You see I have an ex husband. We always kept in contact after the divorce. When he told me he had found someone else, I reacted not so good. I put a stop to that. Then much later I met someone else. And the person I met has an ex wife. I think when she finds out about me, she will do the same thing I did with my ex, she will put a stop to her ex seeing me. I did a bad thing to my ex and now karma is going to get me. Don't you think so too?
2007-11-20 07:18:19 · 19 answers · asked by Jaylynn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You did not do anything to your ex. He did it to himself. He is the one that decided not to see her again. He is not a puppet and made his own choices. As this guy you are seeing now will make his own choices. If he allows for his ex to come between the two of you, that is his decision. Got nothing to do with karma.
2007-11-20 07:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, karma will get you but meditation or even chanting mantras is a quick way to help balance it, but you must also not repeat the bad action again (selfless service to alleviate suffering of less fortunate is good too without being attached to the ego saying you are so good to help)
Apologize your ex and give him blessing to move on with his life.
You were very selfish back then because you were still attached.
If you have a problem, be brave and face your karma. If you stick with your new man, you may very well prevail.
Either way, you learn an important lesson!
Learn it, Live it, Love it!
2007-11-20 07:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jack Bent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rules of Karma imply yes, you will get back what you put out there. I suggest calling your ex and let him know when you suggested he end his relationship, the decision was not based on his well being, but your insecurity. Apologize to him and tell him you had no right to do that. If you really care for someone, no one can influence you to end it unless you want to.
2007-11-20 07:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not if you justify your actions with an Apology to your Exhusband! He deserves to know that you are truly sorry & that you wish him all the best. Karma is a good thing! It's not what everyone preceives as what goes around comes around... You are in control of your own self. When you mess up, you have the alternative to undo what you have done...
2007-11-20 07:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have that much power to put a stop to your ex seeing someone it was his doings. He may of wanted you to think it was because of you but you do not have that much power. Your current romance again she doesn't have that much power.
2007-11-20 07:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is not real. The important thing is to learn from your mistake and become a better person for the future.
2007-11-20 07:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you believe in Karma, then yes, it will come back to you.
2007-11-20 08:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by azflower25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually the case
2007-11-20 07:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you put out, you get back. So start doing good.
2007-11-20 07:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you`re wrong stop worrying until it happens.
2007-11-20 07:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋