Marriage & Divorce - 16 August 2007

A couple of years ago, I emotionally cheated on my husband. He has forgiven me, but I still feel bad. Plus I ended up hurting the other guy also. How can I forgive myself, or should I? I messed up so I need 2 deal with it right?

2007-08-16 11:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by clr9798 3

2007-08-16 11:32:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

be interesting to know this question and the difference if any between the ladies and fellas

2007-08-16 11:29:35 · 38 answers · asked by boro lass 2

I was thinking about all these situations of people cheating on eachother. Why do people take these chances?

My Question is if you were having a good marriage and somebody becomes special in your life and you had to make a choice. Which would it be......

A. Leave your marriage to start a new life.
B. Stay married and cheat.

2007-08-16 11:18:17 · 17 answers · asked by Ophiuchus 3

last night i was in my bedroom and i felt noise from my parents room i went to my parents room's door all worried about them and i saw them all naked and do in it with a lather cloths my dad had a mask on im all traimatise they saw me and i saw them but they don't want to talk to me what should i do?

2007-08-16 11:15:29 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 10:57:34 · 27 answers · asked by Page 4

My husband and i have been married for a year and 2 months and the sex is not there anymore. i want it 24/7 and he wants it once a week. i undestand that he works alot now but there is weeks where he doesnt (work 40hrs.) and still nothing i try everything. im a prostitute in bed for him i'll do everything and anything he knows it. he says sex is not important to him as before by the way he is 33 and im 24. we made a plan of having sex on fridays and saturdays no matter what happen but nothing. i love him dont get me wrong but im to the point of cheating on him cuz i cant take it anymore. please any advice. help

2007-08-16 10:55:45 · 18 answers · asked by cutie98144 1

I have been happily beautifully blessed with a wonderful, strong, man who loves me and is commited to me and my family of 4 children!! Married for 5 years and LOVING IT!! I often find myself alone in this situation!! Are there any married folks out there who can PROUDLY say: YES I AM MARRIED AND I AM HAPPY??!!!

2007-08-16 10:02:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband have known each other for over 2 yrs. We just got married July of this year. We have a 1yr old son. My husband is 38, and I am 20 soon to be 21. I got married because I felt it was the right thing to do , rather than live in sin. I love him, But the age difference is really starting to push things into huge problems. Our views are totally different, and sometimes I think its a good thing. I feel that we are the same in some ways. But then again we tend to bump heads on other things. Another thing is MY FAMILY DONT LIKE HIM AT ALL. I dont have any friends because I am not from this city. We moved here after Hurricane Katrina. I feel that I am too young to be married to someone so old, and settled in their ways. I know that he wont change his ways at all. He is getting older. I consider myself quite young . I feel bad because I should've gave it more thought but like I said I love him. I dont feel that counseling will help at all. NO RUDE REPLIES, YOU WILL BE REPORTED!.

2007-08-16 09:59:06 · 40 answers · asked by Tru_New Orleanian 4

I'm 36 and engaged to be married next year.

The problem is that I've fallen in love with an 18 year old intern from work. I broke my arm so this intern had to help me do stuff. She's smart for her age and makes me laugh like I never have. Although we've never done anything physical, she's obviously into me too. What to do, what to do?

2007-08-16 09:55:28 · 24 answers · asked by iblockidiots 2

My partner is 38 and I'm 21. I love him so much and of all the men I've been with, he is by far the most amazing and loving one. I want to be with him, the only thing that i'm worried about time. I won't be ready for children until I'm finished all my post-grad, and that may not be until i'm 30! he'll be nearing 50 by then and... then what? Is that too old to have kids? I love him so very much since we met on a age-gap-relationship club http://www.beep.com/memberdateien/members/agegap/agegap.htm and want to be with him, but he has expressed fears that I may leave him in a few years and then I'll be fine, young still. He'll be middle-aged and so... If i thought that we would age well together I'd have no doubts... what do people think? has anyone been through this sort of thing before? I'd appreciate some input.

2007-08-16 09:53:20 · 11 answers · asked by bennie l 1

In my experience, it's usually the woman who gives up her career, social life, friends, etc. to take care of the family, while most times the man still acts like he is single and does whatever the hell he wants.

2007-08-16 09:51:27 · 27 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

This was supposed to be a temporary situation. We have no children yet. Everytime I tell my husband that I think it's time he moves out he says where is he going to go. He babies him and to top it off he is so dirty. I don't mind picking up after my husband but not another grown man. I feel like a prisoner in my own home and I can't even wear my lingerie around freely like I used to. I hate being at home because he is there. Is my husband not being a man by babing him and not telling him any rules or that it's time to hit the road?

2007-08-16 09:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 09:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by ConnorWilhem3 4

The Military Padre was in attendance.

2007-08-16 09:42:19 · 5 answers · asked by Marine798 1

LOVED IT, had culture shock, or would highly recommend, also, have you brought your child with you and how did they adjust.....

2007-08-16 09:34:39 · 18 answers · asked by bck2liberty 3

Is male masterbation a daily thing like brushing your teeth? or do you all just do it sometimes?

2007-08-16 08:57:56 · 33 answers · asked by rachelrmf@sbcglobal.net 2

I left my husband nearly 2 years ago to live with another man. My daughter was 14 at the time. We agreed to leave sorting things out until she was 16 & finished school. She decided to stay at home with my husband. Now she is 16 he wants to sort finances out & pay me off. Our house is worth £250,000 & we have a £50,000 mortgage. I want £100,00 but he says's he has seen a solicter & I will only get £30,000. I don't have a job & he says's I should have payed maintenance for my daughter in the last 2 years because I live with someone who earns money. I think he's bluffing. He say's it's because of what Ive done! Is he right with any of this?

2007-08-16 08:56:50 · 23 answers · asked by Another Planet 5

I feel like returning to my ex-husband even though I know that he is controlling and manipulative.

I keep feeling sad about he will now be alone because our 15 year old daughter is now living with me.

I also feel bad because in his own way, he does care for me. He does want to see me succeed and do well in life.

I also miss being part of a family and having structure to my life.

I have planned to go back to him many times. Yet, when the date gets closer, I feel scared of being back in the same situation with him again.

He is upset with me for not being dependable or committed and probably rightfully so.

I keep hoping and wishing that he would change and really see my good points.

Now, he keeps pushing me to work on the move process to show that I am really "committed." He may be right in his own way...

I just hope that I am not ruining my life and my child's life for good by not putting the family back together again.

2007-08-16 08:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

I got the divorce petition ready myself last week and he picked it up off the porch last Thursday. I asked him to file and pay for the entire thing since he is the one who cheated and left. I called the courts this afternoon to see if the *** has filed yet. They have no record of it being filed. So I am re-doing the papers and filing it myself on Monday. There are no attorneys, assets, or children involved. I need closure and I am not taking a cheating husband back. I need to move on with my life. My question: If he was so excited when I told him I had the papers ready to be picked up then why hasn't he gone down and filed? Time? Money? or him being a lazy loser?

2007-08-16 08:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by texas_redlips 1

2007-08-16 08:44:06 · 13 answers · asked by socalbabe58 2

For anyone who has had many sexual partners before marriage and is now married, do you have any regrets? Does your spouse have any issues with it?

2007-08-16 08:41:38 · 11 answers · asked by poncholock 1

What does your man do that just drives you wild? It doesn't even have to be a sexual act - just something that he does that makes you realize how hot you find him.

2007-08-16 08:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5

My husband has cheated on me in the past and has vowed never to do it again, however I do not trust him fully (he recently started going to a strip club because we just moved to a small town and there truly are no other clubs around here. He has never gone to strip clubs in the past)...How can I test him and see if he's being truly honest? I have thought about suggesting a threesome just to see what his response would be and if he says yes (which I fear he may) then I will know that he is not being honest in his stopping cheating vow. I want to know because if he is going to cheat again, I want to leave him, however I am worried to know what his answer will be and I am really worried that if I suggest that, he might one day actually show up with somebody or get a crazy idea. What should I do I need to trust him, but I feel the need to test him to see if he's being honest. Suggestions?

2007-08-16 08:33:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

As we women get older our bodies change. Has anyone had or considered labia surgery. I'm very self conscience of my situation.

2007-08-16 08:30:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for a few months, however remained in contact mainly as he wanted to stay in contact. I wanted to cut all contact with him but he was begging me not to. He was the one who broke it off with me. We have been arguing lately mainly because I still have lots of feelings for him and I get emotional. I asked him to call me on Sunday but he said he can't and I got really upset and told him that he should not contact me again. He texted back and he was pretty angry. We had arranged to meet up face to face in a couple of weeks but now he is now saying he isn't sure he still wants to meet. He said to give him a week to feel better as he needs time to digest our arguments. Why does he need all this time? I texted him today and asked him to be ok with each other but he told me that he hates being forced like this. He sounded pretty angry? I just don't know what to do? I am so powerless? He is showing me a wall?

2007-08-16 08:28:04 · 24 answers · asked by violet b 1

My husband and I have been separated for a little over a month and I have been really devastated. We have an 11 year old son so I know that I can't avoid talking to my husband at all, but when we talk, I get really emotional and then start feeling depressed. I feel like I have all this anger built up inside of me and then end up going off the deep end and leaving in a mad rage. Then all I do is cry for the next 2 or 3 hours. We have been together for 18 years and I can count on 1 hand how many times that we have argued, but it seems like now we can't get along at all and I cannot handle much more. I don't want a divorce but he does, and says there is nothing I can do to change his mind and I can't make him be with me. All I need is some really good advice on how to get around talking to him about divorce issues. To me it is too soon for me to talk about divorce, because I am deeply in love with him and thats why I get so mad when I talk to him because it is always about divorce.

2007-08-16 07:58:34 · 12 answers · asked by btdt 1

I live in Burbank, Ca and i would i would like to know where i can find a strip club with both men and women? Me and my husband want to go but i don't want to get a lap dance from a girl i want a guy to dance for me and of course he wants a girl so it would be nice to find a strip clun that has both men and women....

2007-08-16 07:41:16 · 8 answers · asked by olive oil 1

When I go to kiss my husband he won't kiss me back, telling me that I caught him off gurad. Its annoying becuase I want to kiss him! THEN when I AM leasting expecting it, he will try and make out with me or get sexual. I won't kiss him becuase its not fair how its always on his time. Why doesn't he want to kiss me when I want to kiss him, but he is all over me when I don't him to be!!! What can I do! Is there anything TO do?

2007-08-16 07:39:37 · 13 answers · asked by jmalin04 3

2007-08-16 07:01:52 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa S 1