Marriage & Divorce - 13 September 2007

and I wanna have sex with him really bad.....should I wake him up ( he has to get up for work at 3am) or should I just get it tommorrow night?

2007-09-13 17:04:44 · 53 answers · asked by Nubian_Princess 1

When I filed my ex was not working, so child support was based upon minimum wage. Now that he's had the same job since about March and making more money, I was wondering how I go about raising the amount deducted from his paychecks.

2007-09-13 17:01:00 · 10 answers · asked by Alysia 2

I know this just makes me sound so old but it breaks my heart to see the kids(18-22) who work for me find out they are going to be Moms or Dads. They are just babies! So many of them have sooo much potential! I just feel they have stunted their future with the added responsibility of a family. It just breaks my heart!

2007-09-13 17:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by nil_queen 3

2007-09-13 16:58:40 · 20 answers · asked by doubledip 1

I love my wife; she is younger than me, beautiful and has a great sense of humor. But when she gets mad she starts insulting, beating me and saying terrible things. This is my 8th time that she slaps me in the face or hit me hard with a bat when she gets upset. Every time we receive help from friends, physiologist, she always talks the most awful things about me instead of being at my side. We have been into 4 counseling sessions and the 4 therapist's advice is to get away from her since she is violent and doesn’t respect... I am trying to avoid divorce and she doesn’t want to get help even though she admit the aggression problem. Now she threat me of comiting suicide.. im going crazy... it seems that the only thing that worries her is being back at her mom’s house or having to work since I provided her with everything. I don’t want to sound as a dork but I am just trying to save this marriage. I just dont know how to handle this and need advice from serious users please.

2007-09-13 16:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Bono 2

or are vows a nice ceremonial tradition, but if too much suffering is involved, they arent something to be adhered to?

2007-09-13 16:35:18 · 21 answers · asked by Sopwith 4

I wanna turn my hubby on but how? He never turns me on

2007-09-13 16:25:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the sceneraio: Husband and wife are separated after
husband gets caught cheating with 30 yr. old. Husband is
48 anf wife is 50. Husband comes to visit wife and pays her
a compliment: "You look pretty.Your new hair cut and style
take tons of years off you." He's spanish. Is it a language
problem? Was he trying to say something nice and it didn't
come out that way or is it his subconcious .....deep inside he
thinks his wife looked old before and he likes younger
women....and let this slip out uncousciously. If the wife takes
it the wrong way...maybe she's insecure or low self esteem.
Or, maybe he is showing that he favors younger women.
Mind you...the wife looks younger than 50 but of course,
does not look like a 30 yr old. What do you think? Is it a
compliment he gave her and felt she looked pretty and
wanted her to know it? Or, is this part of the problem...he
likes women only by how they look and of course...a younger
woman fits the bill.

2007-09-13 16:24:28 · 5 answers · asked by zebra123 1

graduated Roosevelt High School St. Louis, MO 6/1964

2007-09-13 16:21:28 · 2 answers · asked by Joseph W. K 1

After 11 years of marriage, my wife began having affairs. It started with one, which I forgave, then she went on a trip and slept with two other people and tried for a third. After she returned, she started going out for drinks with her friends and soon slept with two other guys. I finally told her to leave after she invited a guy over to the house while I was away on a week long conference. That was the final straw and I told her to leave the house, me, and our four kids. Now she accusses me of being too narrow minded of her new swinging lifestyle. She's moved in with a boyfriend and doesn't understand why I won't let her take our kids anywhere. She's offered to take them swimming at her boyfriend's apartment. Since she thinks I'm narrow minded and not really in tune with how Americans view her lifestyle, I would like to ask anyone out there how they view her lifestyle and if they would be comfortable letting her take their kids anywhere.

2007-09-13 16:15:54 · 52 answers · asked by scp98k 2

Is marriage partnership of equals between husband and wife? why do you say so?

2007-09-13 16:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by Black Mamba 2

O>K. I am a busy person with several volunteering jobs, kids, house, work , dog, activities and yes a husband. I feel neglected by my husband he is always busy working from home every night. He is trying to grow a company but, I feel that I am no longer alive to him. is this normal?

2007-09-13 16:12:39 · 15 answers · asked by Maggie518 1

Are you in favor of divorce to be enacted in our country?what are the advantages?

2007-09-13 16:11:31 · 2 answers · asked by Black Mamba 2

2007-09-13 16:10:34 · 17 answers · asked by donny_mollysmom 3

Help my hubby is bad in bed.

2007-09-13 16:10:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you tell your wife your too tired for sex is that the real reason? My thinks I'm full of bs, but after a long work day all I want is a beer and some good sleep.

2007-09-13 16:08:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Marriage has been on my mind.I want to ask my gf to marry me.But!, we are not financially able too.I make just enough for myself and so does she.This has been a factor for me and her father.Are we able to financial stay together?Can we take care of bills and life's neccessities?Are we able to live comfortable?
Her father asked me, "What are you able to do to provide for my daughter the security and financial comfortability?"

I do think about our future and well being.Having thoughts for the future does not cut it though.
Her father wants me to be able to provide right after we get married.Time frame...soon after marriage.I do have plans but it'll take a longer time.It seems like I need something now...and just being able to take care of ourselves does not cut it.For him atleast...am I being naive?

I also pondered on the thought if we can both take care of ourselves...can't we get married and live together.

So I want to ask poeple out there...what does it take to be married?

2007-09-13 16:06:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been divorced for 5 yrs and have custody of my son 50% of the time.Zak will call me everyday(sometimes 4-5 times) that i'm gone and ask when will i be home,that he misses me ect then wants me to stay on the phone with him and listen to tv/music with him.The only way i can get him off the phone is to promise to call him back in a few hours.Now when his mom(my ex) goes away he NEVER does this to her i have to tell him to call her and say hi.I do take him with me sometimes but can't take him everytime.Now my gf thinks my ex is putting Zak up to this to ruin our vacations(possible as my ex is still bitter about our divorce and hates my gf)My sister just thinks hes a "poor child of divorce".that misses not having his dad 100%.

2007-09-13 16:00:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-09-13 15:50:58 · 41 answers · asked by Sopwith 4

2007-09-13 15:28:42 · 8 answers · asked by Dew 7

I kissed a guy today who wasn't my husband. I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek but a long drawn out french kiss. It meant nothing but it just felt right at the moment. Is it cheating and should I tell my husband about it?

2007-09-13 15:19:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

And you're already married, love your job, and do not want to leave it to end the affair with your co-worker? Youve tried finding another job and tried repeatedly to end the affair, both unsuccessfully. Probably because you love both. And your co-worker loves you back, the people you work for are extremely happy with you and your work. You have built a respected relationship with your company for many years, and built a loving relationship with your co-worker for a few years.

You realize that both you and your co-worker are more and more frustrated because of the secret feelings that you have for ea other. You also realize that you cannot go on like this; it is not fair to your spouse (whom you have more of a friendship with) and it is starting to affect your work performance.

You have to work daily with this co-worker; you dont have a choice in your position. Because you must support your family, you cannot leave this good paying job without another lined up. What would you do?

2007-09-13 15:17:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

aside from the obvious answer of love, what else would you consider getting married for?
wouldnt you prefer freedom?
doing what you want, when you want, with who you want and never having to confer with anyone?

2007-09-13 15:15:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I have problems & issues. Yet no family or friends know. Instead I put on this act and try to appear normal.
The sane thing to do would be to confide in someone I know. But I don't. I don't want to worry them, have them judge me, talk about me or simply think I'm nuts.
Why do others come here for advice instead of going to people they know?

2007-09-13 15:08:20 · 11 answers · asked by candy'sroom 3

Why?, because every country has different Rules when it come to marriage, divorce, seperation and child maintenance, so come on everyone make it easier for us to answer your question.

2007-09-13 14:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by Live_For_Today 6

I don't mean after you've slept with a hooker or a ....nannny....but with your lover or spouse?

2007-09-13 14:49:46 · 9 answers · asked by Danu 6

My sister's friend, Claire has been married for 19 years with two teen children with, as she descirbes it, a great husband, an engineer. However, Claire has met another man named David. David, an orthopedic spine surgeon, met Claire and realized that he loves Claire. David said that he loves Claire and Claire realizes that she has feelings for David. Claire loves her husband, but she also loves David at the same time...she is really confused. David, having one son, is getting a divorce from his wife because, David thinks/realizes that Claire is his sole mate after 16 years of marriage to his first wife. However, Claire, never hearing the words "I love you" from her own husband feels as if she has a connection with David. Claire does not know what to do! She does not want to hurt her husband, yet she loves David. She want to talk to someone to express her feelings, but she is lost...Can, PLEASE, anyone help her? She is in desperate need. THank you

2007-09-13 14:29:43 · 13 answers · asked by imagination_inevitable 1

help...please...
Question Details: I'm going to lose it...the pressures...the strain...i'm ready to run away and become a homeless, baglady...and i'm not kidding. there are moments when i want to die and drive off a cliff, but i don't want to leave behind a devastated family. :(

i just started a job as a teacher, but i hate it. we need the paycheck desperately and the medical benefits so i can get help and meds, but i can't make it until then. it's not good to be depressed as a new, first year elementary school teacher.

if i walk away, i walk away from hope, but i can't cling to it...i don't want to go back...the thought puts me over the edge. i'm taking tomorrow off (i'm getting the stomach flu passed on by my daughter.)

i feel as though i let everyone down (and incurred loans to pay for the education) but no amount of positive talk is getting me through this. i am crying all the time. not in front of the kids, of course. my own kids are young adults with depression problems, too. they can't work either. help

2007-09-13 14:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by hope03 5

Be honest....because my husband thinks I'm crazy because he tells me he is going to get gas, (gas station is less than 5 mins away) and I don't hear from him for over 2 hours. He went to the library, but I thought he was dead. Am I crazy?

2007-09-13 14:16:49 · 27 answers · asked by Tasha 1

2007-09-13 14:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by John9864 1