but when we do she acts like she enjoys it she is driving me CRAZY what does she want
2007-05-17 07:27:11 · 19 answers · asked by troy m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no kids yes 18 years i have asked her she just act like whatever she is 53 i am 39 so now what
2007-05-17 08:43:17 · update #1
ask her. that's how u keep a relationship healthy by being open to eachother about anything. maybe she's ok not having sex but if u want it wants to make sure your pleased. being a good gf or wife she's not gonna just lay there and act bored while your "at it". sounds like she's trying her best to make sex still enjoyable when u do want it.
2007-05-17 07:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
18 years? Dude, she's just tired.
I assume she suffers from the same affliction a housewife suffers. She cooks, cleans, run errands, gets the kids and takes care of the dog/cat. And you want sex when?
Try Noon’ers (afternoon sex), take a day off from your stress full job and have fun together. I do it all the time and it does wonders with our priorities. That’s what sick days are for, mental and physical days off.
See if that work. Good luck.
2007-05-17 14:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by The truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, relax. It's nothing to worry about. I've been with my wife for 14 years and our sex life cools off once in a while. Let her be and in a few days (maybe a week or so) she'll be wanting some.
2007-05-17 14:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by WTF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong people. How would we know? You should ask HER. You might want to consider doing it in front of a professional marriage counselor, though, because I suspect there are underlying problems here that we are not aware of. You shouldn't have to guess what is wrong.
2007-05-17 14:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible she's not terribly interested in sex - but she tries to make you happy by expressing enjoyment when you guys do it. Not everyone stays a sex machine their whole lives, for some of us it's just not that important. If you're not happy with something - talk to her.
2007-05-17 14:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she wants somethijng more than the mere sex.
Perhaps the set up to it counts for more, a higer degree of seduction and romance, rather than "Drop yer drawers, yer ships is comin' into port!"
2007-05-17 14:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women need to feel desired. If you act like you take her for granted you can't expect enthusiasm. Flirt with her, compliment her often, surprise her once in a while and your sexual life will improve.
2007-05-17 14:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Pedro ST 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay don't just deal in assumptions. She doesn't necessarily not like to have sex...you just need to work at your approach and setting a romantic atmosphere. Trust me, your handling skills make all the difference.
2007-05-17 14:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by cotton~candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy it..no really talk to her..maybe she likes you to make the first move..have you always done that?? if so you can't expect her to change now and start making the first move.
2007-05-17 14:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 years? I guess her libido has cooled off a little bit. After that much time I wouldn't guess that she has something on the side.
2007-05-17 14:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋