Marriage & Divorce - 10 June 2007

but he still has it made up in his mind. How do I start to seperate myself from a man I love dearly because I don't ever think he'll marry me or is just too scared to do it?

2007-06-10 11:53:29 · 14 answers · asked by o'juiccy1 2

Currently me and my husband are separated. He says he loves me and still wants to be with me but that so much arguements are making him doubt. He says he needs his time to figure out what he wants. I've started praying and believe that praying to God will help. I have prayed for other things such as my grades and it worked and I always offer something to God in return to show my gratiude. I prayed to God to help me save my marriage and help my husband clear he's doubts. I offered God that I would become a better person by volunterring to help children, which I've already started appyling to agencies to help out. I believe that my faith and my sincere believe in God will help. Am I mistaken? Any suggestions will help.

2007-06-10 11:51:18 · 31 answers · asked by Lily 2

Here is my stance. It seems as if women have this "girlfriend rule". It like they feel they are exempt to using discretion from time to time when speaking of the opposite sex in a public setting especially when other women are joining in on the party...I am not a male pig who hates women...I have no bias...I just feel that married men and women should use extreme discretion and maintain the up most respect for their SO when speaking or making comments aloud regarding attraction, special feelings, or vivid details when referencing the opposite sex (especially in my case because I have always practiced what i preached and adamantly expressed to my wife that I would never appreciate if she did that)...It's a thin line to walk when dealing with this issue especially since my wife and I talk about anything including the opposite sex, past relationships, mistakes made with regard to the opposite sex, sexual encounters, anything, but we definitely uphold the up most respect when doing so. I feel as if I was some jealous lousy ****** that she would not feel that she could "walk the line" and cross it from time to time as many men and woman do? any thoughts? am I out of line here?

2007-06-10 11:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Intellect 1

I am 25 and 've been dating with my girl frined for almost three years. I am still going to college and I want to transfer to university, it should be take about 4 more years. My girl friend has asked me many times about our furture and she said that we could marry and have kids while we going to school but i refused that coz she has support from her family for going to school but i don't. I used to asked her if we could work as a full-time, so we support our family together but she said she must graduate university coz she promised her mom. If we get marry then have kids I will take the most responsiblity for the family. I have to stop school then find a full time job and save money but when i think about my furture,,,,what if she leave me?? or what if we divorce?? I will grt notthing, no degree, no money???but pay a lot of money for child support or anything i must pay''''..i really dont know how to decide???

2007-06-10 11:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 11:31:18 · 3 answers · asked by Geoffrey G 1

After a lot of arguing, my husband finally told me that he has a flirting problem. He likes to flirt with girls. I don't like it. The things he says to these girls, in my opinion, are innapropriate and he admits if he caught me saying these same things he would leave me. I want our marriage to work but he just says that it is just the way he is and he can't change. We can't afford marriage counseling. I want to make this work and I think he does to but I can't trust him, and he doesn't give me a reason to. I don't believe in divorce but someone's got to give.

2007-06-10 11:25:33 · 30 answers · asked by Lady 1

Murders, arsons, school killings, I could go on and on. What do you believe is the deterioration of our society?

2007-06-10 11:22:58 · 19 answers · asked by mamabair 2

Why when you meet someone the first question they ask is what do you do for a living?
Its like they mentally asses yo by what you do for a living, if a road sweeper is happy and looks after his family well, isn't that better than someone who is so stressed by trying to impress everyone, that he is to stressed to enjoy life and family., and paying of the loan on his porsche! BTW I am a hairdresser and happy. i think its how happy and content we are that is the issue not having the biggest house or big car.

2007-06-10 11:17:23 · 17 answers · asked by bob B 1

2007-06-10 11:10:51 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1

Is there any hope he will come home or what can I do to help him choose to come home. We have 2 kids left at home who are completely devastated. I miss him so much.

2007-06-10 11:08:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok one of my best friend who's a girl, weve know each other since we were 2 yrs old. ok my other best friend who's a guy since we were maybe 16. so we are both over seas in the army right now he met my girl best friend last year at my house we were having a BBQ so since then they felt for each other they were suppose to get married in a few weeks when he come home so he told her he's like to wait a while then later figured out he cant live without her so now he's plannig a supprise wedding for her with his fams i mean she loves his fams im just not sure about the supprise wedding since she loves him and he knows her on a loving level i guess they'll be alright. but just in case should i warned her but i dont wanna mess up my best buddies up you know.

2007-06-10 10:53:21 · 20 answers · asked by john c 1

Every since me and my husband Geogre had our 3 child he has been visiting his ex-wife Vicky. He tells me that their just friends. We've had picnics together and everything else so I'm not sure if I have the right to say anything. But sometimes I feel worried when I go out of town. One time I went on a trip by myself and the CHILDREN told me that he'd visited Vicky again. Makes me scared that Geogre didn't tell me... Am I overreacting? Should I pull out divorce papers?

2007-06-10 10:48:43 · 16 answers · asked by simmersrock24 2

I am deeply turned on by my husband. He is good to me and my child. we have aswome sex, yet my body craves him even more.
Is there something wrong with me, or should I be feeling this way?

2007-06-10 10:45:55 · 6 answers · asked by planet372000 1

me and hubby fell in love 6 yrs when we were at med school and got married....its been 2 yrs since we are married we keep fighting at times but each silly matter goes crazy and we end up talking all bad things...recently his parents visited...we did have a good time for a while and then all hell broke loose...they mistake me for everything...for a while my hubby seems to understand but after few days even he has started to mistake me and make a big deal...he had promised me that he wouldn't change no matter what but everything has gone upseide down...and i have been so angry lately and am noty able to express with him as there is no privacy at all...and on fri we had a huge fight infront of his parents...and it went evry ugly...he swore..i swore ....and now he was asking emt o get the hell out from him house and his life....and we had to go out for a outing for 2 days as soon as the fight...previous commintments and he treated me like a dirt....infront of everyone...i was mad...

2007-06-10 10:15:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 10:01:43 · 8 answers · asked by Monet 6

2007-06-10 09:38:04 · 29 answers · asked by ? 3

Hiya, did you all get your dream wedding dress?

i didnt, because my mother said i didnt suit it :( lol, but hope to re-do our wedding vows, and have our girls there to :D

plus my hubby caught the flu the morning of the wedding lol, bless him.

would you ever re-do your vows? (my hubby really wants to re-do them, so he feels much better pmsl!!!)

xx

2007-06-10 09:37:00 · 16 answers · asked by confide_in_me83 1

me:
the wrong girl by lee ann womack

2007-06-10 09:27:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

both growing apart, first marriage for me second for him, he's in a slump and bringing me down.Sex is gone , now in own bedrooms. Kids all left home and so did his ambitions.

2007-06-10 09:17:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been w/ my man for about 8 yrs. we seperated back in 05 & got back w/each other in 06. i left him cuz he acted like he didn't want me n we went like 2 yrs w/o even kissing. during our seperation i dated this guy. last week he hurt my feelings n he didnt care. the next day i raised my voice at him cuz i got upset because he hurt my daughters feeling. i didn't say anything bad to him just said to not to be mean. he got mad cuz i raised my voice in front of our friend. after our friend left. my daughter spend ther night @ my sis. house. I told him not to act like a jerk and he said things like he didn't like kissing me, or the way i look, and put me down . i tried to talk to him n he kept act like a jerk, then said i should have stayed w/ that other guy. after a while i just gave up. we haven't talked, he slept on the couch all week, n left friday when i was gone, he hasn't come back. i shouldnt have raised my voice, but i don't want to make the first move. should i call him.

2007-06-10 08:48:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please tell me some self help books about dealing with depression....My husband is falling apart and his depression is killing me...I need help dealing. Is there any good reads out there?

2007-06-10 08:47:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is so jealous over me.
he decides who i can and cant talk to.I have online GIRL friends and he even gets jealous over them
I have a 360 page and he go's nuts if a guy even asks how i am etc.
We moved hundreds of miles from all our family and now we have nobody to talk to...i cant even get away for a tea
He then sulks for ages.We stopped sleeping in the same bed a week ago as he repulses me now.
He only seems to be happy after sex.
All my profiles say clearly i'm married.
Wtf is wrong with him? I've never cheated nor would i ever.
I'm constantly accused of chatting to men or putting my cam on if he's out.I never do this.
This has got so bad I don't go out anymore.This is a medical condition and I'm recieving treatment for my agrophobia as i can only walk a very short distance from my door.
I was in an 8 year violent relationship before but this feels worse.
I'm trapped and he knows it because my agrophobia stops me leaving with our 2 children.
Help plz

2007-06-10 08:47:08 · 36 answers · asked by ? 1

Alright I need some help on what to do. I work a seasonal summer position, Monday-Friday for a campground. Well I've been scheduled to work today, I didn't go to work Friday and called out since I had a huge test on Saturday morning for college. Well tonight this girl asked me out on a date with her. I want to go out with her, but I also don't want to call out again. I don't really need the job but it is summer work to at least get some money, however, we planned on this date since Friday and I'd hate to cancel out now..

What do I do??

2007-06-10 08:45:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you spent over nine years protecting yourself from the heart break of relationships because of what your ex-spouse has done to you and finially open your heart to someone only for them to do the same thing to you? I'm very confused about how to feel right now. I don't know if I should be happy, sad, or mad as hell at her. Why can't people just do all the things they say and not lead others on?

2007-06-10 08:41:39 · 13 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

2007-06-10 08:32:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you prefer,,, length of loving or quality ,, over 30 minutes long... truthfully,,,, :) steamy or sensual

2007-06-10 08:27:40 · 7 answers · asked by tommy C 1

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2007-06-10 08:18:26 · 15 answers · asked by ☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻☻ 1

He is refusing to put any money in my account and does not answer my emails or phone calls. I know I have to get a lawyer because I am unable to support myself, having followed him around the world because of his career, almost twenty-five years. Will a Canadian lawyer be able to garnish funds from his pay in Texas? My name is on jointly owned property in Canada and therefore, I'm not entitled to legal aid. That's tough when you haven't worked for twenty years and have no technical skills at all. Could use some advice.

2007-06-10 08:10:52 · 8 answers · asked by WriteonPam 2

should i leave my boyfriend of 7 yrs because when we weren't together he got the girl he was seeing pregnant? should i stay by his side or leave?

2007-06-10 07:53:57 · 9 answers · asked by CRYSTAL 1

My husband and I have separated. I moved out yesterday into my sisters for the week as she is on holiday and the arguments and fights were just getting worse. He decided to end the marriage and has blamed me and hurt me terriblly including verbal and physical harm. He threatened to seek custody of our son, even though he knows this would kill me. So i moved out hoping it would give me peace and the space he has craved away from me. Well i have only been away 1 night and his attitude has changed. He cam onto messenger saying how sorry he was and he never meant for this to happen. Then told me to come back home and to just put our relationship on hold but to live together. Surely if he doesnt want me he would be happy that i am making moves to separate? His behaviour confuses me and after the way he has been this past month, to suddenly ask me back home..what is that meant to mean?

2007-06-10 07:38:21 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous