2007-11-20 07:23:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It depends.
Some people can forgive and forget, and move on with their lives; but some cannot...Others decide to hold on to their anger (which will ultimately make them bitter and mean, not to mention unhappy.) Everybody is different....
Still others decide that they will never allow themselves to be hurt again, so they hide and are emotionally unavailable.
I guess it is up to you...You have to take charge of your life and that means you have to learn to deal with your emotions and your issues. Perhaps counseling or talking to a therapist could help you overcome your negative feelings. Good luck.
2007-11-20 07:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a really hard time trusting people too..
and i lost a lot of friends trusting..
i only have 2 people i can trust..
but no, dont ever trust a person that already betrayed you..
no matter how close you 2 got..
NEVER!
i made a wrong mistake like that.
if you known the person your whole life and your sure that they can keep secrets ...
than its safe for you to trust them..
otherwise you dont need friends like that..
2007-11-20 07:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is the person who lost your trust then it will be very hard to trust that person again and they will have to regain that trust. If it is another person that you met and you cannot trust you need to find away to trust them because they were not the one who betrayed you.
2007-11-20 07:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about:
Is it ever possible for me to own somebody again?
Is that what you mean by trust?
2007-11-20 07:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by male.confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that person already betrayed you it takes a while to trust again. some people can just forgive very easy than others. Everyone is different. But I think eventually we all forgive
2007-11-20 07:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by jennajade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To forgive yes, but to forget, no. Same goes for trust. You will never and can never trust again.
2007-11-20 07:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if the person you have lost trust in, proves themselves trustworthy again. Never close your eyes always be looking.
2007-11-20 07:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need a lil more info to answer better, but anyways........
....I think it is definitely possible as long as you allow yourself to heal and see that you can trust again
2007-11-20 07:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 21:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by wrights 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person you are WITH has broken that trust, it's not very likely. Not totally anyway.
2007-11-20 07:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋