my husband and i have a great sex life but no matter what we try i can not have an orgasm with only intercourse. we have tried every position, any tips?
2007-05-17 05:38:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey Girl
I totally feel what your saying, I to also have the same problem. I've been having sex with my friend for two yrs now and hasn't yet reached my peak. I've tried focusing on the sex, not to say he's not a good lover but he's just not bringing that feeling to me. Now my problem with the orgasm thing is my hot spot. I'm mentally not open with my body with him for some strange reason, but thats the key and caressing plays a very big role when it comes to an orgasm. I'm talking love making, not sex. Is he caressing your hot spot to even bring you to your peak? The only person who can give me that orgasm is my ex. I'm really comfortable with him far as my body. I'm more open with my body with him and it just doesn't work with other men. But are you open with your entire body with him? Does he know what areas to touch to make you feel an sensation, Do you know where your sensitive spots are?sometimes we as women don't know ourselves. I don't know if your into this, but, try discovering your own sensitive spot. Once you do that tell him and let him stroke and caress that spot and let the feeling flow in your mind and you to my friend will experience your longing big O with your husband.
Good Luck
Ms. Sasha
2007-05-20 04:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling is physical as well as mental, Instead of being preoccupied about orgasm, just enjoy every moment, every touch, every feeling of the process, The more you involve yourself in the process the more joy you get out of it and reaching orgasm will be a natural culmination of the process. Stop bothering and start enjoying the partner you have. All the best.
2007-05-20 03:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Prem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the same way, it hard for me to get an orgasm. I have to be really horny or really into it. But i found a tool that help me and might help you. It's called the sliver bullet it a sex toy.
Try keeping the bullet inside of you while on vibrate when you guys are having sex.
He's gonna love it and so will you
click on the link below to see the image or copy and paste
http://www.jndproducts.com/images/69%20SILVER%20BULLET.JPG
2007-05-20 02:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Telly-Of-War 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the only way and it works then that is okay. We all like the foreplay before and usually that helps. Try that before and see if that helps.
2007-05-19 11:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋