2007-09-22 12:16:41 · 14 answers · asked by cortez c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you marry someone that isn't attractive to start with seems to me you picked her now you have to sleep with her.She probably isn't crazy about you either.
2007-09-22 12:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
regardless of what most folk would view as a attractive, I would think if you married someone, it would be because they had qualities (physical or otherwise) that made them attractive to you.
so if you've taken the leap and realized that you're not attractive to this person, then you just have to deal with it. appreciate the qualities that made you want to get married in the first place.
2007-09-22 12:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you do that? Were you arranged? People normally do not marry someone they are not attracted to in the free world.
2007-09-22 12:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a vow, and you should keep that vow. Why did you marry your spouse? Was it because she was good to you? I 'd rather be married to someone I could live with rather than a spouse you had to worry about every single minute---a spouse that cannot be trusted. Are you sure you are not going thru a stage in your marriage right now? Now is the time to start talking with your wife, talk this problem out and give your spouse a chance----when you sit down to talk you might start sharing intimate parts of your thoughts and bring the sexual attraction out.
2007-09-22 12:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why would you marry some thats not really attractive to you.......THAT's the question!
2007-09-22 12:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by cautious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce: youve married the wrong person
I assume you mean you dont find her physically or emotionally attractive, interesting charming or beautiful
If so, then yup, silly mistake. Quit now while your ahead and before you have kids, as you will find someone else attractive, thats for sure...
Also, make sure youre not just realising that you may be unsure of your sexuality...
Maybe its not the wrong woman, maybe you havent found the right man ;-)
2007-09-22 12:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Still Waters 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WHYYY did you do it? Its important to be attracted to the person you marry. Attraction isn't just about looks but just having that indescribable feeling towards someone.
2007-09-22 13:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is WHY? If you're not attracted to the person there must be some pretty alternate reasons why you're married.
They're probably not good reasons either.
2007-09-22 13:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Close your eyes...leave the lights off...after a few years she'll be attractive to you - about the same time you start to become unattractive to her...it all works out
2007-09-22 12:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
its not all about a persons looks. a person has to have a great personality and you have to have a connection.
2007-09-22 12:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by whatever 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋