My wife and I went on vacation to a nude beach resort. I found out that my wife showed her friends the nude pictures of us on vacation. What should I do now?
2007-05-17 05:39:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Been there. My wife showed our pictures after our trip. People wanted to see these and I believe that secretly they wish they were there as well. First you went nude in a public place and admit it you enjoyed having people see you, now only differece is that someone you know is seeing them. Exhibitionism is fun. If someone comments be positve say how great is was and ask if they would like to join you next time.
2007-05-17 10:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by cgynotanlines 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that. If you didn't want her to show your vacation pics then you shouldn't have gone to a nude beach resort!
2007-05-17 05:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel hurt by her showing those pictures to her friends then you need to talk to her about it so that she understands that you are upset over it. So, confront her. Also, ask her how it would make her feel if the tables were reversed and you had shown those pictures to your friends. As far as her friends are concerned, there is nothing you can do about them. You shouldn't care about what they think anyway even though you may be embarassed now, in time that will fade and they will hopefully be adult enough to deal with this situation gracefully.
And in the future never take naked pictures if you don't want them exposed. They always end up being uncovered it seems!
2007-05-17 05:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Wedding Planner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It made you feel uncomfortable to have your privacy exposed to those who know your name, but not to those that don't? I can understand a bit - but you need to let your wife know you didn't appreciate it & then with a hug & kiss explain to her that the "package contained herein is for her alone and now that the other woman are aware of what she's getting, she may want to rethink the next time she exposes a seret weapon".
If your wifes freinds ever comment in a friendly manner - play along making sure to let them know just how lucky a woman your wife is.
2007-05-17 05:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by martiek7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make sure right away that she is not stupid enough to put the pictures on the Internet or give her friends copies. Because once given to someone else, they can do anything they want and nothing you can do.
For now, you can only give a stern lecture to your wife that she had no concept of the consequences.
2007-05-17 06:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bluntly, but kindly tell your wife how uncomfortable that made you feel - and how a special time was made into sport.
Tell her you wish now that you hadn't gone to the nude beach since she didn't appreciate how some things should be private - and that this was one of them.
She really owes you an apology.
You really need to rethink your marriage. Hope you don't have children 'cause she doesn't deserve a nice guy.
2007-05-17 05:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
ask what they thought of the two of you necked .ant nothing wrong with the world seeing ya necked if there was to you then you should not have been at the nude beach .i mean a friend could have showed up there then what ? enjoy the pitchers and chill
2007-05-17 05:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by henryredwons 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with some other comments your wife obviously isnt ashamed to show you off so I cant see your problem. Watch out at the next works bash you may have to fight off her friends!!!!
2007-05-17 05:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by Magster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you didn' want her to show the pics to anyone then maybe you shouldn't go on vacation to places like that. her friends obviously knew you were going on a vacation, did you expect them not to wanna see pictures??
2007-05-17 05:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by mylilboog1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain to your friends that the water was a bit cold and that is the reason why your penis appears to be so small.
2007-05-17 05:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ronin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋