ive been w/ my man for about 8 yrs. we seperated back in 05 & got back w/each other in 06. i left him cuz he acted like he didn't want me n we went like 2 yrs w/o even kissing. during our seperation i dated this guy. last week he hurt my feelings n he didnt care. the next day i raised my voice at him cuz i got upset because he hurt my daughters feeling. i didn't say anything bad to him just said to not to be mean. he got mad cuz i raised my voice in front of our friend. after our friend left. my daughter spend ther night @ my sis. house. I told him not to act like a jerk and he said things like he didn't like kissing me, or the way i look, and put me down . i tried to talk to him n he kept act like a jerk, then said i should have stayed w/ that other guy. after a while i just gave up. we haven't talked, he slept on the couch all week, n left friday when i was gone, he hasn't come back. i shouldnt have raised my voice, but i don't want to make the first move. should i call him.
2007-06-10 08:48:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no
2007-06-10 08:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Asskick M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a jerk. Don't call him. Give up on him. There's no point to living with him if the other person don't like kissing you or the way u look. Just move on!
And since you have a daughter, she should mean everything in the world to you, not some guy.
2007-06-10 15:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cho Chang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self esteem is in need of boosting. You seem to be attracting losers. First why don't you try it awhile by yourself. Just you and your kids. You do not have to have a man in your life if he isn't going to love and respect you. It seems that you are enabling these men to abuse you . Verbal and emotional abuse are just the same as physical abuse. Get yourself together. get a job change the places you go. Look like you deserve the best and you man find you get the best. Aren't you worth more than the treatment you have been getting. You deserve better.
2007-06-10 16:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! he was the jerk! if any one is going to be calling it should be him calling to apologize. No one should treat anyone the way he treated you. Just take care of your daughter and try to forget about what happened that day. Good luck with him.
2007-06-10 15:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sahara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude is just hanging around because he sees you as a sure thing. If he's been gone for that long its because he WANTS to be. Leave him right where he is. You and your daughter are much better off.
2007-06-10 15:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did you a favor by walking out and not coming back...you now have enough time to pack up his stuff and sit them outside, so that when (or if) he does come back, it will save you guys the arguing and disrespect...move on darlin, you tried...good luck
2007-06-10 16:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him for what purpose?
To ask him to come back? No. This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, and you don't sound happy in it.
To tell him to get his things and get the heck out of your life? I think so.
2007-06-10 15:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by alikat4242 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's hard not to call, but I wouldn't. If he wanted you then he should call...he's also the one that left so I feel that it's his place to call you. But, he could think the same thing about you calling. Call your friend, call your mom, but don't call him! If he doesn't appreciate you then maybe you should move on.
2007-06-10 17:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Cricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are beating a dead horse.
If the description of your husband's actions are true, you need to cut bait and get on with your life.
No one deserves to be treated this way .
2007-06-10 15:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why no! Your ex is not someone you should keep on the back burner so you will have a safty net if your new relationship is not working out. Niether relationship worked out, so you move on.
2007-06-10 16:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessie, Chill babe he was right about one thing you should have stayed with the other dude ! Hon you deserve respect !
2007-06-10 15:56:48 · answer #11 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋