Because of her fears and temperament, my spouse doesn't want to fly and travel overseas and resents if I want to go alone or with a married friend. We travel in the US by train and car.
2007-08-16 03:14:49 · 9 answers · asked by eugenoaacc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
shoot my baby knows that i would never ever let him go to puerto rico or any latin american country by himself!! as much as i love and trust him, but thats too much eye candy right there! ;-) so he knows he gotta take me with him or hes not going either. she should get over herself and join you though!!
2007-08-16 03:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can c both sides. U should talk 2 her about mayb going 2 a doctor and talking about her fear and getting put on medication that would make her feel relaxed enuf 2 travel. My aunt and I suffer from phobias like that but we medicate and travel. Life's 2 short 2 miss out on, she should take advantage especially if she's not afraid 2 travel in the US by car and train. They do offer special classes 2 people who r afraid 2 fly. Good luck.
2007-08-16 03:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you traveling with a married man or woman?
You shouldn't be traveling with a married woman. If it's a man, the that's no big deal. All you can do is tell her how you feel about travel. Sounds like if you go, it'll make her mad. It's up to you to decide if travel is more important to you than your wife's feelings (insane as they are). Is this attitude of not wanting you to travel new or has she always been like this? If this is new behavior, you guys might talk to a marriage counselor once to work it out. If she has always been like this, then you really shouldn't go. Get a different hobby.
2007-08-16 03:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You carefully left out if the "married friend" was of the opposite sex.
Doing that is not a good plan, and if your wife has fears and a temperament that distrusts your actions, then it's even a worse plan because you are wilfully doing something you KNOW will distress your wife and that's a shabby way to treat her.
Does your wife have valid reason to distrust you?
2007-08-16 03:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is colored by ability of the actuality that I went to sea for years the two as enlisted military workers and repair provider seaman. i'm additionally sixty 5 years previous. i did no longer marry till my late 1920s and my spouse replaced into in her early 1930s. that is been super each and every of ways around. could I jeopardize what time is left over some unusual? Naah. No way.
2016-10-02 10:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she needs to deal with the fact that you shouldn't have to "miss out" because she is unwilling to go....
Many spouses take seperate vacations, and she will just have to make plans to do something in the U.S. by herself while you are away....
However, that being said, if you spend a large majority of your time overseas, then she may have a legitimate "gripe" (since you are obviously doing it just to avoid having to spend too much time with her...).
2007-08-16 03:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by BK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you're both going to have to work out some sort of compromise.
doesn't your spouse know it's more dangerous to travel by car than by plane? maybe she needs to look at the statistics.
take care
2007-08-16 03:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never let my woman leave the state without me. People tend to cheat when they go on vacations with there friends or without there woman or man. Its just the facts 50% of people have cheated and thats just the ones who have admitted it or got caught. Emagine the ones that haven't admitted or got caught. I say bring her with or stay home dude.
2007-08-16 03:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leaver her aqt home. Duh....You shouldnt be held back from having fun due to her fears.
2007-08-16 03:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by bellesnail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋