I am filing for him to come to the states what should I do? I feel hurt
2007-05-17 07:32:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like he is just using you to get to the states! If he can not keep it in his pants for a month he does not love you. He is only thinking of himself, and not your feelings. Leave him while it is still early. I know it will be hard. It will hurt you more if you stay with him and he does it over and over. They never change. He will always think you will forgive him. Treat yourself better. You are better than that.
2007-05-18 09:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by elizhagar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be hurt and mad as hell too. You haven't even been married 2 months and he's cheating on you already, That the heck is that all about. I know that he'll have all kinds of excuses but reality is, the trust is gone and how do you get it back. If this happened once, this early in your marriage, you know that it'll happen over and over again. So you need to accept or move on. If you accept it, you have to live with a man that you know is unfaithful, could bring home any number of STDs to you and may leave you one day for another woman. The part that's the hardest is accepting him for what he is, a cheater. Or get out before the ink dries on the marriage certificate.
2007-05-17 07:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by FeelYourPain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think of filing for him to come the states. File for another reason. He will definitely cheat again. If he did it once, he will do it again.
2007-05-17 07:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately file for divorce, instead of filing for him to come to the States. The man is a scoundrel. If you don't lose him, you will lose your self respect.
2007-05-17 07:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated Already!? LEAVE HIM! He didn't even give it time to think about cheating on you, he did it without thought! Divorce him, once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-05-17 07:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize you made a mistake by marrying this @sshole and get an annulment if possible or if that's not an option get a divorce -
don't finish the paperwork for him to come to the ststes
2007-05-17 07:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses now and move on ,the hurt will turn to anger and that will make it easier for you .i'm sorry this happened to you but please don't think all men are like that ,I'm A woman and I do not believe all men are dogs (just my ex lol)
2007-05-17 07:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-17 07:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I hate to say it but get out now ! I didn"t with my xwife and I am sorry for that descion. It took me years and she had several affairs before I split.
2007-05-17 07:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't complete the paperwork. If he's already screwing around early on, what would the rest of your marriage be like?
2007-05-17 09:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋