Marriage & Divorce - 6 May 2007

have a funny feeling that this is not working, we have a youngster and i love my wife and my child with all my heart but from the wife's side i feel no affection, i have tried everything, flowers meals telling her how i feel, asking if there is anything wrong. asked if she still loved me and i got blanked. I really cant leave them that would break me....HELP

2007-05-06 11:01:27 · 8 answers · asked by tricky0000 1

I have 2 daughter one is 9 years old living with my husband and other 15 mon living with me , born after we seperated.Reason he used to beat me and insult me infront of everyone.One day when he tore my clothes in front of evryone, i decided to leave.Irony, is that mother n brother didnt took my side and i am living alone and earning bread to survive.Ater some year of marriage he left the work and I used to do petty work s and used to support my family and kid.When I left i had no idea that i am pregnant, when i realized i asked him that i am coming but he didnt listened, under very hard condition i gave birth to my 2nd kid with support of my frs and started working.He always ask for money when i used to visit my 1st kid, then i left it .My life was hell when i was with him , insult n beating black n blue.It took me 2 years to decide that i want divorce at any cost but he is not willing to gave me?I also dont wont my 1st kid as she is very happy with his father?Please advise ?

2007-05-06 10:54:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are getting divorced. He moved out of the house. Do you think it would be better for the kids if we moved out too? My concern is that even though we are sharing custody of the kids 50/50, they may still feel abandoned by their father since he is the one who moved out. A fresh start in a new place might be better for everyone, but then again I worry that maybe that's asking too much of them to deal with not only their dad moving out but taking them away from their house and friends and all the familiarity of what's always been home to them. What do you think?

2007-05-06 10:48:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately I've been feeling unsexy and depressed because my father died and I have been dealing with weight issues. I found porno CDs in my husband's DVD player that he watched while I was away with my mom grieving over my father's death. I also found porno pictures on his computer. I told him that I am bothered by it and he thinks it's okay to continue doing it eventhough it bothers me. It makes me feel even worse about my weight to see that he's doing this. I've read about why men look at porn a thousand times, and it still doesn't make much sense to me why they NEED to look at a picture of someone, especially bothersome when it's a picture of a girl that's not even his type.

2007-05-06 10:33:43 · 20 answers · asked by bloodelf_girl 2

I know this sounds awful, but after a year of deployment it is hard to find new things to talk about when it calls , its just good to hear his voice. for the both of us its just the same old stuff happening day after day, was wondering what i can say when there is silence.

2007-05-06 09:59:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know what to do. I'm 33, in a two year relationship and engaged, but have been having second thoughts. I love him and think he is great, but I'm also not sure he is the one. I get this feeling that I'd be settling with him, even though when I think about it rationally, he is a great guy. What is going on? Fears or instinct telling me this is not right? Also, when I imagine our future together, I can't help but get happy and teary thinking about how we'd get married, have kids and etc. But, those moments are replaced but doubts about if he's going to be enough, good looking enough, smart enough, fun enough etc. He is sucessful, responsible, easygoing, loving, puts me first in everything, supportive, we have great time together, BUT I get anxiety constantly. My parents also think (not so much say) that he is not good enough...

2007-05-06 09:22:21 · 11 answers · asked by GG 2

Is it always the cheaters fault?
and
Why isn't it looked at as bad when the woman cheats out of unfullfilment

2007-05-06 09:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by Angry EX-DEM 3

Do guys bring random chicks around their family and children?
I have been dating this guy for sometime not very long. Last night as you all know the fight was on, and he invited me to come and watch it with him and his famliy. The crazy thing is I met his daughter for the first time. She is in 4th grade, i wanted to know does this mean anything that im chilling with the family and meeting the daughter. I have met his family before not all of them but a good portion. We are not in a relationship just dating at this point. My question is do you think his easing me into his life slowly, does he want to maybe get into a relationship with me ? And do men bring random chicks their dating around their children what do you guys think i need help.......

2007-05-06 09:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-06 09:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by brian w 4

I have a very stressful job. I love and respect my wife so I would never do the crap with her that I do with a ho. I treat my wife like a queen, I would lose all respect for her if she allowed me to do the dirty raunchy crap I do with ho's to her. That's why God made ho's and that's why you don't marry ho's or strippers.
Do other guys feel the same way?

2007-05-06 08:51:24 · 25 answers · asked by bettercockster1 4

I've been trying to attend a church here in my area, but I've had a hard time finding one. So, one of the girls at work invited me to her church 3 weeks ago but I never attended, due to the fact that I had trouble with the driving directions. My Girlfriend, doesn't want for me to attend church with that girl, because she doesn't like and trust the her. Especially because I've cheated on her in the past. She tells me to find a different church. Well Today after I left my girlfriend at work this morning I met with the girl outside of work and we took off in our separate cars to church. After church we both headed in our own seperate ways. Know if me girlfriend finds out about me meeting someone else behind her back, all hell will break loose. Eventhough Nothing bad happened. Did I do the right or wrong thing?

2007-05-06 08:35:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-06 04:37:40 · 59 answers · asked by Josh 1

I have been involved with a married woman for 4 months. We became lovers 1 week after she was married and she has since moved out of her house,at my urging,and BACK IN with her sister. She did not tell me she was married until HE found out she was having an affair. He is 46, she is 30 and beautiful. He is trying to keep it together by saying she made a mistake and that they should go to counseling. She professes her love for me all the time and says that she wants to be with me, but that she is in a very diffucult situation and she doesn't want to look like a whore. He is actively trying to get her back, even though he knows she is/was having an affair. She is from a foreign country and with him, she had a house and a stable life, and throws this in her face. Her family is pressuring her to reconcile and she may be cracking. She also told me that since she has been with me, she stopped having sex with him, and tend to believe her, since she showed me a letter he wrote her.

2007-05-06 04:10:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-06 03:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it ok to act like your single, possibly date other people, or just make out with people if you are separated? I am curious what most people would say? I am separated and so confused. Am I supposed to remain chaste and wait for things to get better between my mate and I? Or am I supposed to just do whatever I want, assuming that he is also doing whatever he wants? I just want to see what the general view is. I am going to therapy so no suggestions about that please.

2007-05-06 03:29:21 · 16 answers · asked by Am 2

2007-05-06 03:04:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my wife and all but alot of the time she dosent have time for me so i tend to just call a female friend to let loose. i now she would explode if she found out but i need someone to talk to alot of times. i've talked to her about it but she says i want everything my way. any advice?

2007-05-06 02:52:50 · 10 answers · asked by devin 1

2007-05-06 02:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by beach girl 1

My ex-husband has custody of our 15 year old daughter. He left me a voicemail yesterday saying that he is afraid that she will come out like me - no confidence and not able to solve problems in life. I deleted the message and did not listen further after I heard this.

He lived in another state and moved due to job reasons. I am asking him to send her to me since I live in another state.

He wants me to come and live in his house in the same state as my child so that she can finish high school in the same school. I am saying I can live in the same town but separately or send her to me so she can start afresh in a new school/ state.

I am confused by his voicemails. He wants me back yet puts me down by saying that I don't have confidence and can not solve problems in life.

He asked me what I had gained by divorcing him. I said that I make decision on my own. He said what you are doing now you should have done earlier in life.

2007-05-06 02:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

We have one child, but no possessions that we are fighting over. We have worked out an equal visitation schedule. We decided what each of us really wants out of the house. The only real debt we have is our mortgage.

2007-05-06 02:06:08 · 3 answers · asked by tellmethisans 2

I dont class myself as a nagging wife but after today i do question this.. my story is that as usual a woman has 1 million things to do.Sometimes i would like alittle help to do this. So i ask my husband could you do this to help out please or that to help out. i try and get the kids to do their bit also. and i feel as though im asking all the time . im exausted planning organizing asking sorting and all else that goes with the job of being a mum ,wife ,student no wonder we get classed as being NAGS when we have to ask all the time . I am at the stage where i feel as though im begging for help and dont like to ask im fed up listening to my own voice . ive even made a list for all to see. Then im told im a NAG Why cant hubbys spare a thought for all the jobs we have to and OFFER to do them .I wish he would just take charge of the house and kids one day so i could catch my breath.So its like this if i ask for some support in the house and kids im a NAG cheers DAD

2007-05-06 01:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

all the pain and heartache.....would you do it again ?

2007-05-06 01:30:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

and you just found out! happened three months ago

2007-05-06 01:25:29 · 7 answers · asked by lolaray 1

2007-05-06 01:18:05 · 34 answers · asked by little_friend 3

did it or did'nt it work?

2007-05-06 01:13:51 · 5 answers · asked by milo2angel 2

does it make the feelings any different if you've been cheated on only once or three times??

2007-05-06 01:03:34 · 13 answers · asked by lolaray 1

She is married and so does i and now she want me to show the love making clips of me and my wife to her so that she can see how we do and that will help her in bed. Should i really show her the clips?

2007-05-06 01:01:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has married to someone else now and after a long time we were talking and in that conversation i mentioned to her that she was not good in bed and she got pissed out of this and cried a lot. Did i said something wrong / am i not suppose to tell her that?

2007-05-06 00:57:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Fun little question for the ladies at my expense?
I shrunk myself down to an inch tall and you find me hiding in your room, spying on you. What would you do.

Just a fun question.


Just a random question.

2007-05-06 00:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3

2007-05-06 00:43:10 · 12 answers · asked by drsudhirbhalla 1