Marriage & Divorce - 31 August 2007

I am in a situation where a certain person is willingly violating policy to the point she would be fired if the truth was revealed. She is blaming everyone for starting the rumor but the person with whom she is involved is actually telling all of her business. Policy does not allow her to date this person because she holds a professional position, and he is a displayed consumer. She is boldly doing it and lying to her superior and co-workers. She then becomes wrathful and actually lies on innocent folk to circumvent what she is doing. She is so powerful and deceiving that she is going to get away with it. In a sense, she is a sociopath. Because of her looks and the sincere way she convinces everyone that she is doing nothing wrong, it is almost impossible to expose her.

2007-08-31 11:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by shawnLacey 4

2007-08-31 11:15:09 · 19 answers · asked by eiffelparis2005 1

i have a presure job,go and have a few tooo maney on friday night,back to work on sun/mon she complains . i earn 70K+ WHATDO I SAY OR DO.

2007-08-31 11:08:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is emotionally abusive. He curses me, tells me I'm nothing, says the next man will physically abuse me, and does a lot of mean things. When I ask him to change, he says he will but doesn't. He always brings up the things that I have done wrong (I don't clean enough, I've been mean, etc.) and says he's forgiven me so I should get over it. We've been separated for a few months now. There are times when things are good but they never last long. He says he wants me back but he has not changed. Why does he not want to end this marriage?

2007-08-31 11:08:38 · 28 answers · asked by lifeLover75 5

Do you prefer complete honesty from your man about your appearance, or do you prefer him to tell you that you're completely gorgeous always regardless?

2007-08-31 10:58:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I havent seen them in a while they are15 and 13 I was expecting to have them this weekend and they both made other plans I wouldnt be upset or hurt if this hadnt been the third weekend in a row,they are supposed to come every other weekend but dad does what they want he ignores our divorce decree I dont have $ to go to court I also feel bad because If I buy them stuff they'll come and I feel like that is all they come for

2007-08-31 10:57:10 · 12 answers · asked by laura w 2

in a divorce how can one spouse's lawyer ask the other to pay for their attorney fee?

2007-08-31 10:55:46 · 8 answers · asked by diana g 3

He's been married a year and is 23. I'm 29 & have had problems with my marriage for the last 2 yrs (known new guy 1yr). Day after HE kissed me, he said he couldn't be w/me outside work in order to save his marriage. So, I was going to avoid him but he keeps coming up to me and saying he misses me, I look great, etc. and I can tell that he has feelings for me. He also asks a lot about my relationship with my husband (almost every time we meet). Is he waiting for me to say it's not working out with my husband before he makes another move b/c it doesn't seem he's being cautious on his wife's behalf (w/ the flirting, etc). I think we both are in love but scared. He asked me to do lunch last week but then said "sorry" he couldn't do it (guilt?). Now he says he's "struggling" with wanting to hang out w/me. I want to be fair to my husband & his wife, so I don't want to drag this on. How can I find out if we are meant to be and what he's really feeling? Should I ask why he's "struggling"?

2007-08-31 10:13:44 · 53 answers · asked by 9201css 2

2007-08-31 09:50:51 · 16 answers · asked by semajjelin 2

I mean marriage is just a ring and a piece of paper. So why is it so important for women to tie the knot!

Is it so that when you get a divorce in two years they can take half of your savings and probably get to keep the house you lived in before you even met them!

or is it to do with wanting to feel secure that your not going to run of with someone younger and better looking and if you do, then they know they can still get their hands on half of whats in your bank account!??

or sensibly why is it ? i just mocked marriage there, but why is it?? whats so important about it

thanks

2007-08-31 09:50:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

do y'all realize they are like 10 and 11 year olds on this site?! honestly! be civilized!

2007-08-31 09:49:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-31 09:47:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Indulge an old married crone for a moment and answer this question.....It seems to be an accepted fact that men have a tendency to see women in general as sex objects..so why do they act strange when older women look at them as sex objects???? I mean like at the mall for instance...guys you see an older gal say she is okay looking and she is looking at you with that LOOK in her eye....why do yu guys get a mortified look on your face and seem to run the other way?? SOme of us older gals do it to just watch your reaction and entertain ourselves but WHY do you RUN????????

I mean over 18 year old guys. I am not looking at minors thank you.

2007-08-31 09:41:51 · 13 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7

told me so, but he says he is hurt and nothing is going to change his mind but over the last few weeks he's been coming around more, how should I act I really want to fix things between us. Some people tell me to act like i don't care and act as if everything is great without him, others tell me to keep apologizing and be extremely nice to him. Which one is the best advice?

2007-08-31 09:41:28 · 12 answers · asked by beba 1

I have been emotionally abused, controlled and manipulated by him for the last time.......I can't take it any more! I literally feel as though I'm walking on egg shells in an attempt to avoid him. Nothing I do, or say is right. It's been 7 years, and we have 3 children ages 5,3 and 1. I really thought he would get help, especially after two of our kids have been showing severe signs of emotional trauma. My 3 year old now grinds, and bites his knuckles when tense, stutters, and my 5 year old is even more sensitive to the situation. It's breaking my heart, and I am ready, to take action. I may seem like a weak hearted fool for staying this long,but until recently I actually believed him when he told me it was my fault for making him act this way. He has messed with my mind plenty, but I will NOT let him traumatise our children any more. I am so scared.Being a child of a messy Divorce myself, I know the devastation it can cause.But I also know it is a better option than living like this.

2007-08-31 09:36:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

We went to court and they left the child support case open because he dont have a job but he claims he bought a house can I enforce child support.

2007-08-31 09:36:08 · 14 answers · asked by karam1982rahman 1

I was wondering because my husband says that he only feels tight at the opening, maybe 2 or 3 inches within. (like a ring on your finger)The rest of the penis he says he feels like it's flying......you know what I mean? I was wondering if this is normal....or maybe I have a problem.......would it need to be tight all the way? (like a long tube) .....would a man feel better that way?

2007-08-31 09:21:14 · 26 answers · asked by christy321014 1

It is so hard to keep my mouth shut.

2007-08-31 09:14:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bestfriend either thinks i'm stupid or she has lost her mind. she cheated on her husband and acts as thought her marriage is peachy. we saw the guy she cheated with and she tried to tell me that the two of them never messed around but she cried on the phone about it the day after it happened. and now she is trying to hook the guy up with an old friend of ours. should i tell the other girl,even though i dont like her? and should i call my best friend out about her infedility so she can get a glimpse of reality: that her marriage is screwed up and she needs help? cuase i seriously think that in time her marriage won't make it and it's better that she admits to her wrong doing now.

2007-08-31 09:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by shaunda 2

2007-08-31 09:13:40 · 18 answers · asked by (sandstorm222) Jason Carmichael 1

2007-08-31 09:09:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got married 6 months ago when my husband was here on leave.he is currently deployed and will be away another 5 months. i found out he cheated on me before we got married several times over months and i have been dealing with this the past months,. he wants to make up and be a good man now, but thats impossible with him being away (how would i know he isnt doing it still) and when he is back i dont see much of a chance and he knows this. i do love him still very much, unfortunaly, but he caused so much damage and now i am alone with all my pain. i feel very lonely and have a serious need to be held by someone, no sex! just be touched and cared for again. does anyone understand?

2007-08-31 09:05:46 · 11 answers · asked by not this way 5

My husband and I do not have children yet, but we both want to have a baby. Maybe in a year or so....We both are busy, both own our own business and I am not a kind of a woman who can be a stay at home wife/ mom and be happy. I would like to stay at home with our future baby as long as I can, but eventually I have to go back to work. I think a live in nanny is a good idea. I mean I am not planning on working all day long and I want to spend time with my children and take care of them, but at the same time I know that I will go insane if I stay at home all the time taking care of the kids. My husband says that it is wrong to have a live in nanny because a mother should raise the kids, not a stranger. He thinks that I should stay at home until our future baby is at least 3 years old. He says that it is selfish and irresponsible to hire someone to take care of your baby. What do you think? Am I being selfish? Is something wrong with me?

2007-08-31 09:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a man gets excited looking at women butts and breasts, then what do women look for in the man?

2007-08-31 09:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has this friend who is constantly harassing him to go to the bars with him. I'll call him *Jon*. First off, neither my husband nor I have any interest in bars. We think they are a waste of money and we'd rather drink at home. Anyways, *Jon* LOVES the bar scene. He blows all of his $$ there, drinks and drives, and is constantly trying to pick up women, despite the fact that he has a gf. *Jon* doesn't necessarily like me because he wants my husband to be single again so they can party like they did a couple of years back. He doesn't like the fact that my husband has responsibilities. He is always trying to get him to do stupid things and he is always trying to talk to my husband about other women IN FRONT OF ME! WTF?!? I told my husband I don't care if he wants to go to the bars, but I don't want him going with *Jon*. Only bad things can come from it. I think *Jon* would try to get my husband to cheat on me, or at least not try to prevent it. Am I overreacting?

2007-08-31 08:58:55 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

My inlaws are coming to stay the weekend with us. They live one hour away and they come once or twice every couple of months. Sometimes it's more frequent and sometimes it's not as often. We, on the other hand, go there to visit at least twice a month and sometimes more. For instance, this will be our third weekend in a row seeing them. We went to visit them for the past two weekends. I would say we see them pretty regularly. I love them to pieces but they are in their mid to late 60's so they are kind of boring. Besides, my cousin (whom is like a best friend) wants to hang out. We haven't hung out in a while, as to be honest, when we were supposed to I cancelled to be with my husband's parents.

My husband probably wouldn't care, but the times when I did tell him I had plans he kind of made a playful side remark trying to make me feel guilty.

2007-08-31 08:56:43 · 11 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

2007-08-31 08:52:54 · 11 answers · asked by shahbaz f 1

I love my husband so much but he just can't pick up after himself. He leave his mail all over the house will not put clothes in hamper,leaves cups on table .Never helps with house work ever..I cook and clean. Does any on have any ideas how I can get him to help more? Do you have the same problem?

2007-08-31 08:52:25 · 30 answers · asked by Hugs from Sugar bug 7

I am in my mid twenties and I have been married for 6 years. I 've always wanted to have children but since my husband and I had marital problems so I decided to wait a couple until I was absolutely sure that I was going to stay in the relationship and have a strong, stable marriage. Well, our relationship is so much better now, we went through marital therapy, etc. But unfortunately we do not own a house, we own our own business and we live where we work. I keep telling my husband I want to move but it doesn't seem to be very important to him. Finally, I said- I am tired of living here, I would like to have our own place for us and our future children! I waited 6 years and I think it is a normal desire for a woman to want to create a home ( a nest) for her family. My husband keeps telling me - just wait a couple of years, but I already waited 6 years! I want to start a family but not here, I want my kids to have a yard to play in and a home! Am I right? Should I wait to have children?

2007-08-31 08:36:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it at kissing..oral sex.. or the act of sex?

2007-08-31 08:13:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous