Marriage & Divorce - 17 November 2007

no matter what the reason is, whether its your fault or not, even though you think there is a chance to get back together, it will never be the same again.

2007-11-17 06:02:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-11-17 05:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by Cool_Dude 1

Yeah there's the old cake n eat it theory but what's the reality?

2007-11-17 04:40:24 · 28 answers · asked by Goldie P 1

in the case we get married in Mexico.could be register legally in India?

2007-11-17 04:24:52 · 8 answers · asked by Bere 1

My soon to be ex is from the United States (PA) and moved back home leaving me with our baby, 7 months ago.
He has not paid any money to me at all with regards to child support, and I believe he is not working at the moment.
Is there anything I can do to legally enforce a regular payment, without having to travel to the US?

2007-11-17 04:22:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

the problem is my ex husband is still going around wearing his wedding ring and is in complete denial. We have to be in constant contact because of the kids and he still doesnt realise that i am seeing someone else.I was going to tell him the other night but He flipped out when he heard someone we both know asked me out over a year ago. I personally think it is none of his business! any advice on how to deal with this?

2007-11-17 04:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-17 04:17:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was whit a girl for 8 and a half years , she was my life and i did evrithing for her. My father died 2 weeks ago. I purces a plain tiket to se her in september , i supose to se her in december. Copule of weeks before my fathers funeral she totl me that she thinks we shoud end up our relationship.
I was devastated and i still am .Finally she told me that she is in love whit somebody else that is better than me . I did evrithing for her and he was my fiance.
What soutl i do know ?. I can make her suffer the same way i did .
Should i revenge my self ?
She was evrithing for me, I have no reason to live.
In all this years i support her whit love , compasion and finanical.
Now she is a doctor and i am still strugeling to becom somebody .
Now she decided that she is to god for me.
She was whit me just in tha good days.
Now when i need tha most a person in my life she betrayd me.
Al my dreams of a familli of life are gone.
Should i pay her back ? What do i have to lose ?

2007-11-17 04:11:05 · 17 answers · asked by brokenheart2007 1

Most of the times i don't tell honestly about what iam thingking to my boyfriend or anyone i know, becouse i fear of rejection.Should there be a limit on how honest i could be?even if its going to hurt them?

2007-11-17 04:04:56 · 19 answers · asked by k_syofyan 1

2007-11-17 03:54:34 · 6 answers · asked by christian 1

I know I have been on here before with the same type of question but I really need help with this one. To be honest, I now it's gross but I know he hasn't since at least Sept. Believe me, I know that's correct because I know how he leaves the bathroom when he's done. (meaning the location of things by the tub; body wash; ect.) Anyways, it really bothers me and makes me feel as if I am not good enough to "clean up" for. He also rarely brushes his teeth and of course his hair is full of dandruff. I mention it to him and he gets mad and no, I do not nag. It been forever since i have said something. His excuse this time was: "I feel like i don't have time b/c of all the running around I have to do" My respond: "I do just as much running around b/c you expect me to go with you all the time and you can't take out 5 min every other night for a shower?"

2007-11-17 03:52:34 · 21 answers · asked by sara 4

My husband does not please me in bed & when I tell him he gets mad. I've been considering a lover on the side.

2007-11-17 03:49:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

they're almost getting divorced!!!! what should i do????
I seemed to be the only one who's interested in keeping my family together and looking out for my sisters, even my older brothers.

2007-11-17 03:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by chixka.. 1

this is daves fiance of 8 yrs....do i have a right to be angry?? dave calls me all happy to tell me that his sons xmas wish was to go to see a dallas cowboys game in texas w daddy (9yrs) so daves x wife is fullfilling that wish by sending daddy aka dave my fiance on an all xpense paid trip airfare from pa to dallas tx, 350.00 game ticket plus hotel suite for 3 nights 4 days............. i am furious!!!! he should of said thank you but no thank you, i cannot accept! or i will pay my own way! we are not speaking now for 2 days and i am really really pissed!
am i wrong that it isnt right that his xwife is paying for his vacation??? she is currently married and again i cannot fathom how her current husband would pull xtra hours at work to give her xhusband a vacation??!!

honest answers only please .....we havent fought in 2 yrs and this is our first argument.....it sucks it is over his xwifes STUPIDITY in my opinion to not at least discuss this w me or my darn fiance to as well!!!!!

2007-11-17 03:19:02 · 31 answers · asked by Dave B 2

I thought my second wife was my soul mate. I thought this marriage was a match made in Heaven. I was wrong. After 7 years of trying to make what should have been the perfect marriage work I find myself divorced again.
I'm told I'm a nice guy and the people who know me think I'm a good person. I have most of the physical custody of my son and for that I am grateful. I have a new apartment and I'm saving for a house to buy for my son and I. My home life is peaceful now, and my work pays the bills. Life is good in many ways so what's the problem.
The problem comes when I think about dating again and starting another relationship. I just can't see myself doing it. I'm 48 years old and there are plenty of women out there but when I look through the personals ads and try to imagine myself dating again I get turned off. I've only been divorced a few months now and the whole process was hellish . Is this the wrong way to feel?

2007-11-17 02:54:25 · 24 answers · asked by IveBeenThere 4

2007-11-17 02:47:38 · 13 answers · asked by tyler durden Oƒƒicial 6

2007-11-17 02:45:36 · 16 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

my son-in-law confessed to my daughter after 3 yrs of marriage that he had slept with a prostitute on a business trip. After marriage conseling and seeing a medical doctor it was decided he was manic depressive and was put on Zoloft. They decided all was well and started a family. After the second child was born he started the business trips again and after this last one called home to tell my daughter he had lost his wedding band. So now it appears that he is taking off his wedding band when he travels and this time lost it. He is a good person, great father and husband, but I think is troubled. Can anyone shed some light on this for me. I am very worried. They are both college educated, did not marry until they were thirty and are very successful. I am divorced twice and do not want to see my children have to go through the nightmare of divorce. Maybe some males out there can tell me why this happens.

2007-11-17 02:41:36 · 21 answers · asked by grannymiller 1

I am 35 years old. Always nice to everybody. Tall, athletic and handsome. I am going through a divorce with my wife because she is a control freak. We tried two different family counselors but she calls them” Shrinks! She says I am smart and educated and I now myself what is right or wrong! For her it is “my way or highway”

To be honest with you, I never thought I would be a divorced man but it is happening to me… Thank God I have no kids… I would like to know if I want to start a new life and have the relationship that I deserve, what would be the ladies reaction when they realize that I am divorced.

2007-11-17 02:29:25 · 11 answers · asked by mazyar m 1

2007-11-17 02:23:58 · 6 answers · asked by lou 3

I am pursuing a relationship that I am not sure is legal. Where can I look up my local incest laws?

I don't want to get into it, but if it helps at all we're talking more distant than sister, closer than cousin.

Thanks, in advance.

2007-11-17 02:13:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-17 02:02:21 · 20 answers · asked by chippylane 1

I can understand the 'dating world', but that's only a small fraction of life. Can't you experience, 99.9%, the rest of the world with your spouse? It's not as if marriage has to mean house payments and children. Just because I'm ready to get married, doesn't mean I'm ready to geographically commit ('settle down') nor does it mean I want children! It simply means I've found a partner and companion who I love and work well with. Agree or disagree?

2007-11-17 02:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by some female 5

Recently we have seperated. Within the last week, she decided to come back and we decided to work on things. Its still been rough through out the week, and on numerous occasions she says you know what im leaving, we dont belong together. She says this is out of anger, and brought on my repetitive questions about if she loves me, wants to be with me and questions like that, that i always ask her. This comes from my insecurities obviously since she left and went as far a to get divorce papers. She says she wants to be with me, but needs her space too. What i need to know is peoples thoughts on that. Furthermore, she says i have no control over her, and i should not be able to have any input on her life at all. dotn you think as a husband i should have some sort of say, some sort of control (even if little). how do i try to give her space, and at same time try to be close to her. i am in the spot of wanting to be around her a lot right now. i feel kind of needy, need to shown love a lot.

2007-11-17 02:01:27 · 20 answers · asked by supremyecy 1

2007-11-17 02:01:11 · 18 answers · asked by nidzii 1

this might be a little long, but very important to me and I desperately need help. Please nothing mean...just serious and heartfelt answers appreciated

My 44 year old husband is cheating on me (I'm 24 btw and wife #2 we have 3 young children under age 8) Problem is he won't admit it~ the cheating. And believe me, he is good (with deny deny deny) somedays he can make my head spin and I actually start to believe that I must be crazy/ delusional, sadly though I'm not and the feeling doesn't last long. I KNOW that he is. I guess I should say 98% sure (the only 2% thats missing {and keeping me here I guess} is that I have not seen him "do it" with my own 2 eyes), but EVERYTHING else is there including his past behavior (cheated on wife #1 multiple times and eventually left her for another woman..not me) His denial is whats driving me crazy, he even goes as far as denying things I have witnessed like him being somewhere or something he has told me. He denies anything and everything. con't

2007-11-17 01:58:57 · 16 answers · asked by busymum 5

Ok my ex is going to have our son this weekend we are going through a divorce well sort of he will not agree to the papers yet.
Anyhow last night on the phone he asked me if I needed any money and I told him no (I do not want him to think I am out for his money at all) anyhow he says well I am going to give you some money.
So here is the question we have a son together and rightfully he should be paying some sort of support but beings it is not "on the books" should I decline it until then or take it???

2007-11-17 01:51:18 · 19 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5

They both deny any romantic involvement, but 16 years ago, just as I became engaged to my now wife, her partner took her for a short walk in the woods outside of their office to tell her that for long he had entertained fantasies of their being together one day . Her birthday gift to him in 2006 was a new pen. His thank you email said: " now I can take a little piece of you along with me on business trips;" signed with the closing, "Love...."

2007-11-17 01:38:11 · 21 answers · asked by John 1

2007-11-17 01:33:46 · 49 answers · asked by aislingthequeen 4

2007-11-17 00:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by truthfullman 1