2007-11-17 04:17:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi,if he treats you bad then leave him.
2007-11-17 04:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ollie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, first off, you need to evaluate how you are treating your husband. If you stand there with your hands on your hips and whine at your man that he's not treating you right, he's going to run the other way.
Why not try being the best wife you know how to be and in most cases (unless you've married a total jerk) he will begin to reciproicate.
Now if you've been a whiney nagging wife for quite some time, you'll have to be patient for the sweetness and loving to pay off.
2007-11-17 04:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will only continue to treat you badly if you allow them to, we all have choices in life, not always easy I know, but we DO have a choice as to how we are treated.
If they love and respect you, they will no doubt make you happy in all aspects of the relationship.
Without love, trust and respect, it's sure to fail, eventually.
Try telling him how you feel and that you can't keep on putting up with this if it continues, he can't say he wasn't warned if you end up leaving him, which I think you should do if he doesn't change for the better.
Be strong, stand up to him, and have some self respect or he may never change, and will only drag you down further and make you lose what little self esteem you have left.
You continue to allow it and he'll continue to do it, that's a fact.
2007-11-17 05:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him, do you want to live with him. If both answers are yes then get help and attempt to make things better. If either answer is no then get packing and move on. You deserve to be treated well, you deserve to be loved and respected. Can leopards change their spots? Am unsure. You would survive without him and life would go on and perhaps be more satisfying. You are worthy of a happy life.
2007-11-17 06:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You treat them like you want to be treated. Be kind, caring, giving, selfless, patient, tolerant, understanding, slow to anger and quick to forgive. Read 1 Corinthians chapter 13 in the Holy Bible and find out what love really is. Then start loving your husband like God intends for you too.
2007-11-17 04:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way is forced reolisation - a wife could express how bad the husband treats the her and fain to leave. If he loves her enough he will stop her and mend his ways..
BUT - this might last for 1month 2 maybe. until he luls back into his old ways.
So i say either get tougher skin or go where your wanted.
I hope i have helped in some small way.
2007-11-17 04:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make yourself desirable to other people get his blood flowing . Maybe show a little cleavage let other guys look at some of your assets that in turn will make him look to see what others are looking at . Make life a challenge for him guys like challenges to a certain point but don't go to far.
2007-11-17 04:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to be treated bad, you'll regret it later.
If he is a jerk, then he is a jerk, nothing you can do about it.
Get out while you can, there is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve.
2007-11-17 04:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is a man u can communicate with talk to him, if he truly loves u he will begin to change if he doesn't u will have to decide if this is the kind of life u want.
2007-11-17 04:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they shouldnt be told to treat their wives better...that should be an automatic thing they do when they love her & want to share their life with her.
2007-11-17 04:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋