Marriage & Divorce - 10 June 2007

i am wanting a divorce from my husband who lives in Georgia and i live in texas. and i am wanting to get full custody of our 6 year old son. but do i have to file where he lives, and does he have to file where i live? i am not sure how this works. please help me so i know what to do. thank you

2007-06-10 07:36:47 · 3 answers · asked by bailey 1

I have broken up with my husband we were not really married but we lived together for more than 20 years and we both have 2 young adults. He left us for some other woman and we both bought a house 7 years ago but the house title is under his name and i don't appear on it and im affraid that he is going to kick us all out. I want to know what i could do to keep the house and if i have anyt rights because i know that the law only covers people who are married but in my case i am not married and both of my kids are over 18 please write me back with any comments or concerns.

2007-06-10 07:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by yamilinho 1

I was dumped6 wks ago. I had no idea it was coming &he never gave me a straight answer as 2why. He messed my head around, breaking up, asking me back then dumping me 4good. said it wasnt right 4 him anymore. Im so hurt&upset &miss him so much. I left it a week then we met up but he still said he didnt want me. we work 2getha so see him everyday &its tearing me up. I really want him back, i miss him so much&thought he was 'the one', I even told him that when we got back together the 1st time. Every1 says move on, but i can't&i don't want to. He says he still fancies me&a wk after we split 4good he said he still loved me when i asked him. Lst wk we had sex in his car- he refused to take me to his as he said hes "meant 2b moving on" i just needed2feel close 2him again. Afterwards he said it didnt change things! he went 2cinema fri &wouldnt say who with-i think it was a girl. We were perfect 2getha&i love him! why would he say he still loves me but not wana b with me?how do i get him back?

2007-06-10 07:17:05 · 14 answers · asked by JamJar 1

I need help in dealing with my husband. Currently his ex wife is taking him to court to increas her child support. When they divorced they agreed to 15% of his income and he pays for medical care. He has paid that on time every time and never once been late. No suddenly that is not enough and she is taking him to court. He is so very angry and has serious issues with his ex wife to start with. This just has made things even worse. When we go to court Im afraid he will show his anger and make things worse. How do I help him get through this. Soon we will be going to court for shared custody due to all the issues my step daughter has and Im so afraid he will not be able to controll his anger at his ex wife during all of this. It hurts him so badly to see what she has done to his daughter. He just cant seem to keep it inside when he needs to. Its hard enough doing that around his daughter but when he comes face to face with the ex in court I just think all heck is going to break loose.

2007-06-10 07:00:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 2 years together for 6 years. We are complete opposites. Night and day. My biggest issue with him is sex. Or the lack of it. I am 32 and he is 40. I want sex all the time and he doesn't. I'm lucking to get it once a month and that's only because I start it. I've talked to him about it and he tells me "he'll try harder", "we'll do it more", etc. Nothing changes. I'm so over it! The last time we attempted to have sex he could not even stay hard. Is he unhappy or could it be a medical problem?? He tells me he is happy and that it isn't me that it's him.
This has been going on since before we got married. I went ahead and married him because I thought things would get better. I truly love him but I just can't handle it anymore. I don't know what to do!

2007-06-10 06:53:03 · 17 answers · asked by amaybride 2

Where can I go to find my son's marriage and divorce information from his first wife. They were both in the army and I think they were married in Germany but I am not sure. It was a quick marraige and I don't even have her name. How can I get this info?

2007-06-10 06:42:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is considered the bare minimum amount of time a father can see his child after a relationship split

2007-06-10 06:40:36 · 18 answers · asked by A Good Father 2

Would you cheat while your out of town? Maybe you feel safer from being caught? Or are you faithful,period. Even if away from your spouse for long periods of time.

2007-06-10 06:38:34 · 22 answers · asked by TrophyWife 3

I'll tell you why some men don't care enough to remind them selves. They remember their own birthday just fine. Just a verbal Happy Birthday is all I want. I get that if I say something. He remembered just fine when we were dating. Does marriage change things that much. I feel he just does'nt care and that really hurts.

2007-06-10 06:38:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 06:36:02 · 17 answers · asked by badmanjazz 1

But! don't parents have an equal responsibility to show respect for their children?

2007-06-10 06:30:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 06:26:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't like to change people but he watches a lot of porn and erases the history but sometimes forgets and I see what he has looked at. I tried to tell him we can get movies and watch together and he won't. I don't think he masterbates to it and I told him it wouldn't bother me so much if he didn't try to hide it. He won't talk at all to me about it and when we do our deed, he closes his eyes and seems to go into another world making me think he is picturing what he saw? Any advise please?!?!

2007-06-10 06:26:28 · 15 answers · asked by yepyep 3

I was the one left.She was short and conciese."I want a divorce" I had so many questions,the whys and what if's.She just shut down and moved on emotinally.All i wanted was to have a sit down eye to eye heart to heart conversation.She wouldn't even give me that.Now i have moved out of state and she changed the phone numbers and won't respond to emails.She was a bit of a control freak,she knows it gives her power by not responding to me,and leaving me wondering.I hate her for the way she give me the silent treatment,i feel she owes me much more than that.I was a good husband,never cheated,never even considered it.I was a good provider and friend.I have friends that give me more respect.I just wanted closure,but she left me hanging.

2007-06-10 06:05:20 · 13 answers · asked by Rodger M 1

Ok, We are still legally married, and we have been separated for 4 months, I had found someone else, and so did my hubby. However now I feel I want my hubby back, he is now living with some other chick. Is it morally wrong to try and break up their relationship by way of magick, if he is still legally MY husband?

2007-06-10 05:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by AL 2

http://youtube.com/watch?v=YB3FVun7K2k

2007-06-10 05:30:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is he worth more dead?

2007-06-10 05:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by nodumgys 7

My husband and I have been having problems for quite some time now. He has a 15 year old boy from his first marriage and I have been the mother in his life since he was 7 years old. My husband seems to think that because his son has reached the teen years that it is not acceptable to spank him so he allows basically for him to do and say what he wants when he wants. I see that he is just taking the easy way out. Every time he does something wrong and I say something about it it gets turned around on me like it is my fault. lately my husband has gotten to calling me names in front of his son and then telling his son to not listen to me as well. I am at my wits end last night we had an arguement over him telling his son not to listen to me and my husband grabbed me by my neck and called me a stupid *****. I am having a very hard time dealing with this, I have already told him to leave but he won't.Please I just need to know what would be the easiest & legal way to get him out of my house

2007-06-10 05:26:58 · 36 answers · asked by SHERRY "Ree" 2

My marriage is on the rocks and in a he said/she said whirlwind. He claims that all of his "problems" is that i am not a good enough housekeeper and that I act like I don't like him. On my side of it I say he acts like a teenager; wants to control the $$, believes compromise is me controlling him, believes that him working is his part (doesn't understand that marriage takes work too). He works for himself & I am a stay at home Mom and I do all of his clerical/advertising. He is 33 and I am 36 & the kids are mine from a previous. Anything I say, he says I am nagging. I told him when we met that I was not a great housekeeper, but the most devoted, honest, and truest woman he would ever meet.
Guys, especially, can you help me understand him and his thinking so that I can work with it?

2007-06-10 05:25:32 · 17 answers · asked by tonyer71 2

I am seeing a married man, he is 15 years older than me. Well, recently his wife and I have become friends. She does not know about us. She asked me to lunch the other day and I accepted (he told me to). Well any ways, I picked her up in the car that he bought me and she complimented on how much she loved the jewlery that I had on, which also he bought me.

ok, here is the question...Do you think it's bad that I picked her up in the car he gave me?

2007-06-10 05:20:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband had a habit of leaving when he was mad or did not get his way. He would stay gone (usually it was on a weekend) for 2-3 days. The last time he left (because my daughter accidentally let his cat get out) I told him to think about it before he leaves because this time he was not coming back. He packed his clothes, ripped up our wedding pictures and said he wanted a divorce. Fine! He then drug the divorce on for over a year, thinking he was coming back. After 6 months of being separated, I started dating and now he tells everyone that I cheated on him and that it was going on before he left. Should I have waited? What would you have done?

2007-06-10 05:19:13 · 13 answers · asked by Tyra99 2

He has cheated on me twice before. He's always coming home drunk. He constantly shouts at me and our 3 kids. He ignores me. He is constantly getting fired from his job. Should I divorce him? The kids think I should. What do you think?

2007-06-10 05:18:35 · 55 answers · asked by mommomma 1

my boyfriend is a russian citizen and i am an american

2007-06-10 04:24:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thank you for answer.

2007-06-10 04:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by boathouse 2

A friend has been declaring his undying love for me.
Thing is he is married and so am I. My marriage for the most part is very good. We have our niggles as does any marriage but i would never leave him for another guy.
His marriage is a shambles. He is never there for his wife, just leaves her at home to mother his children whilst he goes off chasing his childhood dreams of being a local celebrity. As a result she treats him with the lack of respect and love he deserves.
I have tried to be a friend to him and tell him where he is going wrong and get his marriage back on track.
Trouble is it has backfired and after a year of friendship he pretty much wants to give up on her and be with me.
Makes me feel very uncomfortable as I do not want a relationship with him other than friendship... as I love my hubby very much.
I have endured pretty much 6 months of him thinking that he has upset me if i dont get around to replying to one of the 135 text messages he sends me every day....

2007-06-10 04:21:06 · 20 answers · asked by JustJem 6

How can I stop getting mad at my husband?
My husband has done so many things that have made me mad over the last ten years that almost anything can trigger a memory that makes me get mad all over again. Of course he always had a reason that justified it to him, so he thinks I am crazy.
There are so many things - just saw an ad for a lawn game I used to play which reminded me how he got rid of my nice croquet set, lawn tennis, bocci ball, wicker furniture, hammock, laundry line,cut down trees, mowed flower beds, and that's just the yard.
When I was in the hospital fighting leukemia, he refused to bring the baby because it was too hard. I could have died without seeing my 8 month old! He gave away all the baby stuff- furniture and clothes I was saving for a second child without telling me.
He threw out my bookcases, well you get the idea.
I don't throw things of his out.
I want to get away but my daughter is against it, so I would be broke, sick and by myself. Yes, I am in therapy.

2007-06-10 04:14:36 · 13 answers · asked by Eve 3

I am currently going through a divorce with a very nasty custody battle. My estranged husband is spewing lies about me. For the most part he has been able to call and talk to our daughter when I have her (Which is 8 days out of 14) but there has been maybe 5 times in 2 months that he wasn't able to get through on the phone whether it be that we weren't here or we were using the phone line.

Thursday when I went to pick our daughter up for "my time" my ex began yelling at me about wanting to know where I work, the phone number to them and so on. He also began yelling at me for not being able to get through Monday night when he tried to call. I told him I had other things to do than just sit by a phone in case he wants to call. He blew up even more and when I yelled for our daughter to come on, he went and grabbed her saying "Remember what we talked about and how you promised to call. Daddy will try to call you but mommy probably won't give you the phone"

What would you do?

2007-06-10 04:06:28 · 14 answers · asked by roo_1683 1

so ive been with jack for a yr and we are engaged. the thing is we argue about stupid stuff. like every other day we get into a stupid arguement and then make up. sometimes its about stupid sh!t but sometimes it about stuff i take very seriously.

did this happen to you?
i heard everybody fights but do happy couples argue this much?
does it subside?

2007-06-10 03:57:51 · 10 answers · asked by in the big easy 2

My boyfriend broke up with me because of the long distance, and I can't blame him if he stopped loving me or changed his mind, but the way he broke up with me was awwwful and horrible, he yelled and blamed me of cheating (never happened!!) etc.. and was mean to me... He lied, saying he didn't brak up for the purpose of playing around with other chicks in his area, and lately I found out he's dating this chick and he even said he loved her..

I don't wanna get revenge the immature way.. I prefer to let him go, mend my heart and love again... BUT I WANT HIM TO REGRET IT SOONER OR LATER. I loved him and was very faithful to him... In about 6 months I'll go back to the town where I used to live (where he's living..) how do I get him to regret?

a guy friend tells me if u igore him and he sees how beautiful you are, how much you don't care about him anymore and how happy with your life and with somebody else, he'll regret it even if he doesn't love you... IS THAT TRUE?

2007-06-10 03:31:31 · 34 answers · asked by leave me alone 1

2007-06-10 03:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous