Men only! Why a wife could refuse to have "protected sex" with her husband?

Answer 1

I'm going for a crappy answer:

She is having an affair and has gotten pregnant by her lover, so she is covering her tracks by letting her husband think, HE got her pregnant

Answer 2

She wants to have a baby, that's the only reason I can think of. If you both had decided before that you weren't going to have them, or have them yet, she may have changed her mind. You need to discuss it with her openly. If she did change her mind, you are not obligated to go along with her. Having kids is a decision that both of you should make together, and if you really aren't ready, then you should stop having sex for a while, because when a woman wants to get pregnant, she will find a way no matter what kind of protection you use.

Answer 3

This is a womans perspective: Why when you are married would you want to have protective sex with your wife, unless you have been unfaithful and scared to give her some disease, OR, she might want to have children and does not know how to tell you, she might not like the feel of the condom, WHY not ask your wife, play the game truth or dare, and ask her that question

Answer 4

Most of the answers the were already given hit the nail on the head. I'll give it a shot anyway...

She wants to become pregnant.

She wants a child with the man she loves.

She may be trying to trap you. (My ex-wife done that)

Unprotected sex...as in you not wearing a condom? Some women don't like the feeling of a condom, I know. I've been told that.

Being your married and committed to each other....no chance of a STD, then she wants a baby or it may be entrapment..

Answer 5

Maybe she wants kids, but if she's an emotional person it could be different. If she used condoms with previous boyfriends (if she had sex at all before you), then it's a possibility that she wants to give that part of herself to you. She wants you to know that she trusts you. Some girls don't want to have unprotected sex because of the STD's out there, but she's saying that she loves you, and wants you to know it. Just ask her, that's the only way to truly know. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Well she probably feels that since she is married to you now, that she shouldnt have to have a condom in the mix. You didnt mention if she is on birth control. I dont think "trapping" is the case since you are married unless you are having problems, and in that case you shouldnt be having sex with her as it will confuse her emotions. I think that she is like a lot of woman and want to have you experience her with out the protection and she wants to experience you as well. Condoms not only feel horrible but the smell!!

Answer 7

womans point of view here.
Maybe she wants a baby with her husband. Since they are married maybe she feels that they dont NEED protected sex anymore. unless he's not telling her something she needs to know about why he wants protected sex. He probably is cheating on her, or has some sort of nasty disease he's hiding from her, but doesnt want her to contract. She probably feels that since they are married now they dont need to protect themselves from getting pregnant.
Or like the one person said, she might have gotten pregnant by someone else and is trying to cover her tracks.

Answer 8

Maybe becuz she's thinking "if we're married and he's NOT cheating on me, why in the world would we use a condom?" It questions your loyalty, and as far as pregnancy goes, there's other forms of contraception such as birth control pills.

Answer 9

She wants to show him she trusts him implicitly. If neither of them have been playing around then there is no need to have protected sex.

Answer 10

So she's refusing to use protection? Maybe she wants a kid!