my wife is dominating , even my 7 yrs daughtr doesn't obey me she is living in her parent's house what to do

Answer 1

Doctor Sahib your marriage is in trouble! This the first sign & symptoms of matrimonial split, when wife start domination & children start misbehaving. Take steps immediately. Bring her back to your home where ever you live otherwise you are heading for dissolution of marriage that may take place any time in future. When it happens then you'll remember me. No wife sitting in her parents home with children resume normal matrimonial home later, what may come. This is the hard reality, don’t believe me? Ask any experienced person around you.

Answer 2

Dr Bhalla, we at the forum would be able to help you only when we know your complete problem. In your medical terms it is like you have told what you are feeling but illness is deep rooted and we need to know that too to offer proper suggestion.

Since, your wife is living at parents house, please tell how long this situation has been. Why your daughter disobeys you, is it because of your wife's behaviour towards you or is it something that your in-laws promote. If your in-laws or anybody else promotes it then what steps have you already taken to improve the situation. Coming to your wife, what instigated her behaviour to change. What went wrong to make her decide that marital discord was better than staying with you. How much you think that you were responsible for this mess and if the relations get normalised today, what changes would you bring in yourself and what changes would you like to see in your wife's behaviour.

Either you can ask telling the details here or you can think on these lines and your situation should improve. I would be willing to help you, if you send me the message.

Hope the best for you.

Answer 3

u came to know ur wife is dominating after this much time, that u have 7 years daughter. actually what happens, in starting every thing hides beneath so called love, when fog of love becomes fade, then only one understand the reality, it s not ur fault, it s comman practice.
Now the time is to just make her understand, bring her back. your seven year daughter must be quite understanding all the things, so do not make any situation that disturbs her mental level. so try to normalise the thing. It would be better if you do your own, do not put any middle man, as they only pass their time.

Answer 4

Get your place for you and your family! You must put your foot down to your wife and especially your daughter! Get control of your family before you decide to give up. The communication between you and your wife should be more open. you have to tell your wife she needs to let you control your daughter as well. She can not be teaching your daughter to act this way! She should be teaching her not too!

Answer 5

Learn to be a MAN!!

You are teaching your daughter a wrong lesson. Daughters of such families end up as Divorcees beacuse all men are not spineless like you.

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Answer 6

Get lost. Why you married her in the first place? Had not you seen the golden triangle of any other women earlier, that you gotta hell impressed and thought that only she has that? You deserve it anyway, and what tickles you to write to us about it while you are quite accustomed to it for last eight years.
Get lost and spare us.

Answer 7

Act like a man and step up 2 the plate and take over --- but personally i think it's better [ and alot cleaner] when women rule the house! ,<3 H.m.

Answer 8

you should immediately contact the lawyer and give her legal notice for right of a husband to live with his wife at his resident.This will help you a lot.Mind well you are only sending notice for your marital right .

Answer 9

Just appoint a young & beautiful secretary for your business. If it is not possible, at least arrange for a young & healthy maid srevent

Answer 10

be dominated thats life