last night i was in my bedroom and i felt noise from my parents room i went to my parents room's door all worried about them and i saw them all naked and do in it with a lather cloths my dad had a mask on im all traimatise they saw me and i saw them but they don't want to talk to me what should i do?
2007-08-16 11:15:29 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Weird. I've seen one of your questions before. I thought your mom died three years ago and your dad was in love with your dog? I'll give it to you--you are creative.
2007-08-16 11:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must have scared you when you felt noise from your parents room especially with all the violence in today's world.
Don't be devastated. There is no harm in understanding that your parents have a special way of being physically intimate with each another. Be happy for them that they still find each other exciting enough to 'do it'. Such an experience may be embarrassing for both of you ... remain calm and matter-of-fact. Hopefully, it won't happen again (with the door open) ... if it does, just say "Excuse me" then close the door and go back to your room.
2007-08-16 11:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm well that is not so cool.
I understand your concern for your folks and commend your not letting fear take ahold and going to check on them.
Here is the thing. They are the parents and they should have protected you from that image. They needed to lock that door.
It probably isnt going to be the easiest thing to get past but I dont think it is a subject that you all need to discuss in great length either. Just ask them to lock the door and go on about your day. Then let it be. Your shock will go away and in due time you all will most likely laugh about it!!!
Heck tell them if they dont start locking the door you will reminisce about it at the next family gathering, thanksgiving, easter, christmas, aunt pollys birthday party..... That might make them laugh and release the tension but also show them that it bothered you to witness thier personal time.
2007-08-16 11:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I read, in Think and Grow Rich that instead of repressing sex or acting out too much we could use the energy to develop our minds to genius and do great things. Suppresing natural desires causes physical and emotions illness while getting too involved in the physical expression has warped our society to sell soap. It seems like a good idea to use all that thought on something more worthwhile with all the overpopulation and addictions to make up for a lack of love and direction, values. Wouldn't that be a good idea for you, now that you are so vividly conscious of those things to not copy what you saw in your life or be thinking about those expressions so young. Use it as fuel for more constructive outlets like true love and finding out how life works? see the free ebooks on trans4mind. com and you can put effort into study of worthwhile material and the latest in human development. Your life can be an adventure.
2007-08-16 14:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say pretend it never happened but you know you can't do that. But you can just chalk it up as a learning experience, knock before entering for one. And remember, your parents are married, they have every right to be doing what they do in their bedroom. I would let it drop, don't make them talk about it. Now if it were the other way around and they saw YOU, you'd have something to worry about! :)
2007-08-16 11:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i walk in on my parents while i was on the phone looking for something and not paying attention and all eyes met together. that can be both em brassing for you and your parents. so i say reverse the rolls you play the parent and talk to them about it. tell them if they want "quite time" please have the door close and something hanging on the door so you would know and respect there privacy. the leave the house and go to a friends house. nothing to be ashamed of, because its like how did you get here you know. so relax and just come to some type of plan. let's be real here.
2007-08-16 11:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by CYM_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that sucks to have to think of your parents as anything but your parents, and the only time they have ever had sex was when you were conceived, but that's not the case.
I am not saying get into some deep convo. with them about their sex life. Just admit to yourself that yes they do do that, there's nothing wrong with it and move on!
But I totally know how you feel, I walked in on my parents years ago and couldn't look at them for like a week! It gets better!
2007-08-16 11:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsay G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink a tall glass of warm saltwater.
It will make you vomit.
Afterwards, try to collect yourself and move on.
Some how some way you will get past this traumatic event.
You will never be able to erase the images from your mind, but you must go on living.
One step at a time, day by day, you can do it.
2007-08-16 11:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, my parents tried S&M too, but I was 6 when I walked in. Just remeber that there adults and married and an avid sex life can really keep a marriage going. Just try to forget, and if you need too see a therapist
2007-08-16 11:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that your parents have a healthy sex life and are still able to enjoy all the naughties of married life!
Hope and pray that you yourself would have the same excitement and sex drive when you're their age.
It's going to be OK...its normal...they are a little embarrassed that you saw into that private section of their lives...
2007-08-16 11:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Katie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that they are a bit embarrassed you saw them like that and aren't sure how to talk to you about it.
Give it a little bit of time and see if they mention it to you. There's nothing wrong with your parents having sex, so don't worry.
2007-08-16 11:36:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋