2007-06-10 09:38:04 · 29 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because you're being a pr*ck.
2007-06-10 09:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She wouldn't ***** without a reason, right or wrong. It is your responsibility as her husband to help her not retreat in anger. Find out what is bothering her and try to help.
Is is work? Encourage her to look for a new job or tell her you are here for her if she needs to vent.
The kids? How about 1/2 hour a day you take the kids outside so she can have time for herself.
Laundry? Cooking? Errands? If it is too much for her help her out by at least ordering a Pizza or something.
I think the best thing that you could do is recognize that this isn't about her being a ***** to yo but you rather complain about her and call her degrading names than helping the woman you pledged you life too!
Poor woman and god help the next generation if you do have kids.
2007-06-10 16:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look to your own actions to see what you're doing different. Do you treat her kindly, affectionately and with respect? Or, do you spend the majority of your spare time with your buddies watching or playing sports? Are you employed? Do you pick up after yourself around the house? It could be she is tired of being your "mom" or "servant". Apparently, there is some specific incident that triggered your question, so why not be honest and share so we can tell what the specific situation is? Sometimes wives end up being a bit** because the husband is an old bas****.
2007-06-10 16:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married her....you didn't see any signs of this before you tied the knot? Ask yourself are you a good husband? Do you talk to your wife any kind of way and expect to be treated like a king? If she is a b*^%h and you've allowed it for 13 years then she is set in her ways...you can either deal with it or tell her that you can't take it any more....suggest counseling to her...good luck
2007-06-10 16:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm not there I really can't say but do you still send flowers? Is she enjoying her marriage with you? Does she laugh with you? Does she smile because she married you? Do you still date her, flirt with her, buy her little things just because? Do you pay attention to her? Talk to her? Do you support her to find things that she really enjoys? Do you support her at all?
Most women when they become bit....it is because they feel under appreicated or are tired of being belittled, talked down to or having someone just be nice to them to get something...unnoticed..uncared for etc....lied too....cheated on....Bit...stems from deep hurts....
So maybe the question is what can you do to change and to improve your marriage, other than pray? When you start making sincere and honest changes and show your love to her she will start chaning too.
2007-06-10 16:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the fact that you refer to her as a *****! Well, could it be the way you have treated her for 13 years? Or could it be that she is who she has always been you are simply getting tired of it now after all of these years? Only you can answer this question... God bless****
2007-06-10 16:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKAY - MAYBE SHE IS AND MAYBE SHE ISNT....WHY THE HECK AFTER 13 YEARS WOULD YOU POST SUCH A UNXPLAINED-LAME-QUESTION??!?!?! I MEAN SERIOUSLY, HOW THE HECK CAN ANY ONE ANSWER THIS ONE? JUST THE IDEA YOU WOULD PUT IT OUT THERE ONLY SHOWS THAT YOU ARE PROBABLY DOING SOMETHING AS LAME AS THIS AT HOME - AND THEREFORE GIVING HER A REASON TO BE ONE!!
2007-06-10 16:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We don't know your wife or what it is she is doing.
Can you talk to her? Or has she tried to tell you and you don't understand?
If it's a huge problem that the 2 of you can't work out then you need to see a marriage counselor.
Good luck and try to save your marriage.
2007-06-10 16:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a question that can be answered here. Have you tried asking her (nicely) why she's not as pleasant toward you as she used to be? She just might tell you, but you should be prepared to hear the answer... if you don't want to hear the answer, you probably don't care enough and should relieve her of your presence.
2007-06-10 16:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by huh? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why after so many years are Men a pain?
2007-06-10 16:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women usually become a ***** because they don't feel as though they are being heard. try to listen to her instead of just hearing her and forgive her for all those little moods and soon she will change her ways.
2007-06-10 18:36:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋