We still want an occassional night out. Surprise us and pretend to go out for a newspaper and come back with chinese take out and candles. Go to McD's and get an icecream cone to share while walking hand in hand at the park. I really want to understand...
2007-05-06 11:45:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you assume it does? I think there's plenty of men who enjoy a night out on occasion, too.
But a better question is why women lose interest in sex after marriage?
2007-05-06 12:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should be a good balance between the two. We still go on date nights or have special dinners at home. It's a nice gesture to show someone that you still think of them as attractive, desirable, etc. I still tuck little notes into my husband's lunch or his pocket. I don't want my husband to ever imagine I don't think he's the best thing since sliced bread so I make a regular effort to let him know that I still find him very sexy. There isn't always time or opportunity, we live a regular and busy life with two jobs and a house, etc. But we do try to make an effort to avoid becoming complacent. I think complacency is laziness and taking for granted.
2016-05-17 05:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They already have us they don't have to make fools out of themselves anymore.That is their words not mine.When I got married many moons ago I kept asking my husband the same question and he wouldn't answer me so I started to read book after book and have learned it's all in the chase.When the challenge is gone and he has you,he has won the game.Game over now he can relax.
2007-05-06 12:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the whole point of doing it stopped, which was getting married to you or something.
It's like the typical thing and totally expected from guys. But if he doesn't do it anymore, don't be like him, you should surprise him with those beautiful things, and this might actually encourage your man to do them again.
2007-05-06 11:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most guys are change there focus from there wife to there family and they forget that in order to have a family there is a wife that need to separated attention. i learn about 2 year ago about this and i almost lost my wife and now after 14 years and 9 years of marriage i under stand. so if i were you tell your hubby your feeling so you he does not walk down the road that i all most did.. Good luck.
2007-05-06 12:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats a very good question there i was married for only a year and half and all the romance stopped and communication and i was last on my husbands list and guess what we are seperated now and we will be getting a divorce and i gave him lots of attention so i will not be getting remarried in the future
2007-05-06 12:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by jewels 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it does'nt with all men,i love to do those things.my wife seems to think that i over do it,is there such a thing as over doing it?But i look back and can see alot of things my wife use to do that she no longer does.I just think after people are married for a while they get to comfortable,and just take it for granted,that their spouse will always be there no matter what.
2007-05-06 12:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by 8seconds 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw, sorry you don't have the type of husband you want. However, there is no rule saying you can't nudge him or urge him into participating in these types of things; don't leave it all up to him, you are a partnership.
2007-05-07 02:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the whole point of doing it stopped, which was getting married to you or something.
2007-05-06 18:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Metab A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called "court-ship", its the male instinct to get the attention of the female, male like to hunt , and thats their tool.
2007-05-06 12:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bionicgirlz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋