2007-05-17 04:03:15 · 30 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it is. If you are in a relationship you should not be talking to other women, period.
2007-05-17 04:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are chatting with these women on the net about things you would normally be discussing with someone in a relationship, then yes, you are having an emotional affair, and therefore, cheating.
2007-05-17 04:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what he is doing. Personally, I don't consider pornography cheating since I know people who perform better after looking on it. Having serious chats with girls and asking them for sex or whatnot is cheating. Confront him about it, you'll be surprised how innocent (or not) things may be. I think right now though, the only problem here is your insecurity. Just because he talks with women, doesn't mean he's interested in them. I think you would be very upset if he didn't allow you to talk to your guy friends.
2007-05-17 04:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by the_crying_queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl it's truly depends on what he is saying or doing while speaking to this chicken head on-line.Just because your man is on line and chatting you cannot assumed that he is doing something bad. If I was you i would sit down and tell him (your man)what is bothering you remember girl that you need trust and communication in a relationship so just talk to him.
Girl if this is tormenting your mind and it is not letting you deal with your daily activities what i can tell you is talk to him like i said and tell him Hun I love you but i need you to respect me respect the house " if you guys are living together" or if you guys are living away from each other just tell him anyways that you would appreciated it a lot if he would stop chatting with this chicken head because it bothers you and it hurts
if he said that he will not stop then girl i subjects you to think about another way out and get professional help if you two are married and if you want to safe your relationship if not i would just tell you to move on even though it could be hard for you but you do need to be treated like gold and not like feeling un wanted you need attention, love, and someone that will be respect and be there for you. You need to sit down and put things out on the table. I hope that everything turns out good and I say if he truly loves you he will respect you and listen to you and maybe he can even tell you to be around him when he is chatting on line with this ladies so that you can see that he has nothing to do with them and nothing to hide.
2007-05-17 04:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by mary o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! DO NOT LET IT FOOL YOU!! He is trying to fill his fantasy by chatting... alot of times it leads to them sending pictures or setting up a meeting and him having a relationship behind your back. Tell him how you feel and if he refuses to stop chatting with women then he is obviously attached to someone in some kind of way. You should be all he needs!!!
2007-05-17 04:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by zoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what they are saying to each other and what their intentions are down the road. I'm married, and I have chatted with many men on-line with absolutely no intention of ever doing or saying anything inappropiate. (I've had some guys with whom I've spoke try to make it inappropiate and I cut them off immediately.) I just like meeting new people. I don't consider this cheating at all.
2007-05-17 04:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I define cheating as doing something that your significant other wouldnt approve of. So that could be kissing, chatting or flirting or having sex. More importantly than my definition is YOUR definition. If you are uncomfortable with it, it sounds like you should have a discussion as to what the rules of the relationship are.
2007-05-17 04:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will define cheating differently...I think of cheating as any act(s) with the opposite sex that make my husband uncomfortable. If I have to sneak and do something or question if it's right IT SHOULDN'T BE HAPPENING.
It's always best to have an open conversation about cheating then boundaries will be set.
2007-05-18 06:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by KDW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I don't consider chatting cheating, I don't think it's right of him to be chatting with other women.
2007-05-17 04:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by sassysusie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that if you are in a committed relationship, neither person should be chatting with people of the opposite sex on line. It is just putting yourself in a vulnerable situation. Now, if he does it with you there with him then I wouldn't worry about it. It's the sneaking around that's so bad.
2007-05-17 04:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely yes because no matter how good of a guy he is... when you get on the web something changes so he's probably flirting around all you need to now is wheather or not he is planning on meeting up on of them or if he is planning on leaving you if that's the case flip it back on him and let him have it otherwise if your willing to let flirting go on all the time were he's never gonna be fully committed to you than go for it... Good luck
2007-05-17 04:10:54 · answer #11 · answered by Austin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋