side of the family that will MOST LIKELY RUIN Thanksgiving this year, and why?

Have a happy and safe holiday everyone!!!

2007-11-20 07:26:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-20 07:23:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We each have a daughter in idaho,when one calls wanting us to immediately get a plane ticket then changes her mind he is furious. saying he is not helping her anymore he's tired of it
(Guess who's daughter)but the other one will do the exact same thing and he defends her decission? Why do men do that? I am tired of both of them doing it. It stresses me out I drop everything to try and help them then it's for nothing. I don't know how to bring it up to him what a difference he makes in them, without making him mad

2007-11-20 07:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by cindyokie1 2

You see I have an ex husband. We always kept in contact after the divorce. When he told me he had found someone else, I reacted not so good. I put a stop to that. Then much later I met someone else. And the person I met has an ex wife. I think when she finds out about me, she will do the same thing I did with my ex, she will put a stop to her ex seeing me. I did a bad thing to my ex and now karma is going to get me. Don't you think so too?

2007-11-20 07:18:19 · 19 answers · asked by Jaylynn 1

why do some women who are divorced dont want the child's real father in their lives but they want them to pay child support and even at times try to increase it?

2007-11-20 07:17:53 · 16 answers · asked by Hi T 1

It's one thing to be divorced (or widowed) and re-married but I'm talking about the type that has four kids by four different Dad's (aka--Baby Daddy's)...it's repulsing to me. I mean--BIRTH CONTROL!!!! Opinions??

2007-11-20 07:15:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous