Marriage & Divorce - 6 May 2007

Please do not judge me just advise ,With this said I will tell you of my issue ,Thank you.I have been with my now husband for going on 8 years. Well last year we were having problems now I look back nothing major things if we would have just talked.I was a stay at home mother of then 5 kids and finacially and bored I got me a job.Someone I worked with I found attractive and later found out he thought the same of me.I dont know if it was attention from someone else that triggered it but I ended up cheating and this went on for about 6 months and I told my husband about it I seen how much I knew he did love me because he wanted to work it out so I quit my job and knew I had to do right by my family, A couple weeks later found out I was pregnant by who I do not know.The other guy knew I was pregnant and I had hurt him so much we ended up leaving each other alone on bad terms The baby is now born and I feel guilty that I do not know who the father is.My husband said leave the other guy out

2007-05-06 16:24:26 · 15 answers · asked by CONFUSED 2

My husband's family beliefs in one religion, and has been actively participating in events. I'm a free thinker when I married him. My parents beliefs in another religion. Now I start to get annoyed because he thinks i should follow his belief and his parents will not be happy if I join my parents in thier religion. I don't really like his religion but I don't object his activities but if I decided to join my parent's belief, he will not like it. What should I do?

2007-05-06 16:20:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-06 16:19:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know why, I usually keep it together. But my ex introduced our kids to his new girlfriend this weekend. We have only been apart 5 months. I admit it I am jealous. It seems like he just hurts people with no care about it. And everything is made easy for him. He lives with his mother rent free, he is 41. His new girlfriend is 45, has a brand new Cadilac, and a beach house. I can't even get a date. It does make me sad and jealous sometimes. I really don't want to care anymore. But it still hurts me. When I try to talk to him about it, he says your just jealous and hangs up on me. Our boys liked her, and her car. Please god! just make my feelings for him go away! I am just feeling sorry for myself tonight, sorry. Thanks for listening.

2007-05-06 16:07:21 · 22 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4

I had a relationship that ended nearly a year ago and it was not on my terms. The thing is, I miss him very much and I am still hurting. He on the other hand seems to care less about me. I know this because when I tried to tell him how I felt, he did not respond to me at all. This was my first real relationship and it was serious. I just can't understand how even though he ended things for reasons, he doesn't even miss me. I feel he probably does not even think about me. It just hurts very much. I try so hard to move on, but I just wish he showed some remorse or regret, or sadness. How do people just move on?

2007-05-06 16:03:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i can't imagine being married 50 years to the same person.

2007-05-06 16:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-05-06 16:02:48 · 3 answers · asked by bentley_beth 1

My parents and all my relatives are forcing me for a re-marriage saying that my daughter is very young and it is difficult for a father bringing up a girl child & she would always require a mother when she grows up. Please advice...

2007-05-06 15:57:51 · 43 answers · asked by bobby m 1

I have recently gotten married and also find myself with lots of doubts. My husband gets e-mails and text messages from other girls he claims that they are old friends and nothing is going on between them. He also has a myspace account. On his page he talks about our wedding and has a picture of me, but he is constantly getting "friend requests" from scantilly clad women and messages from people I have never heard of. He states that the friend requests come b/c his page is set to private, but when I go to view it it does not say that on his page. He says that I am trying to catch him in something. I am so scared that I am being cheated on, but I also don't want to be falsely accusing him. How can I know for sure?

2007-05-06 15:52:51 · 8 answers · asked by katec 1

My brother fell in love and married a woman four years ago. She was born male but changed her sex which was okay with my brother as he did not want kids. She is also twelve years older than him. Inspite of our discouragement he married her and today he is repenting.
She now says that sex change was a mistake and that he feels attracted to females. We have been trying to work it out but she just wants a divorce. How can I stop them from getting divorced?

2007-05-06 15:25:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So me and my wife are getting a dissoluation, we got married by my friend who got ordaided on the net however after reading into this i guess in ohio you have to file papers with the state which he didnt so i guess what i'm asking is since the marriage was never legal we dont have to get the dissoluation right? if thats the case then what would we have to do to get it off the records?

2007-05-06 15:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by metallicats_02 1

I've been married for nearly 3 years to a military man. On his 1st deployment, I ended up seeing someone else and eventually came clean about it. When he returned I later found out he had been talking to someone, as well, way before he deployed. We constantly bicker. He can be controlling and manipulating and is contantly telling me he can't trust me or forget what I did (when he too cheated on me as well). When I got pregnant, in a way he pressured me to have an abortion because he was always like: "Make a decision", "we can't afford a child", "what are you going to do?". So now he tells me I am to blame for having the abortion. He's currently deployed again and in a way I'm taking care of my mom who just got diagned with cancer. He gets mad b/c I can't be next to the phone when he calls and says I don't have him as my 1st priority. I'm trying to be a good wife. I love him and it hurts me he treats me like this. I feel like he's pushing me away. Help?!

2007-05-06 14:55:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-06 14:53:01 · 49 answers · asked by casey308 2

Should I move back to California or stay here in Arizona?

2007-05-06 14:51:48 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel c 1

2007-05-06 14:01:29 · 20 answers · asked by letty 1

If your married, and your Husband is always home, but never wants sex, does that mean your to old? im 38 and he is 41. if i want to have sex he acts like im doing something wrong! Does this mean he don't love me anymore? or is he just comfortable with our marrige? Because he tells me that he still loves me. And we don't have to have sex all the time. But the thing is, we hardley ever do. just once in a while( once every month or two) Only when he wants it. if he wants it and i would say no, he gets mad! But he turnes me down every time. Is something wrong with me?

2007-05-06 13:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think swingers and people with open marriages have no morals,no respect for their marriage vows and husband/wife,are not fully committed to each other,not satisfied with their sex life,have a weak marriage and something is missing,if they were really happy with each other they wouldnt need sex with other people and have no idea what a real marriage and true love is all about...Wedding vows say "forsake all others" not f**k all others.

2007-05-06 13:47:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

on my so-called best friend of 20 years who slept with my husband, lied about me to him causing the breakdown of my 25 year marriage, and generally causing so much pain in my family, hurting my kids etc. She's done it before, broken homes up. How does someone like this b itch get their just desserts?

2007-05-06 13:33:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's too much, i cant have my daughter raised in front of a man that is depressed and angry so he needs to blame everyone else for everything that goes wrong. Nothing I do or say will ever make him happy. verbally abusive and selfish. I need out, now.

2007-05-06 13:24:46 · 27 answers · asked by jmerry22 1

my wife and i seperated in february this year,i have just been going through some paperwork divorce papers and marriage certificates etc my wife has been married twice before me ...i am not going to give the real names but her maiden name was jones... after her first marriage her name became smith....then she remarried and became mrs hardy....then she married me and became mrs ward....the thing that puzzles me is that when she signed the marriage licence for our marriage she signed it with her maiden name jones....surely she should of signed it with her last known name ..mrs hardy .... so was i legally married to her

2007-05-06 13:22:23 · 4 answers · asked by dave w 1

They both go a little heavy on the alcahol from time to time but it's usually my dad who drinks a little too much. And sometimes it's not even because they had something to drink and their fighting about money or some other thing related to it. So they talked it over and told us that they would get a divorce if my dad couldn't get over his drinking problem. (He is not a bad guy he just is when he drinks.) And if they did get a divorce than what would I do. I also have 1 brother so we would probably get separated. And would I stay with my mom or my dad.

2007-05-06 12:14:35 · 3 answers · asked by alex 2

Serious question for a very serious issue. I have been married to the father of my child for one year. I can't say enough how unhappy I am. We argue almost every day, I've seen numbers and text messages from other women in his phone, and he can't keep a job. Since we have been married he's had 4 jobs. He just started another one a couple weeks ago, and almost called in late today bc he was 'tired'. Our bills are backed up. We've lived off credit cards for the past 2 mths, and all my income has gone directly to bills, which @ times isn't enough. I'm a full time employee, full time student, and come home to be a wife and mother....and needless to say, I'm emotionally drained by all this (him). His promise in our marriage was to be the leader and to take care of me and his child. Honestly, all I want is him 2 hold up his end of the bargain...he constantly lets me and our daughter down with his instability and its weighing heavy on me. Ive considered a divorce but I want my child to have both parents. I love him, but I have to love me more, and do what's best for us all. That's my issue...I don't know what the best IS.

2007-05-06 12:12:58 · 45 answers · asked by Kimmie 2

We've never been apart that long. We've been married for 2 years and the longest we've been apart was 2 days. When he left we were both in tears and I already miss him so much. I know that there are alot of women out there whose hubby's are gone constantly. What are some things you do to make the time go by and have fun? We moved far away so there's not any family and I haven't made any friends yet, so it's not like I can hang out with anyone. What's some good "me" time things?

2007-05-06 11:55:46 · 24 answers · asked by akamoonpie 4

We still want an occassional night out. Surprise us and pretend to go out for a newspaper and come back with chinese take out and candles. Go to McD's and get an icecream cone to share while walking hand in hand at the park. I really want to understand...

2007-05-06 11:45:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend has been with her husband for 6 years married for 5. She has always said her sex life was always healthy but for the past 6 months her husband doesnt seem to go to her very often. She is worried he is going off her. He is not having an affair they have a business together and see eachother most of the time. But she is worried he has his eye on another woman or maybe he is just bored with her? He will pass comments that she is beautiful, gorgeous, sexy etc but all talk and no action... they are both early 40's - what do you think?

2007-05-06 11:36:25 · 14 answers · asked by confused 6

2007-05-06 11:30:27 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 32 and working, wife is 50 and not working. Wife got sick although we did not know she was sick. I started relationship to another woman, 33 and decided to divorce my wife. Then wife got very sad, talked suicide, and it stopped my plans. I was in love with other woman and I was still taking care of wife. Then everybody got upset and both women told me to stop the mess and pick only one of them. In the meantime, wife got cured of her sickness but I love her less than before, I just care for her. Wife still claims she will die if I leave her. I am not sure what I want anymore. What to do in such a situation?

2007-05-06 11:28:56 · 11 answers · asked by wonderings 1

I have tried and tried to be considerate, patient, and loving to my boyfriends kids 10 and 6 years old. He gets them every other weekend. For the past couple of months I have felt that I am (intentionally or unintentionally) being left out of the "family" fun plans. This week, knowing they would be over, I had planned on a pizza and movie night at home, but my boyfriend abruptly made plans of his own for a movie and fast food without me. He asked me if i wanted to go, but not til last minute and it was right after i got off work. He totally disregarded that I had already made plans. I feel that either the kids don't like me, have told him about it and he doesn't wish to deal with it, or his controlling ex-wife is pressuring him because she doesn't like me. I feel like I just running away from the whole situation.

2007-05-06 11:16:48 · 15 answers · asked by mslorikaraoke 3

ive been with my boyfriend for almost a yr now, he left his wife for me, and the divorce process is taking foreverrr...any advice?

2007-05-06 11:08:33 · 35 answers · asked by AleIsSooGorGeOus 1

my sister is in her 30s and contacted an old bf from high school and have been dating for 5 mon. ago.She shows me all the gifts, floweres,cards,love letters ect he has given her.I see how much he brags about her to his family,friends ect.He tells her how perfect she is for him and all kinds of "one liners".Well i just found out he has been cheating on her with not one but 2 others!My sis will be devastated if she ever found out.why does a man treat a women like a queen and say the things he does to her only to turn around and cheat on her?

2007-05-06 11:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by heathernorton674894 1