so ive been with jack for a yr and we are engaged. the thing is we argue about stupid stuff. like every other day we get into a stupid arguement and then make up. sometimes its about stupid sh!t but sometimes it about stuff i take very seriously.
did this happen to you?
i heard everybody fights but do happy couples argue this much?
does it subside?
2007-06-10 03:57:51 · 10 answers · asked by in the big easy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just need to learn to talk and what parts of each others problems you are willing to overlook. What really makes each of you mad so that the other can try to avoid doing these things. There is no need to argue over little stuff just explain why to the other that it is a problem so they will see your side and you may see thiers. Then this small stuff will not keep coming up. If it does not get better then do not get married because it may get worse.
2007-06-10 04:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy couples do not fight every other day about stupid stuff. Happy couples fight and they even fight over stupid stuff once in a while. But if you are fighting every other day now you'll be fighting every other hour when you get married. There are more pressures after you get married, Bills, work and work schedules, sharing of housework and chores, sex (he wants you're not in the mood, you want it he's too tired)
Some people might tell you two to get counseling. I say if you need counseling before you are married why get married? It makes no sense. I think it's time to move on to happier shores. Good Luck
2007-06-10 04:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by blastabuelliac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why people get married when they are already having problems. It must be the greed.. Everyone fights and argues but if it's happening more than you are getting along... I would run the other way.
2007-06-10 04:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by ~Kim~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need to talk about picking your battles.
If you are going to argue argue about big stuff. If it turns into yelling someone should walk away till you two calm down enough to have a rational adult conversation
2007-06-10 04:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married...and we still get in spats here and there. Sometimes we go a week with fighting everyday...it happens....but its usually stupid stuff....But If you guys are fighting about serious stuff....or you guys start calling eachother names or something.....then i would start thinking about counseling or figuring out how you guys can start fighting better!
2007-06-10 04:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anna J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone fights and argues in a relationship or marriage even if they are happily married and most of the time it is over stupid **** -
2007-06-10 04:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex wife and i argued a lot in our marriage and ended up divorced i think arguing is something that happens to everyone but some people cant let go of the past and it will kill a marriage
2007-06-10 04:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by kindsix2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ya think getting married is going to solve this one it won't it gets worse believe me. i think the two of you just are not in-tune with each other. you may love each other dearly and stand by each other in the really rough times but what i see in your future is you in one room and him in another. but i must really commend you on questioning this now because i didn't and although things are ok, we kinda live seperate lives.
2007-06-10 04:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by pa625 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants makeup sex all the time.
2007-06-10 04:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by PinkFlamingo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't not marry him it will only get worst
2007-06-10 04:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋