Marriage & Divorce - 16 August 2007

2007-08-16 04:11:10 · 33 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2

My boyfriend is very ambitious he wants to be a Doctor. That makes me nervous, I tell him I don't want him to be, therefore he is looking into Pharmacy however I know that isn't his passion and I don't want to be selfish. I want to be supportive but at the same time how difficult is it? I know once he is in med School he can't work and it's very difficult for him and were living together. We do want to marry and have children how is it for the family? I am studying Accounting but that isnt as time consuming. I have a good salary and can manage paying bills on my own. However, in the future I want to be happy with a great family is this possible? How tough is it being a Med Student Spouse, nonetheless a Doctors Spouse in the future?

2007-08-16 04:09:36 · 18 answers · asked by Mari 5

please answer this for my creative writing class...Who would you stomp on if you were 1000 feet tall and explain how youd step on them with your foot to squish them?

2007-08-16 04:04:10 · 7 answers · asked by garyx22002 1

I have recently come out to my husband, some friends and family that I'm gay. I've been with my husband for almost 10yrs now. We get along pretty well and we have an 8 almost 9yr old daughter. We have been talking about getting a divorce. He wants to work things out but I'm not so sure that I want to because I wouldn't be able to be with a women and the sex with him is doing nothing for me. But my dilemma is this....I'm very worried about how this will affect my daughter. My husband seems to think that her life will be turned upside down and she will need counseling. Some people say stay for my daughters sake and others tell me to move forward and make myself happy. I'm not a selfish person. I always think of my daughter first but I'm not so sure if I stay that it will be better for her in the long run. If anyone has any answers for me I would greatly appreciate it. Especially anyone who has been in my situation. Thanks!

2007-08-16 04:04:04 · 21 answers · asked by h76irish 1

So my girlfriend and I lived together for two years. The mortage, bills, and car note are all under my name only. But I did report her and her kids a year ago on the tax return because she was hardly working. She commited adultry and is moving out. Are we common law married? Do I need to file for a divorce? What rights do I have and what rights does she have?

2007-08-16 04:01:59 · 3 answers · asked by leo_player79 1

My husband and I have been seperated for a couple weeks now, but we are still living together. Him at one end of the house and me at the other. I have tried everything in my power to make him happy....leaving me feeling unhappy and very alone. I love him dearly not for the man he is but for the man he truely could be. I have given him so much space and love that I don't think I can do it anymore. I have asked him so many times to just leave and he will not leave, nor will he stay and try to work on our marriage. I go to sleep at night and he finds his way into our bedroom and sleeps next to me, and when I wake up in the middle of the night I look at him and hate runs through my heart and I go sleep on the couch.
I love this man very much.............but when is love just not enough anymore? What more could I possibly do, without losing who I really am? I don't want to continue putting 100% into this anymore and then find myself searching for me again.

2007-08-16 04:00:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How does your spouse feel about it? How do your parents feel about it? Did it take awhile to get used to? Does it ever get confusing if all of them are together?


I have no idea how common this might be, but my parents and my fiance's parents have always addressed both sets of our grandparents as "Mom" and "Dad".

2007-08-16 03:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, every since I can remember I have always been one to leave the house when upset or angry no matter who I am arguing with. Well, I have lived with my husband for a year and three months now...well when we get in a heated argument I feel like i HAVE to leave. I don't know exactly why...it is almost like I feel trapped in a corner and I need room to breathe. I feel like if I stay it will make things worse, but if I get out for a while and think, I will come back much calmer and ready to talk it out instead of screaming it out. But the problem is that my husband HATES it when I do that. So my question to you all is....does anybody else do what I do? Why do you do it? How do you stop? I want to respect my husband and try to work on not leaving the house, but I don't know how to stop....please give me some advice! THANKS!!!

2007-08-16 03:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by Kelli S 2

If a Man impregnates an un-wed Mother with children, is he than legally responsible for ALL the children or is he simply just responsible for the child he Fathered?

2007-08-16 03:55:41 · 11 answers · asked by Nana Butterfly 4

Physically or emotionally.

2007-08-16 03:47:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think its important to the man in a marrige that the wife changes to his last name and if so -guys please explain why it means so much to you.

2007-08-16 03:36:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because of her fears and temperament, my spouse doesn't want to fly and travel overseas and resents if I want to go alone or with a married friend. We travel in the US by train and car.

2007-08-16 03:14:49 · 9 answers · asked by eugenoaacc 1

with divorce rate and all the single parents out there, it seems that it is normal, but do you think it really is? or have we become custom to having so many options available to us in every aspect of our lives that it has spilled over into our love lives? do you have an attitude that if it doesnt work out, thats okay, just break up and move on or do you try to save your love.

2007-08-16 03:13:15 · 19 answers · asked by im done 2

My husband and I have been together for almost twelve years now. He has always known that I want a family, but constantly puts it off. I have had several health problems making it impossible for me to just end up pregnant. I know that i will need to be on medicine and he needs to be supportive. His reason for waiting is always the same...money. We have a comfortable life and unless we win the lottery its not going to get any better. What should I do? I need his support but this is very important to me and he has always known this

2007-08-16 02:59:12 · 9 answers · asked by nuggget612 1

My friend w/benefits lives with me. First we were friends then with benefits. Now I've fallen in love with her. She knows this but I've also told her that I accept that she does not want more than the benefits. I treat her like a girlfriend, buying gifts and taking her places which she seems to accept even though she does nothing special for me which I accept. I know this is unhealthy for me. The problem is if I try to back off and just be a friend, she gets upset. It's like she wants me to love her and treat her like a girlfriend but does not want to do anything in return. Other times she says I'm all over her and to back off. Seems like she wants me as a boyfriend sometimes and other times wants me to leave her alone. I feel trapped. Everytime I try to back off she gets upset at that too. Am I missing something or is this girl mental. We still have sex a couple of times a week. I can't seem to figure this out and she doesn't talk to me about her feelings.

2007-08-16 02:58:47 · 29 answers · asked by t_boy69 1

2007-08-16 02:58:18 · 13 answers · asked by Mountain Magic 2

2007-08-16 02:50:52 · 17 answers · asked by elena l 1

im in a relationship with a man who has another family before me. He's no longer marry to her. They live in two different country but he pays for everything over there rent bills food expense and extra spending money, but that's not enough for her. She wants more money or she wants him to buy their son shoe and ship it which cause more money then her buying it over in the philippine. we're suggling here I have to work two full time job with no support from him. i have a son with him too he's only one but both his parent work two full time job. As for his ex wife she doesn't work at all. wat or how you feel if you were me, mind you their son is 4 and in school but yet she isn't working....

2007-08-16 02:45:02 · 24 answers · asked by Sexy C 1

If so why and if so why not? I personally will only have sex with a person that I love or feel that I will love. Hehe I was going to say love but then realised that I only waited 3 days with my husband and I don't think I loved him quite that fast... I knew I was going to though!

2007-08-16 02:40:37 · 26 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6

2007-08-16 02:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by lovepets 6

remarried man of 8 months wants to sleep with his 9 yr old daughter instead of new wife cried b/c she couldnt go on honeymoon and now is taking his daughter on a vacation without new wife in an exclusive lodge he wouldnt take his new bride to when she asked

2007-08-16 02:35:21 · 25 answers · asked by welcone 1

I have a friend that I just found out is dating a married man. She at first lead me to believe that this man was getting a divorce. This is a man that she had an affair with years ago, the affair ended, and now the affair is back on. I recently found out that this man is not in the process of getting a divorce. My friend doesn't see anything wrong with having a relationship with him because she's in love and he is in an unhappy marriage. I am married, so I know how marriage is. Marriage is a job, some days you feel like working at it other days you don't but the commitment is always there. My parents marriage ended due to my father having an affair. The man that she is seeing also has children. My friend is upset becasue she feels that she's not getting the support needed from her friends. I am leaning toward ending my friendship with her. She says that he is going to get a divorce I can't understand why she can't wait for this to happen before she continues the relationship.

2007-08-16 02:27:53 · 32 answers · asked by Shakey 2

everything... from the bills. to our kid having recurring tonsilitis....to not having sex... {i want to ,, he does not}}.... the arguements..
he says it is that he is stressed about the money and bills.. then turns around and blames it all on me...
i have tried talking to him about everything, from money to sex. and kids, and everything else... we are getting nowhere fast....
our relationship started so great.. what is happening??? i try every day with him.. it seems the more i try the more he pulls back... what the heck??? i threatened to leave yesterday if things dont change... then it turned into a really nasty argument... i dont know what to do..... there are 2 people here, i know marriage is an effort every single day.. but where is his effort? what can i do??

2007-08-16 02:24:53 · 15 answers · asked by smurfette 4

I have been trying to get the courage to leave my abusive husband for months now but i am so scared of the unknown starting a new life on my own away from my family and everything i know also i am worried about finances as i have no money as im not allowed to work or have money of my own. Also i have a 3 year old daughter and it means me settling her into a new nursery and im 12 weeks pregnant and im scared of going through my pregnancy alone or if something serious goes wrong with me or baby when i have my daughter to look after. the situation im in my head is so muddled i need to get out as situation is getting worse i dont know where to start and what to do about the pregnancy. I want the baby just very very scared at the minute.

2007-08-16 02:23:10 · 31 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-08-16 02:20:17 · 12 answers · asked by Omar 1

My fiance and I have been together 3 1/2 years, engaged 1 1/2. We've lived together for almost 2 years now as well. Last August I moved with him 2 hours away from my hometown so he could finish school at the University. I left my family, friends and work. This past Saturday he tells me he's no longer "In-Love" with me...but still loves, cares and has deep feelings for me. He says we just don't have the spark anymore and he doesn't want to feel like this after we get married. He wants to work on things to see if there really is something there or not. We're each other's best friends still...
I've decided to move back down home to give him his time and space. We still plan on seeing each other when he comes home and I plan on coming up to see him. We've decided together not to see other people. He still tells me he loves me...but he just doesn't know what he wants. I've asked him if he has cold feet and he says no....what do I do?? Our wedding was set for October 13-this year

2007-08-16 02:18:25 · 7 answers · asked by dani_m_w 2

If two loving people are committed to each other why do they have to have a piece of paper to say that it is ok to have children? I don't get it.

2007-08-16 02:14:33 · 32 answers · asked by jennasue14 1

When we go to her drs appointments the doc and I cut up, he laughs at me all the time and we joke around. My fiance tells me he thinks the dr. is flirting with me too, but I don't know. I kinda wish he was. What do I do and do you think the doc might be crushing on me as well like my fiance says he is?

2007-08-16 02:05:01 · 14 answers · asked by Angela A 1

I have a question about threesomes. My husband wants one and I have no issue with having sex with women (I am bi).
My question is will this hurt our relationship? (We have a great relationship and are best friends as well as lovers)
The last thing I want to do is put our marriage in jeopardy but I do want to fullfill his fantasy.

2007-08-16 02:03:42 · 24 answers · asked by Spring 5

2007-08-16 01:58:53 · 24 answers · asked by bec 3