Marriage & Divorce - 22 September 2007

me and my girlfriend are trying to work things out again we have alredy tried but she always ends up cheating on me but i really do love that girl but i dont know what to do.we have a little girl together and i want to be a family but im scared that she is gonna cheat on me again she has already done it alot of times before and i always come back to her and this time she kicked me out of our apartment to let her parents move in.but she tells me that she still wants to be with me what do i do???

2007-09-22 15:23:01 · 12 answers · asked by Gilberto P 1

This makes no sense to me.

2007-09-22 15:14:01 · 14 answers · asked by Pirate's Lady 2

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We went out on about 4 dates and on the 5th date I received some news. He told me that he was married and has four kids. They live back in mexico. We had dated about a week; I really started liking him and receiving this news was very shocking. I told him we wouldn't be able to see each other anymore. However before he got out of my car he asked me for a kiss. Crazily I kissed him for the first time and it was AMAZING! I have never experienced a first kiss like that. I gave in to going back to see him the next day and we continued the relationship. Unfortunately it was easy for me to block out the truth of his situation. Because he was here; I could see him everyday and his family was in mexico. He moved back to mexico to see his kids. We were able to text but his wife found the phone and saw all the messages. She is furious. He only calls 1 x a week & I am here waiting for him. I have fallen in love with him, but I don't know if I should wait

2007-09-22 15:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by Jess26 1

My husbands like that and it drives me crazy or I feel I need to ask him this some time

2007-09-22 15:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have looked at some sites where it shows it is a sin of incest by marrying your sister in law, if your wife of that sister has passed away. But this is a different case. It would be really awkward to bring this to my local preacher, but I will if I have to.

2007-09-22 14:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I were making love last night, and she began shouting out "oh Tupac, Yes Tupac!" She has never called me that before.

2007-09-22 14:52:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-22 14:42:15 · 60 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Today we were visiting with my hubbys brother and his bro could possibly be going on a trip to Africa... like a business trip. He would be gone for possibly 4 to 6 wks. My husband looked at me and said in sortof a joking manner, hey, I asked him about how much money they paid for supervisors there, and so I maybe going too. I joked back with him about it, and asked him later if he was serious. He said he had asked about the pay,but he said nothing about whether or not he was serious about the trip. Now, here's the deal. I am perfectly fine with the idea that people go on business trips that take them far away. My issue is how he acted like he was gloating about it..almost like haha, I may leave you and the kids and go there. If he had just mentioned it without that haha tone, it wouldn't bother me. It is 1 thing to say you may go, but another to gloat about it in my opinion. Do I ask him more about it since tomorrow is our anniversary? I feel hurt that he said it that way. Thanks.

2007-09-22 14:37:23 · 4 answers · asked by ShineOn 4

me a ring. he makes over $100, 000.
Should I move on????
He has a nice house and no bills. His house is 1/2 paid off & we have no kids.
should I leave?

2007-09-22 14:36:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm thinking about divorcing my wife. I'm 30, she's 28. No kids. What financial impact? Will she get my $? Emotionally I can't handle her anymore and i'm thinking of divorce, just curious of the financial impact.

2007-09-22 14:36:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-22 14:34:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I came up with this question a few days ago and it's been boggling me...

What would happen if your wife or husband died and years later you got re-married to someone else. When you yourself died, who would you want to be re-united with in the after-life?...your true love, the first spouse, or your more recent love, the second spouse.

2007-09-22 14:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by Andy 1

2007-09-22 14:33:28 · 12 answers · asked by Dee200000 2

My husband is aware that he has a body odor, it secretes through his sweat glands and it seems to be coming from internal and not external.The WHOLE upstairs of our house smells like him. Its a pretty foul odor and sometimes I cant stomach it. I love him with all my heart and soul but he prefers a body pouff over a washcloth and he doesnt scrub, he only wipes the soap gently over his body. How can I tell him that we need to cure the odor and he needs to wash vigorously with a washcloth and get rid of it.
What can I do, lastnight we were outside with the neighbors and I could smell him blowing in the air; so I know they could smell him. Hes the kinda guy you cant level with; he will blow up with rage and anger if I confront him and his feelings are hurt easily so whats another way to bring this to attention and a cure!!!???

2007-09-22 14:32:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my husband and I,ve been together 4 yrs. total. . Anyway he has a very bad habit of staring at other women, I mean undressing them w/ his eyes. I'm a beautiful woman, and i know he loves me because he can't keep his hands off me WHO COULD HAVE ANYBODY I WANTED; SAME FOR HIM.We have talked about it & he has gotten a lot better, but when ever we go out some where he prattically runs away from me, and kinda walks ahead of me. like today; I atend UA, & we went to the quad today before the game He can't keep his eyes to himself i mean he will cross the street to walk behind a good looking girl i know what he likes and i know him like the back of my hand, so i know what's he's doing. of course he denies it. he even changes directin to check out another girl. it's like he forgets everything for those few minutes but that woman and trying to whatch her as lon as he can, it seems like he even forgits i'm there for a minute!
he's kinda given me a complex.

2007-09-22 14:25:07 · 14 answers · asked by RadioChild 3

Are these stereotypes true ? If you believe they are false can you justify your belief ?

What qualities in a women might have given rise to these stereotypes ?

Are there any commonly held misconceptions/ false notions about women ? Why do you believe these are false ?

2007-09-22 14:21:37 · 6 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

ok, so my gf is pregnant now, and shes been having problems w/ her babys daddy and finally got up and left him. the new child is more than likely mine. i have debt issues and i have been scared of that and i told her that from the start. she got up and left him two days ago. she asked how i felt and i told her i pretty much love her its just im scared of my financial situation being a problem and that i dont know her enough to want to jump into a relationship. since then, she texted me from her friends phone saying her phone got shutoff. however, when i called her phone went to voicemail meaning that maybe the phone was off, not shutoff. she had said she was going to call me from her sisters, yet i havent heard from her since. if ure a chick, what might be going thru ur head if u are her? did my explanation possibly deter her from me cuz she thinks im not serious?i really care about this chick but sometimes i get the feeling she doesnt care shes just saying she does

2007-09-22 14:13:06 · 15 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

If someone loves someone else and is willing to wait for them.. WHY THE HELL WOULD THEY SLEEP WITH OTHER WOMEN?! oh yea.. it was defintely the lonliness in his defense, no? okay, so.. your all probably wondering why he is or was suppose to wait for me, but i wont get into details really.. and yes i am beyond the age of consent lol.. so its not that.. I'm now stuck in a position where I don't know if I should just proceed with waiting for each other. We have to wait for another 9 months, and he said that he does and did love me. I know this is silly. I know that he's probably saying this to not lose me. Can any of you relate to HIM? I feel like i'm his, "future girl"..the girl he's investing in...The things he did were over 8 months ago, but we've known each other for about 3 years now. I would greatly appreciate for anyone to just emphasize, encourage and give me advice on what I should do. I do love him dearly and I strongly do believe he lovs me as well.

2007-09-22 14:08:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I share joint custody of our son who lives with me 60% and lives with him 40%.The problem is my exhusband brings his fiance to things i feel should be just between the parents of our child(doctors appts.,school meetings with the teachers regarding our son)I have asked nicely for his fiance to stay home and leave these decisions to my ex and I to handle.Well my exhusband refuses to respect my wishes on this.As the mom do i have any legal rights to say where his fiance can and can't go regarding my son?

2007-09-22 14:05:10 · 19 answers · asked by kathy g 1

if i commit siucide what is going to happen with my minor kids

2007-09-22 14:03:36 · 15 answers · asked by mother 1

2007-09-22 13:17:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so sick of when i ask a question, i get horrible answers from people. All I asked was why people want to have so many children. I have an 18 month old and I dont understand how people deal with it...thats all! I love my son with all of my heart and he loves me, its just that at times, things get a little frustrating. Im here on this island by myself with a deployed husband and no family to help me out. I'm supposed to be thrilled and happy when I wake up with a migrane and I have to hear the moaning from him? I know its not his fault, its just the situation. I'm supposed to be happy when he throws tantrums???All i want to do is cry! What do other moms do? Thats what I'd like to know? I just want to have just one night for myself where I can have a couple drinks, chill and relax. Just ONE!!!!

2007-09-22 13:14:54 · 28 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2

When I was growing up, I lived with grandparents, and my grandfather always made final decisions in the household. Their marriage was awesome. Now that i'm married, I think it's best if we make decisions together, but whatever my husband decides is the final answer. This is the way the Bible said it should be too, but even when I see marriages of church going people, they don't always live this. Am I the only one left? What are your views on this?

2007-09-22 13:05:22 · 24 answers · asked by gurltaurus 2

in august'06 my ex and i opted to agree that i would have a psyche evaluation as a prerequisite to my having vistation rights to our 3 year old daughter. since that time, i've been facing financial difficulty which has hindered me from having this evaluation. I've been paying child support, but recently i recieved three payments back in the mail because her p.o. box (the only thing indicating the possible whereabouts of my daughter) had been closed with no forwarding address.Our daghter was born in california, but alaska was granted jurisdiction in this matter after my ex "fled" there, making false allegations of abuse and violence. It appears that she believes that she has no obligations to inform me of her whereabouts with my daughter. what are my rights at this point concerning basic information about my daughter? how do i formally request info abuot her? can i do so by contacting her attorney, or do i make a motion to the court?

2007-09-22 12:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by abezabajamma 1

Why is it when I don't say a word to my Ex-husband at visitation he starts saying a lot of bad stuff around his daughter and he in the first place wants us to stop fighting then he starts up fighting with me at visitation? Does that make since at all?

2007-09-22 12:32:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't like being alone. After haveing a copanoin for the last 20 years I know I shouldn't date right away , how ever I hate being alone also. Any advice.

2007-09-22 12:25:20 · 17 answers · asked by pd 1

I'm depressed all the time and feel like a failure. I've thought about suiside b/c i've lost my job and I slapped my wife the other day what should I do.....Is it best if I were no longer here....

2007-09-22 12:21:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-22 12:16:41 · 14 answers · asked by cortez c 1

My title sounds dramatc...but...
I am 16, and in my state, 16 is the age of consent.
I am dating a man in his 30's.

We have been best friends for two years, and he was the only person who got me to stop doing drugs, smoking cigarettes, drinking, and generally ******* up.
Nobody can make me smile or feel like he can, and he has helped me get away from abuse and so many problems.

He loves me,I love him.
It may sound dumb at my age, but I know what I feel.

I just...I don't know. I know that at 18 I want to immediately be with him, but he has been married once [for ten years] and has a 7 year old boy. I think he wants to get married ASAP and I just don't. I'm too young for that, right? I want to have a child with him, but not when I'm fresh out of high school. It just scares me that I'll be moving too fast, but my way would be too slow for him.
Help!

2007-09-22 12:13:51 · 23 answers · asked by Tay 1

2007-09-22 12:10:19 · 9 answers · asked by Paul M 1