I am 35 years old. Always nice to everybody. Tall, athletic and handsome. I am going through a divorce with my wife because she is a control freak. We tried two different family counselors but she calls them” Shrinks! She says I am smart and educated and I now myself what is right or wrong! For her it is “my way or highway”
To be honest with you, I never thought I would be a divorced man but it is happening to me… Thank God I have no kids… I would like to know if I want to start a new life and have the relationship that I deserve, what would be the ladies reaction when they realize that I am divorced.
2007-11-17 02:29:25 · 11 answers · asked by mazyar m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most woman now a days are divorced also in your age group. In any relationship you need to be honest so you just tell them right up front. And counseling is a good thing maybe you should continue to go to change and grow. I would be looking into why you might pick a controlling woman so you don't make the same mistake twice. And, you have no kids so that wont play into your next relationship. Remember not all woman are the same so don't look at them as your x wife was......good luck
2007-11-17 02:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. However, the general image of a divorced man is negative. Women may think that he might be aggressive or might be picking up a fight constantly or arguing incessantly with his partner. Some might sympathize with them and think that it might be the female partner's fault (as a result of which the divorce took place.) Some others might think about the background of the divorced person. Times are, however, changing and some have started to think positively about divorced people too.
2007-11-17 10:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, divorce is so common honey, that I think you are stressing over a non-issue. Based on your description, any women would be lucky to have you. Just be picky on the next one and take your time to find someone and REALLY get to know them. You don't want a repeat of what you are going through now.
Good luck to you.
2007-11-17 10:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We look at them like any other man. Just because a man is divorced doesn't mean that he already has a strike against him when he is entering into a new relationship. Most women just want to find out about who you are and if you're compatible.
2007-11-17 11:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Siarnaq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i disagree about a divorced mans image being negative.
A man that has had no, or few relationships in the past worries me. ..at least having past relationships says you were worth something to somebody at one time. even if things did change.
2007-11-17 10:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother and forget it.
Take it as an experience.
Square peg could not be fitted in a round hole.
It is better to avoid rather carrying burden in your entire life.
Be feel happy and hopeful. You will get a better life partner.
2007-11-17 10:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by GURU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are really divorced and over the woman No problems
It is part of society of today
2007-11-17 11:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by MissE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest . be yourself and try not to make the same mistakes again. don't meet someone who is bossy and controlling. we all make mistakes and you have to keep your eyes open and watch out for the crazy women out there.
i'm sure you will find someone better , a woman that will make you happy. good luck.
2007-11-17 10:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this, but there should be no problem with what has happened to you, people should not judge others, crap happens and we deal with it, that's life.
2007-11-17 10:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different ... to be honest .
2007-11-17 10:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋