Marriage & Divorce - 17 May 2007

Scriptures about love and committment

2007-05-17 08:07:31 · 8 answers · asked by Ann 1

i have been married for four years to someone that was not born in the united states,,,, no nationality disclosed.... he was in the united states when we were together and got married... 3 months later after getting married he got sent back to his country and cant come back for 20 years. luckily maybe in 10. out of those 4 years that we have been married 3 months was in the united states and the rest in the foreign country.. ok people i have two kids from a previous marriage one with disablilities...this relationship is really hard. i am the money maker and the provider due to circumstances i feel like i have three kids he refuses to watch the kids while i go to work he doesnt want me to better my career . he constantly insists that i cheat I cross to work in the states everyday sometimes twice i have girl scout troop ii want to know should i stay in or should i let it go.... i feel i am putting in all the work and i really love him but i want to know what i should let go

2007-05-17 07:53:31 · 12 answers · asked by gstroop209 1

Okay... so my best friend of five years... and I have dated him on and off throughout that time... asked me to marry him two nights ago... We are not currently dating... and the only reason it didnt work out before was because of his crazy ex... but my question is he is going into the army... and leaves june 26th for basic... does it sound like he just wants to get married so that he has someone when he goes into the military... he wanted to get married in two months and I told him that I need to wait a year... I am 18 and I graduate on sunday... and he just turned 21... he asked me to marry him on his birthday... and I do love him... but I am sooo scared that this is just a rash decision that he would not have made otherwise... and I dont want to be divorced in a year...

2007-05-17 07:44:30 · 18 answers · asked by Crash Wendy 1

when a people ask a question on here why is it so hard for others to just answers the question without assuming they know whats going on.

Example Qusetion: Is cheating wrong?

Answer from yahoo participant: Why do you cheat you should be assamed of your self, dirt bag scum. People like you should die!

Nowhere in the question was it stated that the poster was a cheater, so why was it assumed? What's the deal with that?

2007-05-17 07:39:37 · 12 answers · asked by prettylady 2

I am filing for him to come to the states what should I do? I feel hurt

2007-05-17 07:32:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

but when we do she acts like she enjoys it she is driving me CRAZY what does she want

2007-05-17 07:27:11 · 19 answers · asked by troy m 2

Is it true that when I marry my fiance we'll share the debt he incurred before the marriage union? My fiance has a sizeable amount of debt in student loans and credit cards. What would happen if we got a divorce later on and he still had a lot of debt that he incured himself? Would I be partially responsible for paying it off?

2007-05-17 07:24:56 · 15 answers · asked by cotton~candy 4

2007-05-17 07:21:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this guy, sam (fake name) that im with, and i just found out that his parents are divorced bc his dad was abusive. would that make sam an abusive person? hes 26 and very sweet, but still. are u married to someone who had abusive parents? how did they treat you? do u notice anything about their temper? please elaborate as much as you can! thank you in advance!

2007-05-17 06:51:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can you be friends with someone who cheated on you and left you and your kids? A friend is someone that you can trust and have faith in. Some other male poster once said, "You must not be divorced. Divorced people are enemies." LOL!

2007-05-17 06:42:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-17 06:33:09 · 39 answers · asked by craig s 1

I'm just curious.

2007-05-17 06:29:50 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

The ex of the man I am seeing has come to my house three times. He wasn't here. First it was because she wanted me to tell him that she needed the kids' coats. Then she wanted to tell him that his mother was coming by for some stuff that he had. Then she didn't say, she just said that she was trying to find him to talk about something related to school for their kids.

My lawyer tried to get a restraining order but he said that the judge did not find any threatening behavior.

What should I do?

2007-05-17 06:28:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you feel about fiance not telling ex wife about new marriage? Should I be concerned?

2007-05-17 06:22:19 · 10 answers · asked by swtchk 4

My byf of 7 mo. decided to get an apt. w/ his son for a yr. in order to take it slow & help his son +several other reasons. I was not happy, but took the low road as I know that we have a future together & didn't want to push an uncomfortable situation. So ok - were taking our time - problem is he does not stop talking about our future & how we'll be & what our wedding will be like & I love that he's so excited about it - but if he's this excited - why didn't he decide to live together? How do I ask him this without him feeling as though I am preasurring him to change his mind, make him think I being resentful or ??? He complains about the apt & his son not being responsible for what he agree'd to - yet he knew this going into it & I cannot understand? He's NOT using me or visa versa - but what finally gives before a man jsut sucks it up and decides to move forward? I know his ex really burned him - but I cannot compete with a "what may have been"? Is that whats happening here?

2007-05-17 06:22:14 · 7 answers · asked by martiek7 3

Get this, my soon to be ex wife because of her adultery. Is dating on 3 different dating websites while in our house. the one she will be thrown out of once the divorce is final. I am staying 1200 miles away until then so as not to kill her!!! And she see's nothing wrong with this. A paramedic with no morals !!!!

2007-05-17 06:07:57 · 12 answers · asked by pete s 1

He had a great, long first marriage, one of the most talented musicians in history, vegetarian, nice to look at, rich and on and on...............

2007-05-17 06:04:12 · 8 answers · asked by BELINDA B 4

Two men, one American and an Indian were sitting in a bar, drinking shot
after shot.

The Indian man said to the American, "You know my parents are forcing me to
get married to this so called homely girl from a village whom I haven't even
met once. We call this arranged marriage. I don't want to marry a woman I
don't love.

I told them that openly and now have a hell lot of family problems

The American said, "Talking about love marriages...I'll tell you my story. I
married a widow whom I deeply loved and dated for 3 years.
"After a couple of years, my father fell in love with my step-daughter and
so my father became my son-in-law and I became my father's father-in-law.
My daughter is my mother and my wife my grandmother.

More problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my father's brother and
so he is my uncle.
Situations turned worse when my father had a son.

Now my father's son i.e. my brother is my grandson.
Ultimate...

2007-05-17 05:57:40 · 7 answers · asked by S╠╣ЭZADAAa™ 2

I know most married couples would never do this, but it seems like most men at least think about this....But do you women ever think about it? If so, in what ways?

2007-05-17 05:50:08 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are separated. He moved out and changed his cell number. We have been together over 15 years, married twelve. I really feel like we need to atleast have some conversation. I tryed calling him at work but he didn't return my call. I'm not going to continue to call his job. I guess that I really wanted to have a talk before I file for a divorce. Make sure it is really what we both want. However, I'm not going to chase after him for this conversation. There isn't anyone else in my life and I feel quilty because I'm the one who asked him to leave. The entire problem was no communication. I really don't know what to do. If we are not going to reconcile, I want to move on. I am still relatively young and don't have children at home anymore. I want some closure............

2007-05-17 05:44:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I went on vacation to a nude beach resort. I found out that my wife showed her friends the nude pictures of us on vacation. What should I do now?

2007-05-17 05:39:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have a great sex life but no matter what we try i can not have an orgasm with only intercourse. we have tried every position, any tips?

2007-05-17 05:38:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

You get married to the love of your life, someone who you feel is your soul mate and after less than six months your spouse leaves you. You have no idea where he/she lives, works or have any contact with your spouse's family. He/she has been out of your life completely for several years. The only contact is through cell phone and your spouse clearly has indicated he/she doesn't want the marriage for whatever reason. You feel in your heart your spouse has made a terrible mistake. Could you love someone so much to continue to pled for your marriage after such a long separation? If this marriage could be saved, could it ever work? When do you let go?

2007-05-17 05:38:26 · 31 answers · asked by stacy_branch 2

We have been having problems for about 6-8 mos. now. Part of the problem is our neighbors (HIS PARENTS). We have no privacy and my husband does not see any problem with this. The other part of the problem is that we rarely make love anymore if I am lucky I will get a quickie before he goes to work in the early morning( not very satisfying). My husband is always too tired to do anything. I have repeatedly asked him to go to counseling with me and he says that he does not think that we have a problem. I have recently told him that I want a seperation, but since I can't afford to move out anywhere I sleep on the couch and there is no more sex. I have since been flirting with a male friend of mine and now I can't ssem to get him out of my head. How long should I be seperated before I hook up with another man?

2007-05-17 05:34:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my partner for over a year but sex has changed dramatically. When we were in a long distance relationship (all of 3 months!) we were always lusting after each other. I also moved countries to be with him. About 2 months in, sex changed. Not quantity, but quality. There was no more kissing, no more seducing, no more oral, just getting straight into.

Now, a year down the road, I feel unsatisfied. He'll come up behind me sometimes when I'm washing the dishes to kiss me on my neck and I'll get goose bumps EVERYWHERE. I can't remember the last time he kissed me there.

We're getting married in August and I do love him but don't understand why the sex has changed. When I indirectly asked him about it, he became very defensive and took it that I didn't like making love with him. I crawled back into my shell immediately :-(

I don't know how to tell him without making him feel insecure or inadequate. He's not the easiest to talk to on such sensitive matters. Help?

2007-05-17 05:31:04 · 37 answers · asked by sofia280506 1

I am currently 26. I got divorced 2 years ago after being married for less than a year. The marriage ended due to infeldelity on his part. I feel like damaged goods, so I shy away from dating all together. I don't know how guys will react will I tell them I was married. I have no children.

2007-05-17 05:24:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would really like a woman's opinion on what is going on in her head. What I am missing in our relationship. Should I be worried about loosing her?

2007-05-17 05:23:35 · 34 answers · asked by Willie J 5

As a woman, for me its skid marks...how do they get there? Do men just not wipe thoroughly?

How about the rest of you? 10 points to the most original

2007-05-17 05:22:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh and the Ex is moving back in too. Oh the pain.

2007-05-17 05:17:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question??

My friend has been Married a few years and married a women with 3 kids, seems his wife really only married him so the kids would have a father. He a nice looking guy, hard working never cheated. But he feels like his wife is taking advantage of him. hw works a great job and pays most of the bills, but he gets mad when he has to come home and cook and clean. His wife works as well but get home before he does and it seems he is always picking up after her and the kids. Also she is not very (active0 in the bed room. they have sex maybe every 5 weeks. In addition she keeps generating bills and wasting money. So basically he is miserable as hell. He figures it's best to leave now, but he has gotten attached to the kids (1 girl and 2 boys). The kids real fathers are not involed and he doesn't wanna beacome another divorce statistic. What should he do.

2007-05-17 05:03:06 · 35 answers · asked by GMAN 2