My husband and I have been married for 8 years and for the past year or so...he has made love to me like he's never have. He gives me oral sex and touches me there and caresses me, kisses me and just about everything that he has never done, not even when we were dating or in our fist years of marriage. I love it but why is he now doing it?
2007-05-17 04:46:25 · 34 answers · asked by Moni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS THAT WHEN MEN GET OLDER THEY SOMETIMES GET MORE STAMINA AND SEXUAL URGES FOR NEW THINGS THAT NOT ONLY EXCITE THEM BUT ALSO EXCITE THEIR PARTNER. HAVE YOU TRIED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS? BEING OPEN IS THE BEST ANSWER.
2007-05-17 04:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by SWEETPEA!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know? But.....many claim that when a man has cheated or is cheating he sometimes gets more sexual with the wife. Maybe he gets arroused like that because he is thinking about how he has done it with his lover? They say you will notice something has changed from the norm of things. Look back and remember what was going on around him when he started being different sexually with you. Was he staying out late back then ? Was anything going on that made you expect something in a gut feeling at that time? Something isn't right if you are questioning this now. I would keep my eyes open and check back over things. Good luck sweetie.
2007-05-17 05:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you smell a rat! Has his behavior pattern changed recently in the way he dresses, smells etc., if it has then there is without a doubt a rat. However, step up your bait just so he would be reminded of who's the cat. Fight fire with fire, if you think that he's cheating, though it hurts, give back to him the same/more intense passion that he gives you. Play up your game. If he likes you looking a certain way, then go for it! The more the cat do, the rat has to scat!
2007-05-17 06:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's preparing you for the paternity suit papers he is expecting in the mail any day now. that's always a big sign when a husband starts kissing his wife's butt when he never did before usually something bad is on the horizon.
2007-05-17 05:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are wasting time asking the question and waiting for a response and not making love to your husband.
Who cares why he is doing...just be happy that you guys still have a sex, a good one at :)
2007-05-17 04:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's finally become a man. Humans don't fully mature until the age of 30 and I'd guess he's around that age. He's doing it because he can finally recognize what you "love". Don't question it, just enjoy it!
2007-05-17 05:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll take a guess: your husband read a book or saw a video on love making techniques. Since you said you like it, stop worrying about it.
2007-05-17 04:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible he's been watching porn lately and loading up on Viagra. You should consider yourself lucky to be getting what other women who has been in a relationship that long are losing. Just relax and enjoy it. It doesn't hurt or does it?.
2007-05-17 04:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wanted to try something new, i mean you have been together for a long time and this way the sex is better than the usual.
2007-05-17 04:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is he is feeling self consious. Men have a tendancy to have a low outlook on them selves middle aged. And it is probably your prime. What better way to keep your wife with you and feeling like he is the man...than to give you exactly what you want.
2007-05-17 04:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy is near 40, he might be at the peak of his sex life. Just enjoy it.
2007-05-17 04:50:30 · answer #11 · answered by bluekoala35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋