What are three keys to understand you wife?

Answer 1

Communication.
Commonality.
Compassion.

PLUS, that you will never fully understand anyone

Answer 2

Understand that Women are never happy. Follow these rules and you'll be fine.

1. Allow her to seems as if she is making the important decision.
2. Learn to listen
3. Don't let her know you are having any fun without her

My wife is all screaming she is not included in any decisions. But, whenever I get her involved, it never gets done. She gripes about every little %, color, size, etc. Not anything is ever correct. So, give her a big task while you do the real unknown work.

Learn to listen. You will hear about everything that happens at work, home, school, kids, etc. All the things that does not matter to you and you think is trivia is a big deal to her. Listen and add some comments so to let her know you were really listening. And, always agree with her. If you don't, you'll start a fight.

No matter what you do, do not have any FUN without her. For instance, I absolutely enjoy my job. It was a big problem for me to work. I do a lot of business meetings, lunches, travels, etc. To her, it seems as if I am having nothing but fun. Where as, I am trying to win new business accounts. So, instead, I just complain about work and make it sound horrible.

Answer 3

The best three keys to help understanding your wife:
1. Accept the fact: Women think different then men, I do not know a single man that really can say they understand women.
2. Continue to communicate: agree that is OK to disagree on a subject, and do not make assumptions--you may want to say --what I am hearing is ............is that correct?
3. Make sure you listen to her: Stop what ever you are doing and look at her---this proves to her you are listening--and as a male I have found I am more focus on what she is saying.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

3 keys? Don't make the same mistakes my husband did!

1. Talk to her about every dream, every plan. Keep everything out in the open.

2. Include your wife in on things.

3. Spend time together and have fun...don't be too much of a workaholic.

Those 3 things should be great...She'll love you!

Answer 5

Well if there was an answer for this question than there would be a lot more happy people.You need2 know what girls think
on emotions not logic & guy use logic & not emotions, so
what you think is funny is hurtfull 2 them, not doing somethink is nothing 2 you but everything 2 them. So if you take everything & look at it in 2 ways your &hers than you will have a better understanding of her.
Good luck your going 2 need it .

Answer 6

First, you have to realize the differences in how women think.
While us guys are problem solvers, most women pay more attention to how the problem or issue makes them feel, than to the problem itself. We on the other hand, don't relate to feelings, we are more about action and results. Tell us what the problem is, and we will do everything we can to fix it. But when they tell us how it makes them feel, we don't relate to that in even the slightest way. If you think and act in a way that takes care of their hearts, they will be happy, but do anything that hurts their feelings, and look out.

Answer 7

1. Time how long she can talk non-stop
2. See what kind of women she hangs out with (these women have more influence on her than you)
3. Is she starved for emotional issues or level headed

Answer 8

understanding your wife? Is that the question?
I'm a wife and all I need is...
Patience when I'm trying to fix something for myself, please do not grab it out of my hands and fix it.
Patience when I'm pouring my heart out to you over some stupid movie or something I heard.
Patience when I want a hug but 2 minutes ago when you hugged me I was too busy putting a bandaid on Jr's boo boo!

Answer 9

1. Listen to what she tells you, and do something about it.

2. Help her with chores / kids WITHOUT complaining. I guarantee you she doesnt want to do the laundry, cookek dinner, help with homework, etc. either, but someone has to.

3. Tell her she looks "Beautiful" ALL the time. Avoid words like "nice" and "fine" when it comes to her appreance.

Answer 10

for me there is only one key - PRAY that you will be granted the wisdom to understand your wife, to maintain love and respect for her despite your hatred and differences or whatever is happening, and for you to have the humility to say sorry and accept wrongs done to you.

Answer 11

1. Think like a woman
2. She can interrupt you, but you can't interrupt her
3. Don't be a stranger to the couch, expect to spend a few nights there.