if i commit siucide what is going to happen with my minor kids
2007-09-22 14:03:36 · 15 answers · asked by mother 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you shouldn't commit suicide.... take sometime to think about it hun.... try counselling.... you wouldn't have to worry about what will happen to your minor children if you are there to care for them..... don't hurt your family and friends this way.... and don't hurt yourself....PLEASE SEEK HELP!!!
2007-09-22 14:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by chrysteena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why if you have children would you want to commit suicide? If you aren't happy, you need to get help NOW. Your children need you no matter what you think! No matter how old they are, they will always need their mom! I am 47 and I still need my mom! If the kids are yours from a previous relationship and he hasn't adopted them, they can end up with their biological father or any set of grandparents that want to fight to get them. If he has adopted them, they are his children and they will remain with him. If they belong to both of you, obviously as their father, he will raise them.
Please get help for yourself now. You may see Suicide as your only way out, but it is the coward's way out. Your children will be emotionally scared for life if you do this. It isn't only about you! I am not being mean, just honest. I had a good friend who's dad committed suicide and he had a very hard time growing up thinking he had done something wrong to make his dad do it! Again, PLEASE GET SOME HELP NOW!! Life is never as bad as we think it is!
2007-09-22 14:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by chefddr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will happen to your kids? They will forever suffer without their mom, that's what. Please think of them.
My father committed suicide, leaving my 2 sisters and me. It took me a long time to work through that... I finally came to the conclusion that he was a selfish coward who wanted the "easy" way out, not caring what it would do to my grandparents, his siblings, and his 3 daughters. (My baby sister ended up shooting herself when she was 21.... it was like a copycat suicide of my father's....go figure.) That could happen to your children too...
See a doctor...if you are having suicidal thoughts, there may be a chemical imbalance (which is not rare). There are simple treatments to help you. You can be a happy person, but you have to ask for help.
I will definately say a prayer for you...
2007-09-22 14:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by acksherly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all put this crap out of your head, maybe you need help!! But nothing is that bad. And yes I've been thru it all!! But my kids (3of em& they r adjults now), mean the world to me, think of the emptiness yuou'll be leavin them with. You are a BIG part of their lifes,&they love you!!They'll do nothing to yur husband, he'll just have to bury you(forever), you'll be gone!! And there isn't any murders in HEAVEN!! Your kids, well if the Dad is OK, they will stay with him. If not they'll go to a foster home (yuk), and really be screwed up, in the systen!! Just stay and be a good parent to them!!
2007-09-22 14:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact someone on a suicide watch line and discuss your feelings with them. You are a mother and need to be strong for your children, not leaving them alone. You need to find the strength to be the woman you can be and only a professional can help you get started. Get off the computer and get started now. Your life is worth too much. Trust me.
2007-09-22 14:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by ADC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
awwww... I think maybe you're trying to get away from your husband, and you see this is the only way, huh. Sweetie, suicide is never the answer. I went through this a few years ago, only I wasn't trying to get away from my husband, just myself. Whatever it is you're going through, get help. You can see a therapist, or go to church. You can even email or call me... gurltaurus@yahoo.com. I won't give you my number here, but you can email me. I know exactly what you're going through, and trust me, your kids would be devastated.
2007-09-22 14:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by gurltaurus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off you need to clear your head and think about how a suicide would affect those kids of yours...and then get some outside help.
2007-09-22 14:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by mamapoulette 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Suicide: A permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Suggestion, see medical help....you worry about your kids? May I suggest that you concentrate on helping yourself so you can continue to raise them.
2007-09-22 14:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your minor kids will forever blame themselves for your selfish act thinking "I must have caused her to do that." It will scar them for life. Don't do that to them. Instead, get some professional help.
2007-09-22 14:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all there is no reason or that. You must have written this hoping for some sort of ray of light. Well here it is. God loves you, and he will help you through anything and everything. Please do not harm yourself or take yourself from this earth. It's not your time. Please email me if you need tot alk. Pray about it. Have faith!!! I don't know you but you are worth more htan that. LMillerE18@yahoo.com Please don't hesitate. And see a counselor if you can!!!!
2007-09-22 14:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by pink 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋