Ok my husband and I,ve been together 4 yrs. total. . Anyway he has a very bad habit of staring at other women, I mean undressing them w/ his eyes. I'm a beautiful woman, and i know he loves me because he can't keep his hands off me WHO COULD HAVE ANYBODY I WANTED; SAME FOR HIM.We have talked about it & he has gotten a lot better, but when ever we go out some where he prattically runs away from me, and kinda walks ahead of me. like today; I atend UA, & we went to the quad today before the game He can't keep his eyes to himself i mean he will cross the street to walk behind a good looking girl i know what he likes and i know him like the back of my hand, so i know what's he's doing. of course he denies it. he even changes directin to check out another girl. it's like he forgets everything for those few minutes but that woman and trying to whatch her as lon as he can, it seems like he even forgits i'm there for a minute!
he's kinda given me a complex.
2007-09-22 14:25:07 · 14 answers · asked by RadioChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all i have a grat personality and he did not mary me for my looks im a very smart woman,a nd he is a smart man. i didn't mean lteraly anyone i wanted i don't base it all on looks. thank you!
2007-09-22 14:43:36 · update #1
Good thing 'you can have anybody you want', huh ?
With THAT attitude I'd say you turn him off daily.
And honey, just because he cant keep his hands off you doesnt mean he 'loves' you.
Your just a toy with a giant ego.
2007-09-22 14:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I can see why he has given you a complex. I think this is totally disrespectful behavior and I cannot imagine putting up with it myself. The next time you go out, make sure you have the car and house keys... Or at least some money for a cab and a cell phone. When he walks WAY ahead of you and/or forgets you are there, just leave his *** right where he is standing and leering... I mean if he forgets you what is the point in being there with him?
2007-09-22 21:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No....you can't have anyone you want.
I, for instance would never accept someone based on looks.....all looks....no heart.....no soul......no brain.....forget it.
There ARE people that are not swayed by pettiness. ALWAYS remember that. I've given up some damn good looking women because they were demons....had a black heart, petty, mean, frivolous, shallow, but a damn fine a.s.s.
He's one of those guys that.......now that he 'has' you.....the thrill is over. Somehow, your 'bod' just isn't cuttin' it....you know...the bod that you said could get you anyone you wanted? And I said....apparently not?...that it wouldn't wash with me, and apparently it doesn't wash with him either.
You have a problem on your hands, and to be honest with you I don't know exactly how to counsel you. Maybe you showed more of your external self than your internal self. Maybe all he wanted was the external you and not the internal you.
Maybe he's all about conquest and nothing about keepsakes.
Best have a Loooooong talk with this guy, but maybe you need to have one with yourself first.
I wish you all the best tho. Life can be harsh.
You're GOOD Lisa....I doubt she 'got it' tho.
2007-09-22 21:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This man do not respect you,put him in perspective,and ask if you start to flirt,how he will feel?.
Besides been a beautiful woman ,you wont have any problem to find some one else,hey am in your waiting list haha.
Please love your self .Life is short to spend with some one than dont give you the minimun respect.Be clear he changes for good or move on,I ll be waiting as many other guys :). Good luck.
2007-09-22 21:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by jose f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That strong a roving eye only belongs to a man who mentally cheats on you all day long. Most men like that who don't act on it only don't because they're afraid or don't find it convenient. His sexual attraction for you doesn't mean he wouldn't also hook up with every other hottie he comes across in a day if given a chance. He's obviously very insecure and isn't quite settled despite your good looks.
2007-09-22 21:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by oogabooga37 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My husband was like that at first but I kept hollering at him when he did it and sometimes hit him on the head, he has gotten a lot better over the years. You can always start checking out guys in front of him.
2007-09-22 21:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Kinda gives you a complex? Its kinda creepy. Crossing the street to follow a woman is stalker habits. It really is creepy.
2007-09-22 21:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wow.........you aren't planning on procreating are you? Honey he is on the lookout for the next girl,,,,,why do you think he walks away from you? He doesn't want people to know he's married. Good thing you can have anyone you want how fortunate for you.
2007-09-22 21:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i'd take a picture of him doing it while he's walking in front of you. what a jerk he is to completely disregard you. i agree with the idea that you should grab a cab home the next time he does it. tell him what you plan to do if it happens again and follow through. i wouldn't even tell him i was leaving, i'd just leave.
2007-09-22 21:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow. I am surprised you married him. I would never tolerate such disrespectful behavior towards you and other women! It tells a lot about the guy.
Didn't this bother you while you were dating??
2007-09-22 21:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by terliuke 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋