and you just found out! happened three months ago
2007-05-06 01:25:29 · 7 answers · asked by lolaray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have a zero cheating tolerance. If it just happened once, and the relationship was otherwise good, I MAY (not likely) get over it. However, he cheated three times, even with the same person, is still cheating THREE times. It's a little hard to chalk that up to..oh, I made a mistake.
A "mistake" is something you do once, and say "this was wrong, and I won't do it again". Three times is, "hey, this was fun and let me go back for more".
2007-05-06 01:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated multiple times I would leave. It sounds like the fling with the girl is over, but what about the next girl that peaks his interest. I would have trust issues that would poisin the relationship.
If he cheated again I would be hurt, but before that I would continually check up on him to make sure he didn't do it again.
2007-05-06 08:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...You're gonna have to talk it over w/ him and decide for yourself what you want and if it's worth salvaging (like is he sorry (truthfully), what steps is he gonna take to change i.e. couseling)...Look you will need to talk it over w/ a professional. You don't state wheither or not you even want to stay together. I personally could not live w/ a person that *u*ked someone else...Sorry I just couldn't deal with the imagery that that would represent.
2007-05-06 08:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word "three" comes into play again...
'Leave his a s s'
2007-05-06 08:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say 1 is enough, 2x is too much and 3x is a poison that can kill a person.
I don't think it is wise to let a man cheat a woman 3x.
2007-05-06 08:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave
2007-05-06 08:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that jerk!!
2007-05-06 08:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by jenarul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋