Marriage & Divorce - 17 May 2007

he has promised not to do it ever again but then he had promised before..He sometimes calls me names and accuses me of all sorts of untrue things.He likes to say i think i know it all. when its good its really good but when its bad i just want to run away or die, We have been trying to have a baby but im not getting pregnant,, and he says he is ok cause he has a 15yr old daughter, ive been pregnant before but lost the baby after an aircraft 16 yrs ago. doctors say im fine, he does not want to do a semen test.. When we were engaed he cheated on me and was seeing his ex-girlfriend, he says she got pregnant but never had the baby, he came back for forgiveness and i forgave him. I wonder if i did the right thing at all. He doesnt kiss me says he has gum problems, i feel unloved that he doesnt kiss me, he wants oral but does not like giving it, he never says sorry , please or thank u when its all he should say at that point in time. Please help & advice aynone out there please

2007-05-17 05:03:05 · 31 answers · asked by Antoinette M 1

I REALLY WANT TO THANK U ALL BY HEART.TODAY I M FEELING LIKE I M NOT ALONE ANYMORE NOW I M PLANNING 4 DIVORCE WILL IT BE FINE B'CUZ SHE IS A ***** NOW MY HUBBY ALSO SAYS THAT I DONT NEED U U NEED NOT TO COME BACK WHEN I CAME TO MY MOMS PLACE THEY WENT SOMEWHERE ELSE AND WHEN I ASKED THAT WHERE R U ON PHONE THEY ALL REPLYED THAT WE DONT TELL THAT WHERE R WE DO WHAT EVER U CAN DO .ELSE EVERY THING IS OK BUT I M WORRIED 4 MY PARENTS ND MY BROTHERWHAT SHOULD I DO .PLZ SUGGEST THANKS.(I M 4OM INDIA AND UR SUGGESTIONS CAN WORK LIKE A LIGHT IN THE DARK LIFE PLZ)

2007-05-17 04:49:36 · 7 answers · asked by isha 1

she is afraid to even go to a movie or do a lunch date with a friend, but her ex husband dates any woman he can find, why she refuse to go out ? even in a friendly date, no strings attached? she clames that she wants someone but she is been alone for over a year , is that normal for a divorced woman?

2007-05-17 04:49:09 · 24 answers · asked by parmiggiano 1

My husband and I have been married for 8 years and for the past year or so...he has made love to me like he's never have. He gives me oral sex and touches me there and caresses me, kisses me and just about everything that he has never done, not even when we were dating or in our fist years of marriage. I love it but why is he now doing it?

2007-05-17 04:46:25 · 34 answers · asked by Moni 2

There was a small fight among us. Now she says she doesnt want to live with me. I dont know whether she is threatening me or she is seriuos. I have a kid too. What should i do now?

2007-05-17 04:42:24 · 22 answers · asked by kalloo 1

2007-05-17 04:42:20 · 29 answers · asked by broken hearted 1

Mon-Sat. he works from 5am to 10pm and he sleeps all day on Sunday.(I work too) Heres the problem I am getting so bored and lonely that its not funny any more. we have sex if luck once every 2 weeks.We haven't even gone out to a movie or race in over a year. We have been married for 13yrs and have no kids. But anyways this local police officer wants me to be his side dish. I haven't done it yet, but here latey this cop is all I can think about. (what it would be like to be with him in that way) I do not want to lose my hubby but I am not sure what to do.

2007-05-17 04:39:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi Everyone, I'm 30 years old and I have a 1 year old son. My husband is always working. He owns his own business. He leaves the house at 7:00 and comes home at 4:00. Runs downstairs and keeps working. Sometimes he brings his laptop to the table and works when we have dinner. If not he runs back down after dinner to work. He is suppose to give the baby his bath but most nights he asks me to do it. I wash baby, last feeding and put him to bed. He spends 1 hour with me watching tv and I am off to bed. He stays up and works until 2 - 4 in the morning. On the weekends he feeds the baby breakfast and works on his laptop at the same time. We have had so many fights over this and he's so messy too and I can't get him to understand that his mess drives me crazy and just to be alittle neater to compensate for his lack of helping out. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm lonely, tired, stressed and sad.I don't want to break up the family but what kind of message are we sending our son in the end

2007-05-17 04:35:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

that he has to talk to more then me... he says he needs them and it makes him feel good and that me and his guy friends are not good enough.... says he has to have close female friends that I do not know in order to be happy!! What is up with this and is it normal (I dont think so)????

2007-05-17 04:28:01 · 21 answers · asked by JC 2

go out with a blond ;this weekend. or a bruneet. witch one two choose.

2007-05-17 04:24:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys...how long should a girl reasonably wait for her boyriend to propose marrige before they should move on and assume the chances would be greater starting over with someone else? I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. We don't have any serious issues, but I want to get married. I am 27 and he is 30. When the conversation comes up and it rarely has he gets agiated and rude. Our good friends just got engaged so I find myself feeling envious and sad for myself.
Should I give up and move on. It would be hard. But sticking around and waiting will be harder

2007-05-17 04:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by Curious1 1

how do i not make him mad? i want to take care of my house and my errands too

2007-05-17 04:15:36 · 27 answers · asked by Molly 2

what do you do when your husband keeps talking to an ex and tells you their just friends, and she's telling you stuff like "if you and him weren't together then we'd be together" and just all this talk about how they're ment to be together! oh and did i mention everyone in his family say's the samething about them being together! what should i do?????????

2007-05-17 04:09:18 · 75 answers · asked by Cassandra 2

we are so very happy in each others company and lived together for a while but with 25 yrs difference i had to run, he is still wanting to see me and me him, can it poss work, i have doubts due to me being the oldest, HELP, we have known each other 4 and a half yrs now.

2007-05-17 04:06:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

situation: you are on a ship with your mother, wife (or husband), and daughter (or son), and the ship you are on is about to sink. you are a good swimmer, but you can only save only one person. who would you save? and why?

2007-05-17 04:04:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 04:03:15 · 30 answers · asked by sabrina 3

How do I save my marriage?
My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for 6. We have 2 children, ages 4 and 8. We have our ups and downs, but overall I thought things were good. But in the last 2 weeks, he has changed. He says he don't love me anymore, not attracted to me anymore, and wants a divorce. I told him, that I would like to try and work things out, but he doesn't want to try, he says he is just burnt out on our marriage. Any suggestions on what to do, please, I will take them.




I haven't let myself go...i weighed 112 when I met him..2 kids later i am at 120...so I know its not that...I keep up on styles and hairdos...but recently he bought a muscle car...and started wanting to go out more and more..I work in a bar...and he wont even come in there anymore to say "hi" or just stand there and talk with me. He has this job with the state, and it seems like he is burying himself in that, and the people he works with.

2007-05-17 03:59:46 · 22 answers · asked by Star75 1

my x husband and i got divorced 10 years ago because he was having an afair i met some one else after 6 months and we are now married he married his misstres as well but he has never spoke to me and blames me for everythig i find this very hard to understand has we had 3 kids together and he has cut them of to even thou one has been very ill and i have kept his family informed why cant he move on i hurt so much for the kids because they think its there fault me and my new husband reasure them that we love them but it is so hard to watch him reject them

2007-05-17 03:55:04 · 19 answers · asked by disco 3

Im a mother of 2 kids one is not biological not the mans but he has keep my kids away from me for now going 2 months and the cops wont do anything but we are going to court he has a lawyer and i dont have the money for one and legal aid wont cuz i droped them cuz they were one his side. Thing is i dont drink or do drugs and i have a steady job now he hauls junk for a living and drinks a little and i think he smokes pot too even though he says he doesn't. I never wanted to take the kids away from him untill he's done it to me but i still don't just want to take the kids away from him.I just dont know what to do.

2007-05-17 03:49:35 · 15 answers · asked by Honeykiss 1

2007-05-17 03:41:37 · 37 answers · asked by masonv80 3

Why would a man do that?

2007-05-17 03:25:49 · 29 answers · asked by yourlocalbarista 1

I am 4 months prego, and my hubby and i have two kids...we have recently been having problems w/ our marriage, yesterday he took all of our money and took off, not even a good bye to the kids...my oldest daughter 7 is taking this very rough...she is very depressed, I am trying my hardest to be strong, and talk to her, at the same time give her her space...I am really worried about her! What can I do to help ease her pain? Please help

2007-05-17 03:17:11 · 17 answers · asked by crazeymazey 4

I was married for eight years and now I've been divorced for 2 years. I've had plenty of time by myself between relationships. I'm not one to jump from one to the next, but the quality of life seems to be soo much better in a relationship.
Even in my horrid marriage there was a comfort in coming home to someone that knows me better than anyone else.
I've tried hobbies, and going out with friends more often.
How do you learn to be happy by yourself?
I don't want to rely on someone else to make me happy.

2007-05-17 03:07:46 · 18 answers · asked by english_sweetie2001 3

I have a co-worker who has a great marriage with her husband and I'd say she's a very respectable professional woman.
Well it turns out she considers herself Bisexual and her and her husband bring other people into their bedroom on a fairly regular basis.
I could understand a few times but is this really "healthy" for a long term marriage? Sounds like they totally respect and trust eachother but I'd like to know from other MARRIED people if this is something you would consider or if it's destructive in the long haul??
I think it's great to be that open with eachother but I'm teetering on if this is something thats truly healthy and good for a couple or if it's something that down the road will cause problems?

2007-05-17 03:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 02:58:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 02:54:26 · 10 answers · asked by MRS. YELIJHA MAGRUDER 1

i am just about to break the news to my husband that i would like him to leave.
I was just curious as to what others have gone through once the intention is spoken. -as in what is your life like now after marriage?
we dont have kids, so that is a good thing, but how did you break the news to your other? what were the short term effects? long term effects? how did they take it?
how long did it take for you to get over it? how long did it take your ex to get over it, do you still talk to each other? i am interested to hear from both sides. do you regret it? or was it the best thing you could have done?

2007-05-17 02:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by Shake-Zula 3

My hubby and I were only together for 5 months before we got married & before that I only knew him for 3 days before he asked me to move in with him. I was 18 and he was 19. We have been married for about 1year and 3 months and we still love each other to no end.
I was just wondering how it was like for other young married couples out there. Please , do tell =)

2007-05-17 02:17:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always been a "good girl". Never did too much as "teenager". I am in my 30's now, married and with a child. Now I am starting to think I want to have a more "radical" look, I start liking more "radical" music and I also want to get a tattoo. Is this a mid 30's crisis or what? Anybody else going through this?

2007-05-17 02:03:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

And why?

2007-05-17 01:51:25 · 74 answers · asked by tulip 4